My wife won't let me...

[BlackSatinKnight]

My wife used to do a little sucking, but NOT enough to let me cum in her mouth. BUT BOY does she LOVE IT! When I go down her...Of course the sex life has stopped many years ago..

Right there with you Joe.

 

[PoiseDexter]

My wife won't let me come in her mouth but her best friend does and likes it. I have no idea why some like it and some don't.

 

[MColton84]

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

Simplest answer, you don't. She may be your wife, but it's still her mouth. If or when she wants to, she will. Until then, smile, you still have your dick in a mouth. Where I come from that's called a win.

 

[StaciRay79]

Simplest answer, you don't. She may be your wife, but it's still her mouth. If or when she wants to, she will. Until then, smile, you still have your dick in a mouth. Where I come from that's called a win.

Very well said!

It’s not up to you. It’s her choice. Respect it

 

[hisplaceof]

I agree with a lot of what people said here.

... find a friend of hers that does swallow to admit she does it (likes it would be better)

Once she finds out one of her friends does it, you watch, her attitude towards doing so will change, and it'll be like beer - an acquired taste.

For some that actually works. My brothers wife was not into it until he found out that many of her friends were. He convinced them to talk to her about it, eventually she warmed up to the idea and now they have a pretty good time with it.

Eat her after you cum in her and then kiss her. Eventually, share whole loads with her.

This works occasionally as well. I will explain in a bit.

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

Soooooo, my wife hit her 50s and went sex crazy. Hormones for certain but what triggered it for her mentally was something I totally never expected to find out. We had a very routine sex life then about 9 years ago things changed amazingly! Very long story shortened, my wife was having a girls’ weekend even though three husbands had come over for a big football game. She walked by the sports room to hear & see her friend telling the guys to jerk off and eat their own cum. They did, she was stunned and watched as she licked them all clean. Over a year later she told me everything she had seen and how it affected her. That’s when so much of the change made sense.

For your purpose I am throwing you another one out of the box as hbcacouple did. My wife was so turned on by seeing the guys eat cum she wanted to see it more so much so she started giving me the most amazing oral (remember I had no idea why back then). She wanted me to cum in her mouth – holy cow I was loving it. Kissing was part of it, I became very used to it and she kept more in her mouth over time leading too much much more. My point is, sometimes you have to give A Lot to get something, even crazy of the chart stuff (and believe me it can and might happen – gheeeez).

Her friend was so into the guy cum thing that is what drove her to becoming an oral pro (among other things), my wife as well. So yes you might have to do some cum eating & sharing, my wife swears it is the best kissing of our lives every time. She tells me that if I had done something like this for her early on she’d have sucked my penis completely off by now (joke). She didn’t even know it’d turn her on quite like this. I opened up a lot after that first year of all this and even more so nowadays. Find what she might want, bless her with it as often as possible. 9 years later and much older, the sex is better than in college but I do give into some pretty crazy stuff. It’s all about floating her boat and other things happen along with it.

Give it a go, slowly, progress. I learned that, see where it takes you.

Let us know how it goes.

 

[hisplaceof]

Any updates?

 

[N2outdoors]

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

Delete

 

[Travler99921]

Gave up

My wife never gave me a good blow job. That was one of the reasons I decided to try sex with men. The first time a man sucked me it felt wonderful, but I soon discovered that i liked sucking even better. My wife and I came to an agreement that it was ok to have oral sex with men. That satisfied my need to be sucked and gave me a very enjoyable experience I never expected.

 

[Curvycutiepie]

I’d ask her once (if you haven’t already) and if it’s a no then I’d leave it at that. There’s nothing more off putting than being relentlessly badgered for something! If she doesn’t want to do it then you can’t make her. Just be grateful that she’s giving you a blow job in the first place!

 

[HappySpouse]

Forever is a long time.

