sundowner13
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Mr.G said:People with oral/smell/taste hangups shouldn't get into it without preparing first. Have a shower together. You BOTH might try some under the water which is fun and the new/unusual smells & tastes are washed away in the water. You also know the person you're munching is clean. That is a HUGE factor for some.
I had a more experienced g/f in Univ who intro'd me to oral. She used chocolate syrup. I love chocolate. Pretty soon I didn't need or want the syrup although that is always a fun if not sticky, messy variation.
The other thing I would highly recommend is initially only do oral when you are so turned on you are quaking. Many girls can just hjunker down and give a BJ like eating bag of chips. If you have hangups on the feel, smell, taste, intrusion then you have to approach it from a different angle. You have to want to do it and, in your case, that takes extreme horniness.
Food makes a huge diff to the taste of pre and cum. Read some of the articles in the "swallow" URL. They will help.
Back to the thread.
and for hotat21 who has a problem anyway. You don't have to give a BJ while you're doing the prostate massage. Give him a gooiey hand-job and let him cum on your nipples or something ( the visual being the huge turn on for him here). Unless you're really into long slow BJ's you don't want to go that route as a GOOD prostate massage will take 30 minutes or more before he is making li'll gurgling sounds and asking you to stop.
great advice, thanks