Masturbation: When?

[KJGirlie]

Haha, I am so glad I'm not the only woman with deffective masturbatory instincts.. I don't orgasm through masturbation either. When I was younger (15? 16?) I would think I was getting close and quit because I was scared, but since then I have tried to "seal the deal" and it just hasn't happened for me. It still is a release- it feels good- just not like an orgasm. Honestly I don't think I have the patience for it, after years of trying unsuccessfully why should I waste my time when I have a loving man around?

 

[phreakywoman]

I first started masturbating when I was 15. I'm 35 and average 8 or 9 times a day.

 

[Amaterasu]

Miss Victoria-- One of my college roommates remembers starting to masturbate when she was five as well.... didn't know what it was all about, but knew it felt damn good.

Myself, on the other hand, (no pun intended) didn't start masturbating until i was 17..... 3 years AFTER i started having sex. Go figure. Chalk it up to Catholic guilt....

At first, I wouldn't even touch myself with my fingers, because i thought it was dirty... i would use the back of a spoon to rub my clit while i had phone sex with my boyfriend at the time ( I should call him and thank him for getting me into it... hee hee)

Luckily, I'm a lot less uptight now.... even been known to sample my own juices from time to time.... striking change from the days where I would make the boyfriend brush his teeth and wash his face before kissing me if he had gone 'downtown'.

K

BTW--- Masturbation is NEVER wrong, unless it rules your life. Its as natural as scratching an itch. American culture is so puritanical, it makes me sad that people worry that they started masturbating too early.. etc. Love yourself-- LITerally

 

[methpez]

probably 9 or 10

I masturbate about 1 to 2 times a day its more for my own good. I hate having a hard on in public . I would say that ist my woman's fault but she's just that good. I get thinking about ther and jsut end up with a hard on. whell what am i to do leave it ther and go on with my day.

 

[The_old_man]

My first mastibatory experiances were around age six. A boy neighbor and I began playing with each other. He had watched his older brother and sister doing each other. He told me about it and we 'did' each other two or three times a week. Did it solo another two or three .

My first attempt at intercourse was with his younger sister. She was only five and had played with both of us several times. The result was a sore prick and crotch, no lubrication. She later(about a year) learned to wet things with saliva so we could get into her.
That was when I started lickin crotch. We would do a 69 to get each other lubricated then fuck 'till we dried off.

I did both boys and girls about equaly, both manualy and oraly, through high school. Switched to one woman exclusivly while in college.

Still jerk-off at least once a week if my wife hasen't taken the edge off.

 

[lilpriss]

Huskie, masturbating at the age of five isn't "BULL" I can remember in kindergarten... during the winter, when we had to hang our coats on the backs of our chairs... that I always kept mine in my lap and would squeeze it between my legs because "it felt good"

The teacher noticed and made me stop quite a few times... may not have been bringing off ... but it developed into masturbation, squeezing a pillow between the legs and rubbing my crotch into it as I got older. This DID bring me to orgasm many a times....

Then I learned about my clit and now I am very proficient.... I would love to masturbate twice a day... however don't always have the time or the patience...

 

[DevilBoy79]

hmm if i remember right i first did this at like 12-13 not sure how many times etc, but wasnt alot, its just a quick fix, if i have to resort to it when i cant get any

 

[Miguelito Breathstealer]

Five doesn't surprize me at all.

I grew up in a progressive family full of teachers and medical personel. I also grew up the same house where several of my aunts and uncles were still teenagers. Therefore, I grew up reasonably well aware of sex and sexuality. While no one ever said the word "masturbation," I knew full well what I was doing. Furthermore, so did one of the neighbor girls who live down my street. We would frequently examine eachother as part of a game she invented. At night, I would often fantasize about various individuals who I found attractive -- playmates and cousins.

I have never thought that it was unhealthy or wrong, though I did find it wise to hide it from my very Catholic family for most of my youth. I made it a point to keep such things private.

What I never understood was how this act was related to making babies however. I was very confused by the common use of the term "sleeping together." I figured it was safe for two lovers to fool around as long as they slept in separate beds. This largely explained the commonality of married couples with separate beds on TV.

