Making love vs. fucking.....

[Tenenbaum]

Why can't you fuck your wife? I like to be made love to sometimes, and fucked other times. Why on earth can't I have both?

See? You know what's up.

 

[_Hawkmoon_]

Making love

 

[JasonGuitar]

Hmmm, depends.

For me, it's sometimes a combination- I like small moments of softness intermixed with a whole lotta' raucous fucking. Why settle for just one when you can have both? That's my motto, anyway.

Agree 100%. Sometimes I just want to grab her hips and fuck her hard, fast and deep. Other times I like being close, face to face, sliding in and out of her nice and slow, our bodies pressed together. And these could happen during the same sex session.

 

[screwher]

My wife

I agree, I think both are possible with a husband/wife... It just depends on what your doing and how you're doing it at the time as to whether you're making love or fucking.

Agreed. Also since I only have sex with my wife our "fucking" and "lovemaking" are one and the same.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Why can't you fuck your wife? I like to be made love to sometimes, and fucked other times. Why on earth can't I have both?

Big +1 on that

 

[DesEsseintes]

I agree that they are often intermingled in the same session. Even if we start off with what's intended to be a 'quickie', once we've both cum we'll often slow things down and return to making love. Similarly, love-making often (not always) builds up into something a hell of a lot more urgent and driven that might as well be called fucking.

So for me it's not so much 'both' as 'it's all sex'. Do we have different words for oral, depending on whether it's tongue fucking, alphabet count-down, clit -circling, etc, etc?

Ah. I may have just answered my own question there! But you take my point, I'm sure...

 

[TinyWetPanties]

Both!

There has been times when my partner is fucking me hard and good, and we just are THERE, I can look at him and feel the love and adoration.

Then there has been the moments where we are in bed and his is touching me, almost worshiping my body. He's running his hands all over my body,kissing me, and telling me how he loves me, that leads to a urgent fuck-me-now vibe.

Being in love with the person you are fucking is the best.

 

[JustAGoodGirl]

*****

 

[DesEsseintes]

depends on my mood really. If I want some romance and caring the love making is much better. But when i'm drunk or high then it's definitely fucking I crave.

Interesting - a bit like food, then? Does anyone EVER crave a kebab when sober? Conversely, as Dylan Moran pointed out, has anyone ever come home from the pub roaring drunk saying, "I NEED A SALAD NOW!"

 

[islandguy]

Lovingly Fuck and Fuckingly Love...

 

[Beck31]

Making love. Anything else would be uncivilised.

 

[knottygirl]

Since sex has a lot in common with our other appetitive drive, I've ranked the following types of sex in order of preference and compared them to a food item.

1) Pure fucking: The complete absence of love is necessary. In fact, if I hate you a little bit, all the better. This is like cheesecake. Decadently delicious, but not very good for you. Eat too much, and it starts to taste bad. Practice in moderation.

2) Making love with someone you love: This is like a savory, well-balanced meal. It fulfills your sexual needs as well as your need for emotional intimacy. But it takes some work to prepare and requires that your relationship be in a good place.

3) Fucking someone you love: It's like reduced calorie cheesecake. It's good, but it kind of makes you yearn for the full calorie version. If you have recently been in a fight and are still a little mad at each other, the experience is enhanced.

4) Making love with someone you don't love. Also known as "bad sex". This is like a 99 cent frozen meal.

 

[ncheelsmilf]

Since sex has a lot in common with our other appetitive drive, I've ranked the following types of sex in order of preference and compared them to a food item.

1) Pure fucking: The complete absence of love is necessary. In fact, if I hate you a little bit, all the better. This is like cheesecake. Decadently delicious, but not very good for you. Eat too much, and it starts to taste bad. Practice in moderation.

2) Making love with someone you love: This is like a savory, well-balanced meal. It fulfills your sexual needs as well as your need for emotional intimacy. But it takes some work to prepare and requires that your relationship be in a good place.

3) Fucking someone you love: It's like reduced calorie cheesecake. It's good, but it kind of makes you yearn for the full calorie version. If you have recently been in a fight and are still a little mad at each other, the experience is enhanced.

4) Making love with someone you don't love. Also known as "bad sex". This is like a 99 cent frozen meal.

I really could not of put it any better myself.

 

[Tara S]

Since sex has a lot in common with our other appetitive drive, I've ranked the following types of sex in order of preference and compared them to a food item.

1) Pure fucking: The complete absence of love is necessary. In fact, if I hate you a little bit, all the better. This is like cheesecake. Decadently delicious, but not very good for you. Eat too much, and it starts to taste bad. Practice in moderation.

2) Making love with someone you love: This is like a savory, well-balanced meal. It fulfills your sexual needs as well as your need for emotional intimacy. But it takes some work to prepare and requires that your relationship be in a good place.

3) Fucking someone you love: It's like reduced calorie cheesecake. It's good, but it kind of makes you yearn for the full calorie version. If you have recently been in a fight and are still a little mad at each other, the experience is enhanced.

4) Making love with someone you don't love. Also known as "bad sex". This is like a 99 cent frozen meal.

Nice!

 

[PullnPray]

Since sex has a lot in common with our other appetitive drive, I've ranked the following types of sex in order of preference and compared them to a food item.

1) Pure fucking: The complete absence of love is necessary. In fact, if I hate you a little bit, all the better. This is like cheesecake. Decadently delicious, but not very good for you. Eat too much, and it starts to taste bad. Practice in moderation.

2) Making love with someone you love: This is like a savory, well-balanced meal. It fulfills your sexual needs as well as your need for emotional intimacy. But it takes some work to prepare and requires that your relationship be in a good place.

3) Fucking someone you love: It's like reduced calorie cheesecake. It's good, but it kind of makes you yearn for the full calorie version. If you have recently been in a fight and are still a little mad at each other, the experience is enhanced.

4) Making love with someone you don't love. Also known as "bad sex". This is like a 99 cent frozen meal.

Well done! Very insightful.

 

[IntmtStrngr]

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Hmmm, depends.

For me, it's sometimes a combination- I like small moments of softness intermixed with a whole lotta' raucous fucking. Why settle for just one when you can have both? That's my motto, anyway.

This is the kind of attitude I could live with...

 

[wesson45]

I love fucking hard and grinding till she has a hell of a orgasm

 

[Lustingmeg13]

Mm fucking always gets me soo hot

 

[dchockeyman]

Against the wall, clothes-tearing fucking is the best.

 

[Beck31]

Meh. Unless you're a Victorian prostitute and client I definitely opt for making love.

 

[Brian_m35]

It all depends on her mood. If she wants it done quick then it's fucking and all bets are off on who is going to cum first. If she wants to enjoy the feeling for a while then we make love slowly and I make sure she cums before I do.

 

[BigDaddy71231863]

Fucking long and hard.

 

[Thickguy4]

Which do you prefer?

Depends on the situation. I love my wife but there are times when I just want to fuck... depends on the mood I guess.. both can be amazing but it only works when both parties are on the same page.

If I'm lying in bed playing with my wife's nipples while we watch TV I'm pretty sure I'll get her wound up enough that she just wants to fuck my brains out.... if she's stoking my cock at the same time then it's going to happen......

Sitting at concert.... dark corner.... my hand around her shoulder.... dropping down to the "V" of her shirt... reaching in and rubbing her hard nipple while we sit there.... we fucked in the bathroom.....

 

[Lisalit13]

Depends....but more recently...its been a lot of fucking......like I want it and I want it now kind of fucking

 

[Bengal52]

Most of the time, it's fucking for me. Occasionally making love is worth the time to dit right.o