Men or women - what’s the most submissive position you’ve ever been fucked up the ass in?

I guess I don't consider it to be a submissive act - I just love it and it is a part of sexual activities me and my FWB do.

But since we also play in BDSM (switching), I'd say that the most submissive was when I was tied to her bed, on my belly with my bottom propped up by several pillows underneath me, blindfolded and gagged.
 
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I guess I don't consider it to be a submissive act - I just love it and it is a part of sexual activities me and my FWB do.

But since we also play in BDSM (switching), I'd say that the most submissive was when I was tied to her bed, on my belly with my bottom propped up by several pillows underneath me, blindfolded and gagged.

Ce qui me rend dingue quand je suis attachée sur un lit dans cette position c'est que je ne sais absolument pas qui me baise , j'entends que des mecs entrent dans la chambre, j'entends que ça discute derrière moi, je sent les bites qui m'enculent, je jouie fort, mais je ne sais pas qui me baise et ça c'est divin.
 
Ce qui me rend dingue quand je suis attachée sur un lit dans cette position c'est que je ne sais absolument pas qui me baise , j'entends que des mecs entrent dans la chambre, j'entends que ça discute derrière moi, je sent les bites qui m'enculent, je jouie fort, mais je ne sais pas qui me baise et ça c'est divin.
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What drives me crazy when I'm tied to a bed in this position is that I have absolutely no idea who's fucking me, I hear guys coming into the room, I hear people talking behind me, I feel the cocks that fuck me, I cum hard, but I don't know who is fucking me and that's divine.
 
I guess I don't consider it to be a submissive act - I just love it and it is a part of sexual activities me and my FWB do.

But since we also play in BDSM (switching), I'd say that the most submissive was when I was tied to her bed, on my belly with my bottom propped up by several pillows underneath me, blindfolded and gagged.
I agree it’s not inherently submissive. I’m not sure if I posted on this thread or another, I’ve felt dominant at times being fucked up the ass. For example, a few times I was with transsexuals or cross dressers who clearly preferred bottoming, but I wanted the dick. In those cases I would pay on top of them and make out while kissing them like I would do to a woman I was about to fuck. At certain point, I slide up so I’m in cowgirl position and rub their hard cock through my cheeks. Before they know it, I put a condom on them, spit lube it and guide it inside me. I control the ride, and when I cum all over their belly. That to me is dominant.

So it comes down to how I worded the post! And I would say being propped up, tied up, gagged up and fucked up the ass is pretty submissive! So…awesome reply masterslave!
 
I agree it’s not inherently submissive. I’m not sure if I posted on this thread or another, I’ve felt dominant at times being fucked up the ass. For example, a few times I was with transsexuals or cross dressers who clearly preferred bottoming, but I wanted the dick. In those cases I would pay on top of them and make out while kissing them like I would do to a woman I was about to fuck. At certain point, I slide up so I’m in cowgirl position and rub their hard cock through my cheeks. Before they know it, I put a condom on them, spit lube it and guide it inside me. I control the ride, and when I cum all over their belly. That to me is dominant.

So it comes down to how I worded the post! And I would say being propped up, tied up, gagged up and fucked up the ass is pretty submissive! So…awesome reply masterslave!
God I’m so hard thinking about straddling a physically inferior cross dresser or transsexual, holding her down, maybe firmly around the neck, and having her dry rub and poke my wanting hole! Especially when she wants me to fuck her! Again, thanks for the post! Such a sexy thought!

But typically I preferred to be held down and used like a whore when I got fucked! Hence the question that started the thread.
 
With my ankles and wrist attached to a spreader bar with my Dom.

But since I willingly allowed him to restrain me and I was well prepared for anal,

It might be when I was in the middle of a punishment from hubby, orgasmically deprived for 2 weeks. He pushed me over the footboard of the bed, shoved a few chunks of cold coconut oil in me. Held me elbows tight and filled my tight ass with a large load of his cum. And no , despite my begging, I still wasn't allowed to cum.
 