I never had an orgasm, however, until I was around nine years. It came as a surprize. I was actually frightened that I might have broken something. It took me about a half hour of self examination to convince myself I was all right.

On the topic of frequency, I started in my early years restricting it to being a bedtime activity that I used to get to sleep. Once I had experienced orgasm however, I found my interest increase dramatically. By the time I was sixteen, I was averaging about six a day. My actual sex life was vertually nil, but that was as much fear of STD's as it was anything else.

Anyway, kids, I think your normal.

 

[Mavisthecat]

I started at the tender age of five.

Me too. I used it to get to sleep. My neighbour and I used to masturbate each other during sleep overs. We would have races to see who could reach orgasm first, sometimes sabbotaging the other persons orgasm if we were close so that we could win. I am still an avid masturbator.

 

[jodarby]

Young

I started so early that I have no memory of the first time. It was very young though. When I slept I used to rub my erection into the bed and orgasm. As some people mentioned here, it isn't a wet climax but rather a dry one. There is no ejaculate. Hower, it is indeed an orgasm. I am just wondering about the women here who masturbated early. Did they actually get wet when they played?

Jo

 

[Mavisthecat]

Re: Young

I am just wondering about the women here who masturbated early. Did they actually get wet when they played?

Jo

Yes. I did get wet when I masturbated. It was pretty much the same scenerio as it is now.

Mavis

 

[Belilica]

I discovered that it felt good to touch myself at a young age too. I think i was 5 or 6. Now I masturbate on a daily basis, but I find that I cant get off unless my partner is in the room with me, watching me. Sometimes it even motivates him to join me. Does anyone else find ti a bit strange that I can't get off without an audience?

Bel

 

[welshman]

I discovered that it felt good to touch myself at a young age too. I think i was 5 or 6. Now I masturbate on a daily basis, but I find that I cant get off unless my partner is in the room with me, watching me. Sometimes it even motivates him to join me. Does anyone else find ti a bit strange that I can't get off without an audience?

Bel

Use your camera and you could have a very big audience

 

[Guest]

Thanks for the replies everyone, great to know I'm normal .

 

[Belilica]

Use your camera and you could have a very big audience

Hehe... I guess I could, the only prob is that I dont think i could post it on the net cause I would feel too self conscious about it, but thanks for the idea... I shall give it a try

Bel

 

[jodarby]

Wow.

I first started masturbating when I was 15. I'm 35 and average 8 or 9 times a day.

8 or 9 times a day, you say?

Jo

 

[DarkkSeduction]

late starter

I didnt even try masterbation till after my divorce so i was like 25....and now i wouldnt stop for anyone

 

[LordByron777]

This is my first posting on the forum here-- but I've been reading posts for almost a week and I love this place.
Anyway, I believe I started at 12? 13 maybe. Usually only 2 or 3 times a week at first. As others have said, at first it was dry, but after a few months I guess puberty kicked in and I started to ejaculate. The first time I did that shocked the hell out of me!
Since then I have tried numerous ways to get myself to orgasm. During high school it was probably up to five times a week. Even now I do it quite frequently because my wife is very non-sexual; we are married but might as well just be roommates or something. Anyway, thank God for the Internet!

 

[joolushko]

Lord Byron, it is my first day around here too.

I started when I was 14. I remember working at the movie theatre and there were no customers. I was doing it righ there next to the popcorn.

Want some butter with that?

 

[Lord Emu]

I started masturbating at 13 and at first it was only about twice a day. Now I do it about 4 times a day.

 

[alphacat]

Yum yum. I started about age 11, a few times a week then, about the same now, though sometimes I get really horny and will need to a few times in one day. At first, it was all clitoral stimulation - I didn't start putting things (fingers, small objects, etc) inside myself until high school.

 

[KHAN-E]

I started with some general rubbing at about 8 or 9. My older sister and I shared a bedroom. She caugt me when I was 11. She was 13. She showed me how to REALLY masturbate. I had my first orgasm that day.

I have never quit! I masturbate at least 6 or 7 times a day!!

I even post here in the nude while buzzing myself with vibs!!! I almost always manage a couple of really good CUMS when i'm here on Lit.