My wife won't let me...

[IASFPWTF]

Use a cloth. Use a cloth?? The least she could do is to let you pop all over your own belly or into her clenched fist (then she can decide what to do with it.)

I'm not one to speak though. In ten years of marriage my ex-wife sucked me to completion, letting me cum in her mouth, just ONCE. She'd pull her mouth off near the end and, pointing my cock where she wanted, seemingly found it hot to watch me cum on my own belly, chest, or even face and hair if I was shooting real far. She'd play in it, swirl it around, laugh at it on my hair or face, and eventually wipe it up but wouldn't eat it.

Second and current wife of 22 years feels robbed if she doesn't get to suck and swallow EVERY DROP of cum out of my cock following a long, dedicated, blow job (as opposed to just foreplay before penetrative sex). It's not just "cumming in her mouth" that makes a proper blowjob to completion any better though. It's the actual negative pressure, I call it the "vacuum assist", of literally sucking the cum out of the depths of your sexual plumbing, that makes for a mind blowing blow job. (...and I know, because I suck cock too.)

I wanna hang out with y'all

 

[Dawn28585]

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

I feel cheated if my husband doesn’t finish in my mouth. It is empowering to swallow every drop. I know some women feel the opposite but I freaking love it. Just tell her how crazy good it is for you and maybe eventually it will be for her too. Also make sure you return the favor!

 

[njlauren]

I agree with others, if your wife doesn't want you to cum in her mouth trying to convince her to is not a good way to go. It could be she has done it before and found it distasteful (cum does not always taste so good, I hear that after eating asparagus it can taste pretty foul, I know it does that to urine for sure), it could be that some idiot forced her, it could be that she grew up with the idea that letting someone cum in your mouth is dirty or not someone a good girl does (yes, even if this day and age, a lot of the old taboos are still passed down from mother to daughter; I know a guy in his 40's where his wife has basically stopped sex, saying that they had kids and it is no longer needed..and yes, the wife grew up Catholic).

Did you ever ask her why, even for curiousity sake, why she doesn't like the idea of having you cum in her mouth? You can always ask her and tell her you are just curious, if she says "I just don't like it", drop it.

 

[NightL]

yes, even if this day and age, a lot of the old taboos are still passed down from mother to daughter; I know a guy in his 40's where his wife has basically stopped sex, saying that they had kids and it is no longer needed..and yes, the wife grew up Catholic.

That probably informs more about the husband than blaming church or the wife.

 

[njlauren]

That probably informs more about the husband than blaming church or the wife.

No, it wasn't the husband , I know him, the wife and the mother, and the wife grew up with a mother who was most definitely of the mindset about sex. Despite all the claims to the contrary, despite finally in the 1970's finally admitting that sex was an integral part of the marital relationship (the 1970s!), the church still retains the culture among more than a few that sex is ultimately about child rearing. Put it this way, if they had to come out and formally state that in the 1970's and given how slowly the church changes, that says a lot.

 

[NightL]

Have you been in the bedroom with the husband? Have you intimate knowledge of their communication?

I appreciate there can be many reasons why sex life after children may take a dive and of course that it is also possible religious indoctrination that sex is only for procreation and contraception is evil etc could play a part - but that really is all very early 60s and prior and only for the most quackery of believers.

Maybe she just did not enjoy sex and if she didn't, why? So if, and I stress "if", some of the responsibility of failed enjoyment fell on his shoulders what other areas in the relationship has he rated poorly on? These are questions you really can't answer unless you were deeply entwined in their relationship - even then...

In my observation in life people overcome prior reticence very quickly if they discover they actually get enjoyment out of something.

Maybe "saying that they had kids and it is no longer needed" is purely saying she finds no pleasure in being intimate with him. However you look at it there is failure to connect and communicate.

Even if (again) she she was caught up in some 1950s notion of warped Catholicism and never let go the apron strings of her mother, why the hell did he marry her?

I still say "Yeah, na..."

 

[njlauren]

Have you been in the bedroom with the husband? Have you intimate knowledge of their communication?

I appreciate there can be many reasons why sex life after children may take a dive and of course that it is also possible religious indoctrination that sex is only for procreation and contraception is evil etc could play a part - but that really is all very early 60s and prior and only for the most quackery of believers.

Maybe she just did not enjoy sex and if she didn't, why? So if, and I stress "if", some of the responsibility of failed enjoyment fell on his shoulders what other areas in the relationship has he rated poorly on? These are questions you really can't answer unless you were deeply entwined in their relationship - even then...

