Freckleface
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It was from my husband about a month ago
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Hey freckle, I thought is was a male domain...(being ignored.. sneaking lit time. partner not interested, leaving the boudoir in the middle of the night etc) hugs to you. yeah, it can be frustrating... there is nothing like sexual release to calm me down and get soem good sleep. if only it was that easy...
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I hate it sometimes that everytime he has a need if like has to be fullfilled right away but when I have a need the eyes get rolled at me "You always want sex." Believe me he would die if he knew how often I really wanted it. I only go to him when I really really really want it.
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I hate it sometimes that everytime he has a need if like has to be fullfilled right away but when I have a need the eyes get rolled at me "You always want sex." Believe me he would die if he knew how often I really wanted it. I only go to him when I really really really want it.
Poor guy.
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I can take that two ways. Care to clarify?
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That the Hubby couldn't keep up. Leaves openings.
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Seems like your thread is coming along, JonnyD
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Bet a prince charming would never do that. On me it leaves three openings.
I was raised to be charming, not sincere dear.
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Bet a prince charming would never do that. On me it leaves three openings.
Three sounds about just right to me.
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Too bad we husbands who are in need can't connect with the wives in need. Life would be so much easier and less frustrating.
TryHarder, last week I had enough of the saying no. So when my wife came home from work we did the standard kiss hello in the kitchen. Before she could react I had her pants and panties below her knees and I was between her legs with my magic tongue. We had sex for the next four days when she came home. Although with my illness I wasn't always able to get off myself the play time was awesome. Anyways I am one who believe you should cum first.
TryHarder, last week I had enough of the saying no. So when my wife came home from work we did the standard kiss hello in the kitchen. Before she could react I had her pants and panties below her knees and I was between her legs with my magic tongue. We had sex for the next four days when she came home. Although with my illness I wasn't always able to get off myself the play time was awesome. Anyways I am one who believe you should cum first.
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I hate it sometimes that everytime he has a need if like has to be fullfilled right away but when I have a need the eyes get rolled at me "You always want sex." Believe me he would die if he knew how often I really wanted it. I only go to him when I really really really want it.
I'm in the same boat. We're both in our early 30's and I want it all the time. I would love to have "the horny husband" who couldn't keep his hands off me no matter where we were.When we were younger he'd take me anywhere he felt like...his parent's pool with them just across the yard or even a bathroom somewhere. These days the frequency and spontaneity has died. He has no clue that I lurk Lit all the time.
complete opposite for me, i want the horny wife who let me take her anywhere anytime..
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Hey,
I'm married, and since being a lit member have found that talking to other men about my desires and needs has really reignited things with dear old hubby. Our marriage is unusual I'd say in that we are polyamorous, and my sex drive is through the roof unlike his, but we'd got dangerously close to comfy territory and I'm very thankful to the fellas I've spoken to thus far for their valuable input
I'm married, and since being a lit member have found that talking to other men about my desires and needs has really reignited things with dear old hubby. Our marriage is unusual I'd say in that we are polyamorous, and my sex drive is through the roof unlike his, but we'd got dangerously close to comfy territory and I'm very thankful to the fellas I've spoken to thus far for their valuable input
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My suggestion would be to tell him about your lurking on Lit. Find a story that turns you on, then share it with him. Just a quick email or such with a link, tell him how the story made you feel. How wet you got when you read it, something along those lines.
When we are honest about our feelings and desires, change is most likely to occur.
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I have the same problem
She's asleep by 8:30
I'd very much enjoy some stimulating chat that was frank and descriptive
She's asleep by 8:30
I'd very much enjoy some stimulating chat that was frank and descriptive
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thats no good... i hope that lit will be able to satisfy you, would love to chat sometime, but most of all good luck.
nice thread jonny
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I completely agree with you. I've tried sharing things with him, he just doesn't know they came from here.
He's a good man and I would hate for anything I write here to be seen as bashing him in any way. With us both working and raising our children I know things can get stressful and mundane. I try to keep my appearance pleasing to him...from my hair length, to my weight, to my clothes, and makeup. It's all for him. He loves that his coworkers call me "hot" and he always tells me how attractive he thinks I am. He's great with his words, but I'm more of a service oriented girl. Words and gifts dont mean a whole lot to me. I feel the most loved when he arranges for us to have time together, or puts something off to have some fun in the bedroom. I just miss that animal drive he used to have. I tried to get him to go to a hotel during his lunch one day or at least let me give him some love in the car but it was a big no from him. The crazy thing is he has no idea how many things I'd love for him to do to me. I have shared a few ideas with him and he tries, but I can tell it's not for him. We watched porn together a few weeks ago and I think I scared him a bit with my likes. There is one with Nacho Vidal and Melissa Lauren that gets me every time. I hate professional porn but if I could only watch one for the rest of my life, that would be the one I'd choose. I've thought about holding out a bit on him to see if he'd get worked up enough to just take me, but let's face it...any time he's offering I'm there with bells on.
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I'm on my way to not being married any more (her idea, not mine) and I wish she had been more adventurous like the ladies here. Our marriage had become "terminally comfy" and the the spontaneity and drive in her faded away with the years. It's a sad thing to see and it's all too common.
Freckleface
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I'm so sorry. I know how you feel. It's sad when one person wants so much to give pleasure to their spouse and it isn't wanted. *hugs*
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(((HUGS))) thank you FF. It's truly sad situation and it happens to both men and women.
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