Making love vs. fucking.....

Usually starts as making love, turns into fucking, ends with making love again.
 
Fucking. Even the tender passionate stuff tends to get harder and faster as we get into it.

Maybe fucking hard, rough, and fast is our version of making love.
 
I have a slightly different take on this as I am in a committed relationship with a wonderful woman who I love immensely. When we first started dating, we would fuck like jack rabbits. She would be super horny and so turned on that she would be dripping as soon as I got her panties off. It would be hard, grinding, pounding fucking with lots of dirty talk. Flash forward 6-7 years later and we now have sex once, maybe if we are lucky, twice a week. We love making out, but it lacks the intensity of our initial dating sexual forays. I regularly look at other women and wonder what it would be like to fuck them! Of course, I wouldn't do this for real and neither would I tell my partner about these fantasies. I love making love to her, but I flat out miss fucking some woman hard, deep and full of carnal lust. I don't think she would understand that I love her but I also dream of fucking other women..sigh..so, what do I prefer? The intensity of fucking, for sure!
 
I like both.

A good hard fuck at night, during the day... but a nice, gentle, love making when you first wake up all soft and warm under the covers.
 
Mmmm every once in a while, making love it nice, but generally, I like to start off slow and then really fuck.....hard
 
It depends on how much time I have. Usually it's a hard fucking and if time allows round two starts out making love and then turns into fucking. If it's outside or somewhere risky then it's always fucking. Although there was the time we were in the hot tub with two other couples and it was making love, as to not be so noticeable! Lol
 
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Weeelll... for me, I like a hard fuck.

Making love is nice for when you just wake up in the morning and you're all warm and tired. Although warm seems to be a foreign concept here in Minnesota... :p

I hear you. I am from Minnesota also. We could use it to warm up!
 
Both are exceptional when the mood is right for either. If I had to chose only one it would absolutely be making love. The ability to connect with your lover on more than a physical level simply intensifies every touch, every feeling, every sensation. It turns something very pleasurable into a sensational experience that words can't describe, the heart can't contain, and can bring tears to your eyes.

Fucking may be extremely pleasurable to the body, but making love connects the heart, mind, body, and soul into one and takes the two of you to another place void of time and care. I'll take making love ANY day!
 
There's a time and place for both. Depends on my mood, my partner, the alignment of the stars...
 
Both - making love is for your wife, and fucking is for others. There is a difference, but I cant seem to get that thought into my wifes head.

Why can't you fuck your wife? I like to be made love to sometimes, and fucked other times. Why on earth can't I have both?
 
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