Being fucked in the ass is submissive In nature. Being taken by a more dominant male. Having him thrust into you eagerly until he finishes deep in you. Claiming you.
Yes, and if a female watches you dribble your cummy as you moan so much the better
 
Being fucked in the ass is submissive In nature. Being taken by a more dominant male. Having him thrust into you eagerly until he finishes deep in you. Claiming you.

I think it’s all about context. Some say the same about PIV sex. When I’m doing my wife she is not submissive. She biting scratching and telling me to fuck her Harder. When my wife is doing me with her strap on, I’m submissive.
 
I was being fucked hard by a black stud. I was face down on a pillow, my head was against the headboard, his barefoot was on the back of my head, my ass was up in the air, with my hands held behind my back. He started rubbing his big cock against my tight hold and I was crying don’t hurt me it’s too big. He went balls deep and held it there for a minute. Then he started pulling almost out then going balls deep. I couldn’t get away. He was tearing me up. My head was hitting the headboard and the headboard was banging on the wall. I knew the neighbors could hear the banging and my whimpering. He kept at for 15 minutes. He pulled out and fucked my face with his dirty cock. Then he pumped out a big load in my mouth.
 
After the cats, I'm the dominant one in the house.

Early in our marriage, my husband was timid about initiating sex. He said it came down to not knowing if I was ready at any given moment.

I tried to help him out by telling him I was ALWAYS ready and that he could have me any time he wanted. That didn't really help. He was still shy.

I tried letting him know I was DTF by doing subtle things like going commando in a short nightgown, or more overt things like bending over with my butt-plug in.

At that time, he could take or leave anal, whereas I had been into anal for a long time thanks to a bottom-dwelling boyfriend in college. I can have anal-only orgasms and they leave me near catatonic. But, I digress.

He still wasn't getting it. His inability to just grab me and go led to arguments. Arguments led to fights. Fights led to me accepting that I would always be the one to start the ball rolling.

I woke up needing it bad. I decided to meet him at the door naked when he got home. I wore a plug all day. When I got home from work, I prepped, re-plugged, and waited.

He came home in a foul mood, dirty, tired, and hungry. He flopped down on our new-ish couch, which would normally piss me off, but this bitch was in heat and I let it go. The more I tried, the more he got frustrated. We fought the same fight we had been for months.

I was raging. I shouldn't have been. I get stupid and nasty when I'm angry. I called him a word I shouldn't have. He got quiet and retreated to the bathroom to shower.

I ugly cried, naked, curled up on the couch with a heavy silver plug peeking out of my ass. He came back only a few seconds later. I looked up to apologize and he rushed me.

He was already hard. I saw a flash of purple in his hand -- a bottle of astroglide. I tried to roll on my back but he crossed the distance and rolled me face down again. He pressed my head down and pulled my feet off the couch so I was bent over with my face almost buried between the cushions. He was breathing hard but otherwise silent.

I tried to grab his hands but he pinned me down by the back of my neck. I couldn't move my legs. He had them clamped between his. He smelled like soil and the clean sweat of hard work. I turned my head to the side to breathe and he pressed me back down by my cheek. He had sand and grime under his nails. His calloused hand covered my eyes.

His other hand removed my plug with no pretense of gentleness, squirted lube between my cheeks. He went balls-deep and split me in half.

I screamed and squirmed but I couldn't do anything. He was so incredibly strong. I fought. He fucked. My shoulder hurt from him bending my arm behind my back. My neck hurt from fighting against his hand, but it was like a thousand-pound weight on my face. I tried to roll my head the other way, but he grabbed my hair and slammed my face down again.

There was nothing to do but take it. I wasn't used to that at all. I ride him. I take charge. I fuck him. Usually. But he had had enough of that.

My screams turned to moans punctuated only by the sound of his labored breathing and the sucking sound of his cock ramming my asshole.

I came twice before he finally filled my ass. He stood up and went back to the bathroom to shower, leaving me in a bruised, mascara-running, cum-leaking heap on the floor. Never said a fucking word.

My ass was sore for days. My neck was stiff for a week. I remember every detail. I picture it when we fuck now.

He's still not the dominant one all the time but when he is, I have the icy-hot ready.
Love this story - and how you own your sex! Would love to hear how this made you feel afterwards (even into the week)? Did it turn you on? Does your husband's lack of attention cause you to seek lovers?
 