In my observation in life people overcome prior reticence very quickly if they discover they actually get enjoyment out of something.

Maybe "saying that they had kids and it is no longer needed" is purely saying she finds no pleasure in being intimate with him. However you look at it there is failure to connect and communicate.

Even if (again) she she was caught up in some 1950s notion of warped Catholicism and never let go the apron strings of her mother, why the hell did he marry her?

I still say "Yeah, na..."

I know the husband well enough and the wife that I am pretty certain of what I am saying. The point is that the old taboos are still very strong, the sexual revolution may have started 60 years ago but a lot of the old crap is out there about what is 'normal' or 'good, and most of the garbage can be traced back to religious nonsense. Put it this way, you talk to sex educators about it and they will not tell you that religious leaders do a great job of promoting sexually heathy couples and a lot of it had to do with the hard right turn the Catholic Church took under the Polish wonder, JPII. My spouse went to Catholic school for most of her education, and in high school they had comprehensive sex ed, believe it or not. Within a couple of years of graduating in the early 80's that was totally wiped out. And just think about conservative Christianity in this country and what they are obsessed with. The gap between rich and poor, lack of health care, people being left behind, racism, xenophobia, violence? Nope, sex...."Abstinence only" sex ed, banning any kind of sex ed in the schools, demonizing LGBT people, making abortion the only thing that matters to the point that they worshipped one of the most openly amoral people I have even seen (Trump) bc "he will get abortion made illegal" (little fact, a number of women were forced to have abortions after Trump got them knocked up, starting in his early 20's).

You don't get rid of that kind of stuff easily. In the OP's case his wife has every right to say no, it could be a lot of reasons, but that doesn't mean that there are those old taboos out there about things like Oral sex. By the way, Catholic teaching is that any kind of sex act outside vaginal sex is a sin , including masturbating your partner, oral sex, anal sex, toys, etc.....

 

[gabesdadd]

Sometimes the old joke about letting a woman eat wedding cake hits a little too close to home.

Sure does.

 

[gabesdadd]

I agree with others, if your wife doesn't want you to cum in her mouth trying to convince her to is not a good way to go. It could be she has done it before and found it distasteful (cum does not always taste so good, I hear that after eating asparagus it can taste pretty foul, I know it does that to urine for sure), it could be that some idiot forced her, it could be that she grew up with the idea that letting someone cum in your mouth is dirty or not someone a good girl does (yes, even if this day and age, a lot of the old taboos are still passed down from mother to daughter; I know a guy in his 40's where his wife has basically stopped sex, saying that they had kids and it is no longer needed..and yes, the wife grew up Catholic).

YOu must know my wife who went to Catholic school in Bergen County and hates sex.

 

[njlauren]

Known more than a few like that.....it is amazing how much of this crap is still out there promoted as "morality". Freud once said that religion was responsible for more neuroses and psychoses with their attitudes towards sex then any other causes.

 

[BreakfastinAmerica]

Round of applause for this! Stop assuming what is good for her is good for you.

i agree 100%.......have some respect for the lady. and while we're on the subject why dont you show her your're posting. i bet that will go down really well.

 

[charlie069]

so true

My wife had an unpleasant experience in college when a guy forced his cock in her mouth and shot a huge load down her throat. She almost threw up and has never let me or anyone else cum in her mouth. She made it clear to me that I had to pull out before cumming. That's fine with me. My advice is to enjoy what you get, which is more than a lot of men experience.

i can't even get my wife to kiss the shaft never mind take it in her mouth.

 

[IsItBad]

dose of reality

imho, there are women who love cock, love to suck cock, love to please their man, and love everything to do with cum.....

and then, there are all the rest.

there are many women, who learn how to do a proper blowjob, who even learn to let the guy cum in their mouth.....and might even learn to swallow it.....but they are not enjoying it....it is just something they feel obligated to do.....

to me, it is blatantly obvious which is which.....and after all this time, id rather not have a blowjob than to have it from someone just going through the motions or just doing it out of obligation......

on the other hand.....with a girl who loves cock, who loves the taste of precum and cum......who loves to give her man such pleasure......then it is completely to die for.....

having said all that.....there is literally nothing you can do....if she isn't letting you cum in her mouth by now.....she probably never will.....or even if she does, she will be making a face like its gross .......

sad reality

 

[Majorbedhead]

Ummmm i dunno..... maybe pay her???


