'Milking' a mans cock - is this for real?
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Ahh D. bless your shiny heart, I am currently ok for offers thanks, but I will be sure to let you know if I start to run short of willing victims.OhioMale2 said:
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ive had my wife use a dildo while giving a bj
she isnt really into it...i notice more precum. I wouldn't mind having her use a strap-on, but she is definitely not into that.
she isnt really into it...i notice more precum. I wouldn't mind having her use a strap-on, but she is definitely not into that.
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Okay, I just happened to see this thread on the main forum list, so I haven't read any previous pages or anything.. Forgive me if I say something that's already been said before.
1. Yes, it is for real. I've done it.
2. Yes, it can be done solo. To be honest, so far that's the only way I've achieved it. My girl wants me to show her how to do it to me, but there are a lot of miles keeping us apart right now. Soon, however...?
3. As far as 'the spot' goes... how I did it was with my feet up, one hand on my cock, the other down between my legs with a lotta lube. A finger (or two, if that suits you) inside, curling your finger upward when it's inside about to the second knuckle. (Much like a woman's g-spot.. in and up.) I needed to be fairly aroused to feel the spot, but once I felt it, there was no mistaking it.
4. What to do.. once I found the spot, I continued jacking off and rubbing that spot at the same time.. the closer I got to coming, the harder I could rub the spot. At the point when you know you've either got to stop jacking off or you're going to come, I stopped all stimulation to my cock and focused on rubbing the spot harder and faster. At this point cum started dribbling out of my cock. A moment later, when I felt the sense of impending orgasm pass, I resumed stroking my cock until I again was at the 'point of no return' and did it again. The 3rd time, I couldn't hold back and kept stroking my cock while rubbing that spot at the same time... Made for a pretty intense orgasm..
It took me a couple times to get the timing down, but when I did it was pretty damn good!
1. Yes, it is for real. I've done it.
2. Yes, it can be done solo. To be honest, so far that's the only way I've achieved it. My girl wants me to show her how to do it to me, but there are a lot of miles keeping us apart right now. Soon, however...?
3. As far as 'the spot' goes... how I did it was with my feet up, one hand on my cock, the other down between my legs with a lotta lube. A finger (or two, if that suits you) inside, curling your finger upward when it's inside about to the second knuckle. (Much like a woman's g-spot.. in and up.) I needed to be fairly aroused to feel the spot, but once I felt it, there was no mistaking it.
4. What to do.. once I found the spot, I continued jacking off and rubbing that spot at the same time.. the closer I got to coming, the harder I could rub the spot. At the point when you know you've either got to stop jacking off or you're going to come, I stopped all stimulation to my cock and focused on rubbing the spot harder and faster. At this point cum started dribbling out of my cock. A moment later, when I felt the sense of impending orgasm pass, I resumed stroking my cock until I again was at the 'point of no return' and did it again. The 3rd time, I couldn't hold back and kept stroking my cock while rubbing that spot at the same time... Made for a pretty intense orgasm..
It took me a couple times to get the timing down, but when I did it was pretty damn good!
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Thanks DM...After only a few short sessions I can say this is good stuff. I instantly noticed a pre-cum flow increase. What seems to be a more sensitive to touch erection. And an orgasm that seems to come from a deeper place than just my balls. Patience and persistance also seem to play a large part in the experience. This isn't something that you're just going to start doing and have instant results. I can say I will be experimenting more when I get alone tomorrow after work. Perhaps I too will soon have an orgasm that blows my freaking head off...
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i guess we kinda got lucky....my woman had a quicker n easier time of finding the right spot and both of us communicating for the tempo. my first time i oozed for about 10 minutes then had a full orgasm, but the neat thing is she could keep me hard and after another minute or two, i was oozing again. after about an hour i gave up trying to appear all cool and collected lol. she said now i know how she feels when i lick and use an egg on her for a long period of time...helpless to do anything and would kill to keep it going <g>. in a mutual masterbation point, there is no way i can keep my own finger or hand in position for any length of time, i just dont twist that way. but eventually we tried a wand vibrator she has and i'll tell ya, if yer a male that can not take a dildo or vibrator anally <as with me>, the wand was damn awsome. the egg end slipped in quickly, but the wand part is flexible and about 1/2" thick or less so it in no way strained the anus. then either she or i could angle, use pressure, pump or pulse the end along with the vibe on and now we have a way for self pleasure or if her hands are cramped/achey, she can comfortably use the wand.....killer pleasure.
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My experiences
I have been visiting a professional lady for tantric instructions for about a year and she uses prostrate massage on me exclusively. Unlike most of the repilies I have read here I get contant small pulses of cum and they are seperated by about 5 seconds for as long as she continues to massage my prostrate. My penis is not erect but not flacid either. There is a constant feeling or orgasm but not as strong as the orgasms I have from just masturbation.
I've had other non-professional ladies (girlfriends) try this method but though some have been able to cause this type of orgasm it is usually short lived, about 3 minutes. I think this is because the prostrate massage is also combined with them provoding me with oral sex where the tantric lady only allows me to perform cunnilingus on her during the massage.