Convince is an ugly word, so try not to think of it that way. If that is a fantasy of yours then save bringing it up for those moments and conversations. You two might be having sex together for 70+ years. Occasionally you're going to want to try something new.

So if that's your thing, and she asks what kind of porn you like or what's something new you want me to do to you, then be honest. If at some point over the years she decides that's something she wants to do great. If not then enjoy the bj's you get and don't sweat the ones you don't.

 

[LAHomedog]

I have a few thoughts:

1. We all have things we like to do in bed and things we don't. Sometimes you do what you don't like to please your sexual partner. Sometimes you just can't. That's how life goes.

2. My wife of 36 years wants me to cum in her mouth but will not swallow. I don't care if she swallows or not. Why would I? It is not as if her swallowing has anything to do with my orgasm. My feeling is as long as she "accepts the gift" I don't care what she does with it after.

3. Finally, and this is my most important point, I have never asked my wife to do something for me sexually that I was not willing to do myself. (And I'm happy to say vice versa.)

When we were just starting out and I wanted to cum in her mouth, I came on her stomach and tits and cleaned it all off. Quid pro quo. From then on all good.

When I wanted to fuck her ass, we got a harness and a dildo the same size -- length and diameter as mine -- and she fucked my ass. Now my fucking her ass is a regular part of our menu and when she wants to fuck me, I bend over since it occasionally makes her happy.

Good sex is about love, trust, partnership and accommodation. Just like a good relationship is. I've always found if you focus on pleasing your partner, you will be pleased yourself.

 

[exgovie]

I agree with most of your points

I have a few thoughts:

1. We all have things we like to do in bed and things we don't. Sometimes you do what you don't like to please your sexual partner. Sometimes you just can't. That's how life goes.

2. My wife of 36 years wants me to cum in her mouth but will not swallow. I don't care if she swallows or not. Why would I? It is not as if her swallowing has anything to do with my orgasm. My feeling is as long as she "accepts the gift" I don't care what she does with it after.

3. Finally, and this is my most important point, I have never asked my wife to do something for me sexually that I was not willing to do myself. (And I'm happy to say vice versa.)

When we were just starting out and I wanted to cum in her mouth, I came on her stomach and tits and cleaned it all off. Quid pro quo. From then on all good.

When I wanted to fuck her ass, we got a harness and a dildo the same size -- length and diameter as mine -- and she fucked my ass. Now my fucking her ass is a regular part of our menu and when she wants to fuck me, I bend over since it occasionally makes her happy.

Good sex is about love, trust, partnership and accommodation. Just like a good relationship is. I've always found if you focus on pleasing your partner, you will be pleased yourself.

I must say your comment about not swallowing is true if she does like sucking you off but does not like to swallow. If she does not show this desire to suck you off but rather has learned to "tolerate it for you" this is a different case. Swallowing becomes more important as a measure of her desiring you. Just my 2 cents.
Also anal was never on the table and now I do not get stiff enough for it now anyway

 

[Diann_Mom]

I love to suck cock!

I once heard it said that the taste of cum can be compared to the taste of top shelf Scotch whiskey. "You have to acquire a taste for both." Well, I have never acquired the taste of Scotch but ever since my first taste of cum I became addicted! lol
Hope you all have a great day!

 

[cuck72]

wife's a spitter

My wife doesn't swallow, but does let me cum in her mouth. She just spits it out on my belly, and hands me a tissue to wipe it up. She says she doesn't like the taste, but still sucks me right till the end, letting me cum in her mouth.

 

[rushman1uk]

I once heard it said that the taste of cum can be compared to the taste of top shelf Scotch whiskey. "You have to acquire a taste for both." Well, I have never acquired the taste of Scotch but ever since my first taste of cum I became addicted! lol
Hope you all have a great day!

