married but lonely..

[jack1168]

I think it also helps somewhat to my relationship with my husband. I feel guilty and bad for my husband so I do extra for.him.
I'm just glad that I'm not alone on this topic. What really turns me on is that I'm not another married women. Even with the ring on my finger I still have game..

Hey Kelly - I'm sure you still have game. Something erotic about another mans wife and getting her to do things she shouldn't be doing.

 

[BentSecrets]

I think it also helps somewhat to my relationship with my husband. I feel guilty and bad for my husband so I do extra for.him.
I'm just glad that I'm not alone on this topic. What really turns me on is that I'm not another married women. Even with the ring on my finger I still have game..

oooh, and you're a SoCal girl! Shoot me a PM, maybe we could figure something fun out

 

[LindsayRae]

Like the thought of cheating with another woman without my fiances knowledge of course

So, what turns you on with the idea of cheating on your fiancée? Just curious.

 

[LindsayRae]

Oh. Okay.

 

[annievee99]

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

I think about it often, but I play it out online, rather than getting myself into some situation in the "real world."

However, if I ever did finally act on an urge, I think it would be with a woman, not a man. I've had men, but no experience with women, and it's what really makes my panties sticky lately.

 

[LindsayRae]

No. But that's just me.

 

[TexasWife25]

Its deff a fun fantasy

Having the forbidden ... the risk ... hiding, sneaking around...

 

[TexasWife25]

What's best part for you texaswife?

The secrecy I think..

trying to figure out ways to hide or get away with it...

I love the whole taboo aspect..

 

[winepleasures]

I think about it often, but I play it out online, rather than getting myself into some situation in the "real world."

However, if I ever did finally act on an urge, I think it would be with a woman, not a man. I've had men, but no experience with women, and it's what really makes my panties sticky lately.

hawt...

 

[winepleasures]

The secrecy I think..

trying to figure out ways to hide or get away with it...

I love the whole taboo aspect..

it is a delicious thought. It's finding the right person that's the hard part....

 

[Stanstheman]

*subscribes*

 

[paulstories]

The eroticism of the illicit, the dangerous..also found an openness and intimacy that never had with wife and which she didn't want anyway..

 

[klippert]

Or "there"...

sorry teacher....I had a little Their or There goof up...

Lets try this again.....THERE is an element of excitement....

Guess I wuz a little excited thinking about it.....

 

[LindsayRae]

As fondly as you speak of your wife, posting her pics and all, it's almost amazing that you're in the "married but lonely" crowd looking for more!

 

[mustang_driver]

.................

 

[StrayKat]

I was wondering if others have fantasy about cheating..
It turns me on when I think about sleeping with other guys.. of course it's fun as long as I don't get caught..

I can sleep around with whomever I want when I want. My husband doesnt mind. He joins if possible.
So technically I dont believe I could "cheat" on him.

I he was different I think I would scrap the idea. Secrecy, hiding doesnt have much appeal for me.

 

[klippert]

As fondly as you speak of your wife, posting her pics and all, it's almost amazing that you're in the "married but lonely" crowd looking for more!

I suppose I could get into the whole aspect of why I have shown an interest in this thread...But, then I would take away from the thread it's self. My angle, My loneliness comes from lack of intimacy and sex: Mrs K admits she had, at one time, Lost her sex drive. NO interest at all...That left my mind to wander....and we all know what happens with an idle mind.

Of late she seems too be getting that 'grove' back. In my opinion, we all have a little of the.....if I wouldn't get caught.....Would I.

I'm not out looking, cursing or a member of any 'hook-up' sites...She knows I'm signed up her and two other sites (pic post sites manly). I guess we could say, Lit and these other sites are a soft-mistress.

 

[sofiredog]

marriage does get lonely sometime, i guess that's why this place exists and for me it does help make things better in my situation, i guess the safe alternative to cheating, yeah i do think like a guy i guess and don't consider it cheating without penetration. and really i have great sex at home, just not enough to keep me satisfie, sowhat's a guy to do, go looking for something else or work it out in fantasies??

 

[Trent_68]

On the flip side, somehow knowing a woman is married makes her more attractive and the sex hotter, not sure why...

 

[warner34]

Is that desire to cheat that led me to this forum. Meeting others with the same fantasies and being able to chat about it with like minded people really helps a lot. If you feel comfortable with someone in particular you can take it further with fantasy chat, vid, pic exchange, etc.

For some people it helps. For others it makes them bolder in real life.

 

[prettykitty78]

I must say I am not really for the cheating aspect of this... but will not say I havent had my little daydreams or that if this guy i daydream about was ever to hint if Id say no only because I have wanted him longer than Ive even known my current guy. But yes we are all human and its in our nature to want others that is why cheating is soooo common. But as long as there is an open relationship then that isnt cheating and that couple might actually love one another a lot more. As long the when doing "other things" the heart is not involved and its just for fun.

 

[sammiluvscock]

Never cheated on a bf, don't think I'd do it either. I only ever go out with boys I have really strong feelings for, s its never been a bond I'd break. Not to say I don't understand why people would do it, and I have shared my bf with others on occasion.

 

[sweetkelly]

Is that desire to cheat that led me to this forum. Meeting others with the same fantasies and being able to chat about it with like minded people really helps a lot. If you feel comfortable with someone in particular you can take it further with fantasy chat, vid, pic exchange, etc.

For some people it helps. For others it makes them bolder in real life.

I definitely agree with you on that.. also texaswife..
I just like the idea of getting guys attention while satisfy other craves.
Like.... I like pasta.. but time to time I crave steak.. I or ice cream... or chocolate ...

 

[Frizzle_Fry]

Never cheated on a bf, don't think I'd do it either. I only ever go out with boys I have really strong feelings for, s its never been a bond I'd break. Not to say I don't understand why people would do it, and I have shared my bf with others on occasion.

I'm the same with all the women I have dated and my ex wife...however I have been burned enough and I try not to be jaded about but it's really fucking hard sometimes. At this point in life I have a 3mo relationship life span before I get antsy and move along.

 

[wotan92]

Essence

And sweetkelly... what perfume do you choose?