In the past I have some times orgasmed strickly from performing cunnilingus without any recepritation from my pastner so I think that the two activities, cunnilingus/prostrate massage, is what allows the continuious orgasm.
One thing, we have tried to see how long I could continue to produce cum and after about 25 minutes semen flow has decreased dramatically and my blood pressure rises so high I have to discontinue the session and I am unable to acheive an erection or orgasm for several days. I am not sure about the long term health effects of this activity but I've become quite addicted to it. She and I continue to see each other on a non-professional relationship in an attempt to see what my limits are with medication. She has had offers to film this act for profit so it's possible that a film will be available for medical use in the near future.
I have been visiting a professional lady for tantric instructions for about a year and she uses prostrate massage on me exclusively. Unlike most of the repilies I have read here I get contant small pulses of cum and they are seperated by about 5 seconds for as long as she continues to massage my prostrate. My penis is not erect but not flacid either. There is a constant feeling or orgasm but not as strong as the orgasms I have from just masturbation.
I've had other non-professional ladies (girlfriends) try this method but though some have been able to cause this type of orgasm it is usually short lived, about 3 minutes. I think this is because the prostrate massage is also combined with them provoding me with oral sex where the tantric lady only allows me to perform cunnilingus on her during the massage.
In the past I have some times orgasmed strickly from performing cunnilingus without any recepritation from my pastner so I think that the two activities, cunnilingus/prostrate massage, is what allows the continuious orgasm.
One thing, we have tried to see how long I could continue to produce cum and after about 25 minutes semen flow has decreased dramatically and my blood pressure rises so high I have to discontinue the session and I am unable to acheive an erection or orgasm for several days. I am not sure about the long term health effects of this activity but I've become quite addicted to it. She and I continue to see each other on a non-professional relationship in an attempt to see what my limits are with medication. She has had offers to film this act for profit so it's possible that a film will be available for medical use in the near future.
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I read thru several pages here but I don't have time at the moment to see if anyone else has posted a map of where the Grail is so here is an Image that may help. Sorry if there is already one on the thread. This image is with the Aneros inserted and against said male sweet spot.
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I don't think I've visited since this thread landed in the How To Cafe' having been banished from the real How To page. So nice to see that it endures and so many people have read this. One of the most frequently asked questions I get from women who are enjoying the fruits of their SO's labors in the TRY THIS G-Spot thread is, " HOW or WHAT can I do to give my guy the same pleasure he's giving me? " That's a sweet attitude but to keep things simple, Ya can't, honey. We don't have the plumbing. Besides our primordial roots suggest we were built to cum and go as it were before we got ate by some REX kinda beast so OUR physiology dictates a fast and furious O and then either on to the next, a long sleep to enjoy our seratonin rush or due to the wonders of modern PR - we spend the rest f the time making you NUTZ (hence the GSpot thread).
THE closest thang to an extended orgasm that males can enjoy (without electrical probes plunged into our brains that is) IS the results of what is discussed in this thread. There are some heavy duty "bum" issues that many guys avoid due to concerns a poke in the butt makes one instantly and irrevocably gay. OK, they probably will never enjoy this technique anyway. Too invasive for a typical horn-dawg, right? The rest of the guys who are open to the idea just need to find a woman who doesn't similarly believe that any guy who has nerve endings in and around his butt is clearly and irrevocably gay also.
In the end (sic) the percentages on both sides of the issues whittle down the prospects to a few lucky couples who just want to give their partners the MOST sexual pleasure they can and that means learning new stuff, applying it and lots of "research" into what feels best and when. Considering the hang-ups in our society over anything BUTT related it is refreshing to see 133,000 some odd reads and that translates to well over a quarter of a million people who know about this and have at least TRIED to make it happen for their man.
Awesome.
Keep up the research and the contributions to the thread. The more who read this, the more will realize it is fun, exciting, intimate and as close to "pay-back" as she can cum for all those G-GASMS he has given her.
THE closest thang to an extended orgasm that males can enjoy (without electrical probes plunged into our brains that is) IS the results of what is discussed in this thread. There are some heavy duty "bum" issues that many guys avoid due to concerns a poke in the butt makes one instantly and irrevocably gay. OK, they probably will never enjoy this technique anyway. Too invasive for a typical horn-dawg, right? The rest of the guys who are open to the idea just need to find a woman who doesn't similarly believe that any guy who has nerve endings in and around his butt is clearly and irrevocably gay also.
In the end (sic) the percentages on both sides of the issues whittle down the prospects to a few lucky couples who just want to give their partners the MOST sexual pleasure they can and that means learning new stuff, applying it and lots of "research" into what feels best and when. Considering the hang-ups in our society over anything BUTT related it is refreshing to see 133,000 some odd reads and that translates to well over a quarter of a million people who know about this and have at least TRIED to make it happen for their man.
Awesome.
Keep up the research and the contributions to the thread. The more who read this, the more will realize it is fun, exciting, intimate and as close to "pay-back" as she can cum for all those G-GASMS he has given her.