I have to agree with you, I hate whisky but love cum. My first wife wouldn't even suck me, never mind swallow. My second wife sucks and swallows, and as she's Scottish, drinks whisky

 

[Doctor Joe]

I once heard it said that the taste of cum can be compared to the taste of top shelf Scotch whiskey. "You have to acquire a taste for both." Well, I have never acquired the taste of Scotch but ever since my first taste of cum I became addicted! lol
Hope you all have a great day!

I'm loving ladies who admit to being addicted to cum! How many varieties would you say you have sampled??

 

[gabesdadd]

My wife used to swallow. That disappeared once we got married. Miss those days.

 

[Jonjonjohnson]

My wife used to swallow. That disappeared once we got married. Miss those days.

I hear ya, it hasn’t even been in my wife’s mouth since we got married.

 

[hisplaceof]

I have a few thoughts:

1. We all have things we like to do in bed and things we don't. Sometimes you do what you don't like to please your sexual partner. Sometimes you just can't. That's how life goes.

2. My wife of 36 years wants me to cum in her mouth but will not swallow. I don't care if she swallows or not. Why would I? It is not as if her swallowing has anything to do with my orgasm. My feeling is as long as she "accepts the gift" I don't care what she does with it after.

3. Finally, and this is my most important point, I have never asked my wife to do something for me sexually that I was not willing to do myself. (And I'm happy to say vice versa.)

When we were just starting out and I wanted to cum in her mouth, I came on her stomach and tits and cleaned it all off. Quid pro quo. From then on all good.

When I wanted to fuck her ass, we got a harness and a dildo the same size -- length and diameter as mine -- and she fucked my ass. Now my fucking her ass is a regular part of our menu and when she wants to fuck me, I bend over since it occasionally makes her happy.

Good sex is about love, trust, partnership and accommodation. Just like a good relationship is. I've always found if you focus on pleasing your partner, you will be pleased yourself.

I totally agree!!!!!

 

[DanDraper]

If she didn't let you do it even after marriage, the it's never going to happen.

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[pplwatching]

My wife used to swallow. That disappeared once we got married. Miss those days.

Sometimes the old joke about letting a woman eat wedding cake hits a little too close to home.

 

[crazy4myhusband]

I have a few thoughts:

1. We all have things we like to do in bed and things we don't. Sometimes you do what you don't like to please your sexual partner. Sometimes you just can't. That's how life goes.

2. My wife of 36 years wants me to cum in her mouth but will not swallow. I don't care if she swallows or not. Why would I? It is not as if her swallowing has anything to do with my orgasm. My feeling is as long as she "accepts the gift" I don't care what she does with it after.

3. Finally, and this is my most important point, I have never asked my wife to do something for me sexually that I was not willing to do myself. (And I'm happy to say vice versa.)

When we were just starting out and I wanted to cum in her mouth, I came on her stomach and tits and cleaned it all off. Quid pro quo. From then on all good.

When I wanted to fuck her ass, we got a harness and a dildo the same size -- length and diameter as mine -- and she fucked my ass. Now my fucking her ass is a regular part of our menu and when she wants to fuck me, I bend over since it occasionally makes her happy.

Good sex is about love, trust, partnership and accommodation. Just like a good relationship is. I've always found if you focus on pleasing your partner, you will be pleased yourself.

You are a good man! And VERY smart!

What's good for the goose is good for the gander!

 

[Travler99921]

New outlets

I could never convince her. For that reason, and others, I started having sex with men. I soon discovered I liked sucking better than being sucked. I came out to my wife, and she accepted my bisexuality. She even encouraged it and said she was glad I was getting what I needed.

 

[crazy4myhusband]

I could never convince her. For that reason, and others, I started having sex with men. I soon discovered I liked sucking better than being sucked. I came out to my wife, and she accepted my bisexuality. She even encouraged it and said she was glad I was getting what I needed.

Now that is how one should respond - good for you guys.

 

[Trionyx]

The original poster should be happy to even get blown. Some women have small mouths or are so gaggy they can’t even do it. Accept what you get and be happy for it.