I was being fucked hard by a black stud. I was face down on a pillow, my head was against the headboard, his barefoot was on the back of my head, my ass was up in the air, with my hands held behind my back. He started rubbing his big cock against my tight hold and I was crying don’t hurt me it’s too big. He went balls deep and held it there for a minute. Then he started pulling almost out then going balls deep. I couldn’t get away. He was tearing me up. My head was hitting the headboard and the headboard was banging on the wall. I knew the neighbors could hear the banging and my whimpering. He kept at for 15 minutes. He pulled out and fucked my face with his dirty cock. Then he pumped out a big load in my mouth.
Call me crazy, but i'd say that's pretty submissive....
 
TREMENDOUSLY EROTIC POSTS. Each one excited me, and I envied some of the dirtier sharings - as I wished I had experienced the intense sex that was described. I am a natural submissive male, becoming a queer later in life. I love the cock and using my mouth to pleasure other men. I was fucked standing up and bent over a little. The male had a big thick cock and lubed me while other men watched. He put it to me standing behind me holding my shoulders so he could thrust his dick up my stuffed virgin ass.

It hurt, burned, but I felt so incredibly dirty. Now, I considered myself a true faggot, closeted, married, who had done more that swallow loads of cum from multiple men.
I never thought I would love cock so much!
 
Second week at my job. Bent over my bosses desk. Pants at my ankles.
During the lunch hour. Trying to be quiet.
Loving every thrust. Moaning for him to fuck me hard and deep. Loving the pounding my ass was taking. I touched my cock. Only a stroke or 2 and I was cumming. My ass squeezing tight as
He buried his cock deep and filled my ass with cum.
It was fantastic.
The first time I was a bit paranoid that people had heard us or knew that I had the bosses cum leaking out of my ass.
That soon went away and i looked forward to the once a month Wednesday meeting with him.
 
He was mid 50s. Me early 30s.
On my back.
His bed.
Ankles on his shoulders
His hand playing with my dick
8" or hard cock buried to the hilt in me

Me moaning, grabbing the bed sheets.


To this day, the most slutty I've ever felt.,
 
Face down, tied spread eagle on the kitchen table that was open about 6" in the middle with a hard cushion under me to prop my ass up and fully expose me. My wife started with a butt plug and left me there for an hour or so, then after she pulled it out, it was replaced with a 18" double headed dildo. That stayed in while she moved around and placed a tall stool in front of the table where she sat and pushed her pussy into my face. After she was satisfied, she removed the dildo and fucked me with a 7" strap-on. The last thing she did was go under the table where she edged me, gave me a ruined orgasm and fed me the cum. After I swallowed the last drop, she untied me and left me to recover.
 
My first time I don't know if it's considered submissive or not. Mid 80s, he's 29 years older than me. He told me 3 days before that he wanted to bust my ass that weekend. I blew him earlier and then prepped and showed up that afternoon. I got behind his couch, no underwear just a jersey. Bent over, elbows on the back of the couch, legs spread wide. He got behind me with Vaseline and babyoil and lubed himself and me. Porn tape playing and he's pulling my cheek apart and pushing his cock head in telling me each step I'm feeling. He's 6.5" in with his balls smashed up by mine. He starts fucking and telling me how tight my bitch hole is and then pulls out. He spanks my ass a few times and gets his Polaroid camera, pushes his hard dick back in and takes 2 pictures of his dick half in my ass. He puts one in my hand and says shake it, puts the other on my back and the camera on the couch beside me. He says look at my fat dick up your ass. Starts pounding me for a few minutes, pulls out then pushes back in. Fucks me deep and tells me he's going to cum. I feel him cumming and he eased his grip on my sides. I work back and forth till he falls out and he spanks my ass a few times and I just stay there. Lost that pic and others a few years later.
 
