Masturbation Survey: Pre-meditated vs. spontaneous

[loneeyes]

Almost always premeditated. I get very little alone time, so when I do, I usually jump straight for some self-love, because I know I may not get another chance for a while.

 

[hilton1958]

It seems like many posters here, would like more time alone for masturbation than they currently get, myself included. I seriously look forward to my "me" time, which doesn't happen nearly enough. Of course there is always my shower time, but that is a quickie, and I enjoy leisurely masturbation much more.

 

[MrFoxwood]

It seems like many posters here, would like more time alone for masturbation than they currently get, myself included. I seriously look forward to my "me" time, which doesn't happen nearly enough. Of course there is always my shower time, but that is a quickie, and I enjoy leisurely masturbation much more.

Yes, exactly. To do it at my leisure, slowly, idly, laying down on a bed. Have my needs grown so simple?

 

[hilton1958]

Yes, exactly. To do it at my leisure, slowly, idly, laying down on a bed. Have my needs grown so simple?

Actually busy now, between reading lit, wife went off enexpectedly for breakfast with a gf, too good an opportunity to waste.

 

[PoisonedEve]

At times everybody needs some private sex

 

[hilton1958]

At times everybody needs some private sex

So true, just being yourself, with yourself.

 

[PoisonedEve]

So true, just being yourself, with yourself.

Yes. And then there are times....lol

 

[CharlieGG]

Interesting... now I think this is probably 50/50 for me...

 

[Pink_Milkmaid]

Love premeditated. Probably about 70% spontaneous, 30% premeditated for me, depending on the week.

 

[ShyMaleSub]

Love premeditated. Probably about 70% spontaneous, 30% premeditated for me, depending on the week.

So, how's this week going.

 

[newhere2learn]

Yes, exactly. To do it at my leisure, slowly, idly, laying down on a bed. Have my needs grown so simple?

Haven't had that sort of alone time for about two months. Most have been hurried (30 minutes max) of late.

I used to get whole 4-6 hour blocks to my self at university, was amazing. On occasion I'd spend a full day naked, on the bed, with the laptop on lit and porn... Toys at hand.

5 cums in 8 hours whilst my ex was at work, 3 of which whilst riding her 10" dildo.

Was amazing.

 

[Woolmohair]

Most days, I know that I will masturbate, typically when going in to bed. I suppose I do meditate upon it in advance, collecting visualization material as I go through my day, signing onto Lit., before turning in, maybe a little erotic chat or observances of others' thoughts, thinking, throughout the day, of the - pleasures of masturbation, and creating scenarios in my mind.
In times past, I would masturbate whenever possible spontaneously. Maybe I'd have the house to myself, or I'd be driving on a highway, and my mind would be wandering, perhaps in the shower, ....
At this point, if I have the time, and I am so aroused, I might treat myself to a little play time with some of my fav-o-rite things, but I want to take the time time to enjoy it. I times past, I was happy to grab hold and Squinck, Squink, Squink, 'til the volcano erupted, and continue on with the day.