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Wizard said:Great to see ya back Mr. G! You always had fantastic threads that made for killer times and tons of reads...Good to see ya.
*Deep bow* Why, thank you. I am here merely to serve my fellow man. Between this thread initiated by Arden I believe and the TRY THIS thread we have individual reads in the 425,000 level which extrapolates out to probably 2.5 times that if you include the reader's SO / hubbie-wife / B-G-F. So we're probably talkin over a MILLION who have been affected by just these two threads. AWESOME. Think of the Karma. Think of the extra O and G-Gasms. Think of how much BETTER some couples' releationships have become since discovering not just how to do these new techniques but that it is OK to probe experiment, discover and continue the "research." Sexual self-confidence increases and sataition levels are really hard to imagine getting any better.
Speaking of "research" ....
Drop in a read my latest evil suggestion on the TRY THIS thread. I believe it may have relevancy to the pervs on this thread too. I suspect the markets and grocery stores will be sold out of GINGER this weekend and you should be able to hear the screaming from most points in the city. I'm anticipating some interesting feedback.
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Hi first post here but i have tried to do this my self by using a dildo like object that is curved but i can't seem to do it right would anyone like to chat on aol im or msn about this or even just emails. Thanks chris
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Subscribing so we can read this thread again.
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DIY (do it yourself) sex
""i have tried to do this my self by using a dildo like object that is curved but i can't seem to do it right would anyone like to chat on aol im or msn about this or even just emails. Thanks chris""
You know there are some things that you might be able to do yourself or TO yourself but like the GSpot Technique, why would you? The fun is having your partner do it. CAN it happen. Ya, I suppose if you keep trying and fingure out which angle and all that. If you persist it might work. If you have a willing and adventuresome partner then the fun is in the research.
In the case of the GSpot technique women have been able to do this to themselves but I guarantee that they can never do what a partner can do to (FOR) them because they will run out of energy and stop. A partner will keep going until she is waaaay past satiated. The build up will or at least should be longer and she doesn't need the extra stamina to do it to herself AND cum over and over again at the same time. This could possibly be THE reason why fucking feels so good. Not bad by yourself but with a partner who WANTS to drive you nuts and knows how - well there's NO comparison!! NONE!!
""i have tried to do this my self by using a dildo like object that is curved but i can't seem to do it right would anyone like to chat on aol im or msn about this or even just emails. Thanks chris""
You know there are some things that you might be able to do yourself or TO yourself but like the GSpot Technique, why would you? The fun is having your partner do it. CAN it happen. Ya, I suppose if you keep trying and fingure out which angle and all that. If you persist it might work. If you have a willing and adventuresome partner then the fun is in the research.
In the case of the GSpot technique women have been able to do this to themselves but I guarantee that they can never do what a partner can do to (FOR) them because they will run out of energy and stop. A partner will keep going until she is waaaay past satiated. The build up will or at least should be longer and she doesn't need the extra stamina to do it to herself AND cum over and over again at the same time. This could possibly be THE reason why fucking feels so good. Not bad by yourself but with a partner who WANTS to drive you nuts and knows how - well there's NO comparison!! NONE!!
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i know might sound silly after reading all the post ok most of them. Is this possble with out sticking something up ass. Just wondering
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it is possibleScaredWarrior said:
just not as effective
having a partner do its much more effective
I can barly touch my own prostate VIA hand, and I've not much in the line of toys, but from what everyone is saying its just not the same
it takes fingers being able to feel it, and stimulate it precisily to get the huge effect it can bring
Hardly !
EXTERNAL prostate massage is about as effective as rubbing her knee and expecting some degree of clitoral stimulation in the process.
Maybe 2% effective. Less!
Get rubber gloves if you're afraid of what lurks in dark places because there is only ONE way to stimulate the prostate and that is BY -
wait for it - ..........
this is one of those moments of PROFOUND sexual wisdom that only comes from DECADES of research, practical experience and common sense -
BY ....
BY .....
STIMULATING THE PROSTATE.
(see? THIS is what I'm paid the BIG BUCKS for!!)
EXTERNAL prostate massage is about as effective as rubbing her knee and expecting some degree of clitoral stimulation in the process.
Maybe 2% effective. Less!
Get rubber gloves if you're afraid of what lurks in dark places because there is only ONE way to stimulate the prostate and that is BY -
wait for it - ..........
this is one of those moments of PROFOUND sexual wisdom that only comes from DECADES of research, practical experience and common sense -
BY ....
BY .....
STIMULATING THE PROSTATE.
(see? THIS is what I'm paid the BIG BUCKS for!!)
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http://groups.yahoo.com/group/prostatemilkingparty2/
has some great videos of solo action if you want to see it done
has some great videos of solo action if you want to see it done
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Aneros Prostate Massager
http://www.aneros.com/default.php
Has anyone ever used or seen anyone use this. Curious to see how well it works especially for solo action
http://www.aneros.com/default.php
Has anyone ever used or seen anyone use this. Curious to see how well it works especially for solo action
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