Netzach
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It could be because I'm tired but I was thinking - I really should not be heard all the time!
Seriously. I sometimes get my panties in a bunch and need to just be sent to the corner.
I'm the same. And I've actually become better at realizing this through M. Just because I have rights and muscle and blah blah blah, what's the point of creating mountains of unhappiness over my neeeed to be heaaaaard. Meh. I've actually learned to let things ride more often, because of his sensitivities and quirks. Sometimes when I really want to have a fight or make an issue, M's seeming indifference or casualness makes me realize my huge problem ISN'T a BFD of the highest order and induces me to go solve that mofo.
I find myself a million times a day going "well it's crazy and annoying that way, but he really loves it so better happy than not." Just like the most dedicated of D/s slavegirls, only here I'd rather have a purring kitty than one peeing outside his litterbox.
I have the Things That Matter that are done for my benefit. I pick my battles.
To me it's part of the normalcy of living around one another. Same wine different bottle.
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