A few years ago I met a woman on Fet life.
We saw each other for a while, and it was mostly sensual, dating, kissing, lots, and lots of cunnilingus which she really needed as she was coming out of a hard relationship.
Anyway, our relationship started to become very domme/ sub.
She bought some handcuffs and a collar for me. And we played with that interaction for a while.
And she expressed a desire to use a strap on on me, I’m pretty adventurous, so I thought that sounds fun.
Kind of a ceremony a lot of ways.
I went out and I picked out the strap on and bought it from the store and then brought it to her place.
Gift wrapped
She was so excited.
She that she kissed me and was beside herself.
She said I’ve got something to show you.
In the bathroom, she had a pair of women’s panties, and a kind of a night skirt and top. Sitting on the counter was a woman’s wig.
She said, will you be my first lesbian experience.
I was hesitant, but I played along and put on the clothes. The panties were tight, but it felt kinky.
She put the wig on me, and then put on a little bit of make up
She went back and looked at and said your name is Jackie.
Come here, Jackie
She held my hand, walked me to the bedroom.
I took off her clothes and got on my knees
She sat in the chair and spread her legs
Lick my pussy, JackIe
I ate out as she rubbed my head and told me I was a good girl.
Then she put her hands to both sides of my cheeks and looked down at me and said, does Jackie want to get fucked?
I said yes
She had me take the strap out of the package and put it on her.
Suck my cock, Jackie
I sucked it as she slowly moved her hips back-and-forth, moving the strap on in and out of my mouth.

she grabbed some lube and bent me over pulling my G string panties to the side.
You’re a fucking slut and you belong to me Jackie.
She placed the tip of it against my lubed butthole.
She Grab my hips and said don’t worry honey just the tip. Is that what you want you fucking slut just the tip?
She grab my arms shoved that thing in halfway and and then gave my ass a huge slap. I screamed like a little girl.
That’s it take it you slut you belong to me
She fucked me with abandon until I was raw
I came, and she fucked me more and more
I don’t think I could think straight or walk straight for days
 
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A few years ago I met a woman on Fet life.
We saw each other for a while, and it was mostly sensual, dating, kissing, lots, and lots of cunnilingus which she really needed as she was coming out of a hard relationship.
Anyway, our relationship started to become very domme/ sub.
She bought some handcuffs and a collar for me. And we played with that interaction for a while.
And she expressed a desire to use a strap on on me, I’m pretty adventurous, so I thought that sounds fun.
Kind of a ceremony a lot of ways.
I went out and I picked out the strap on and bought it from the store and then brought it to her place.
Gift wrapped
She was so excited.
She that she kissed me and was beside herself.
She said I’ve got something to show you.
In the bathroom, she had a pair of women’s panties, and a kind of a night skirt and top. Sitting on the counter was a woman’s wig.
She said, will you be my first lesbian experience.
I was hesitant, but I played along and put on the clothes. The panties were tight, but it felt kinky.
She put the wig on me, and then put on a little bit of make up
She went back and looked at and said your name is Jackie.
Come here, Jackie
She held my hand, walked me to the bedroom.
I took off her clothes and got on my knees
She sat in the chair and spread her legs
Lick my pussy, JackIe
I ate out as she rubbed my head and told me I was a good girl.
Then she put her hands to both sides of my cheeks and looked down at me and said, does Jackie want to get fucked?
I said yes
She had me take the strap out of the package and put it on her.
Suck my cock, Jackie
I sucked it as she slowly moved her hips back-and-forth, moving the strap on in and out of my mouth.

she grabbed some lube and bent me over pulling my G string panties to the side.
You’re a fucking slut and you belong to me Jackie.
She placed the tip of it against my lubed butthole.
She Grab my hips and said don’t worry honey just the tip. Is that what you want you fucking slut just the tip?
She grab my arms shoved that thing in halfway and and then gave my ass a huge slap. I screamed like a little girl.
That’s it take it you slut you belong to me
She fucked me with abandon until I was raw
I came, and she fucked me more and more
I don’t think I could think straight or walk straight for days
Sure, just the tip. I've heard that before, and then suddenly you pussy is totally impaled@
 
I've never felt terribly submissive while getting fucked in the ass, even when I was pinned on my back with him standing beside the bed pounding me, probably because that's what I wanted.

I felt much more submissive with him as I knelt at his feet, his cock in my face, begging him to fuck me with it.
 
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