These first world problems are becoming antagonizing

 

[_Delilah_]

Ummmm i dunno..... maybe pay her???


These first world problems are becoming antagonizing

That would add an interesting dynamic. I wonder what the going rate is for nutting in your honey’s mouth these days.

Role play ideas abound!

 

[hisplaceof]

Be careful what you wish for - lol. My wife is riding another sexual wave. No complaints here but my penis is down right sore from all her sucking me off lately. Oh and don't forget the cum play, so much cum play. Love trying to keep up with her!

 

[exgovie]

Could not agree more

imho, there are women who love cock, love to suck cock, love to please their man, and love everything to do with cum.....

and then, there are all the rest.

there are many women, who learn how to do a proper blowjob, who even learn to let the guy cum in their mouth.....and might even learn to swallow it.....but they are not enjoying it....it is just something they feel obligated to do.....

to me, it is blatantly obvious which is which.....and after all this time, id rather not have a blowjob than to have it from someone just going through the motions or just doing it out of obligation......

on the other hand.....with a girl who loves cock, who loves the taste of precum and cum......who loves to give her man such pleasure......then it is completely to die for.....

having said all that.....there is literally nothing you can do....if she isn't letting you cum in her mouth by now.....she probably never will.....or even if she does, she will be making a face like its gross .......

sad reality

After many years finally got the wife to let me cum in her mouth. Then as time progress she extended the time for my cock to remain in her mouth after cumming. Advance some 60 years along still never swallows and as I got less able to stay erect oral was all I had. Now since I know she is just doing it as a "duty" I can not seem to cum anymore. My advice do not push her to swallow as she may just quit all together. Rather work on her attitude to sucking you off it will be better in the future.

 

[crazy4myhusband]

After many years finally got the wife to let me cum in her mouth. Then as time progress she extended the time for my cock to remain in her mouth after cumming. Advance some 60 years along still never swallows and as I got less able to stay erect oral was all I had. Now since I know she is just doing it as a "duty" I can not seem to cum anymore. My advice do not push her to swallow as she may just quit all together. Rather work on her attitude to sucking you off it will be better in the future.

It is all the attitude one takes towards the sex act. We can all train ourselves to be pleasing to our mates. Everyone please work harder, no need to have sexless, or blah sex lives.

 

[hisplaceof]

It is all the attitude one takes towards the sex act. We can all train ourselves to be pleasing to our mates. Everyone please work harder, no need to have sexless, or blah sex lives.

Yes mam!

 

[BreakfastinAmerica]

Why are you so obsessed with ejaculating in your wife's mouth? try shooting you're goo in the palm of you're hand and trying it for yourself! ffs if she does'nt want to do it.... or go to a gloryhole ? just saying.

 

[pantydave]

My

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

wife lets me cum in her mouth then spits it out.

 

[Diosax]

Some of you men are so gross and need to understand the idea of autonomy and consent.

You act like sex is a given right because you're married. And you come here acting like your wife is this monster bc she doesn't want to have sex with you or doesn't want to do certain thing.

You know whats the best way to get your cum swallowed every time??? Swallow it yourself!!

God I'm never so glad to not be married as when i read stuff like this.

 

[Lucy_Lastic]

Some of you men are so gross and need to understand the idea of autonomy and consent.

You act like sex is a given right because you're married. And you come here acting like your wife is this monster bc she doesn't want to have sex with you or doesn't want to do certain thing.

You know whats the best way to get your cum swallowed every time??? Swallow it yourself!!

God I'm never so glad to not be married as when i read stuff like this.

This, 100%.

Your wife is a human being. I think you're mistaking her for a bucket.

 

[hanban24]

How do I convince my wife to let me come in her mouth? It just isn't the same using a cloth at the end of an amazing blow job.

Some women just aren’t into taking a cumshot in the mouth and that’s okay. That being said, maybe you can convince her to let you do it elsewhere. Can see how a rag would be a bit of a kill joy.

 

[Elite_Goblin]

Some of you men are so gross and need to understand the idea of autonomy and consent.

You act like sex is a given right because you're married. And you come here acting like your wife is this monster bc she doesn't want to have sex with you or doesn't want to do certain thing.

You know whats the best way to get your cum swallowed every time??? Swallow it yourself!!

God I'm never so glad to not be married as when i read stuff like this.

Ummm...I have swallowed it myself.