Necrophilia

[graceanne]

You think I insult people to try and hurt thier feelings?

Dumb cunt.

Um, that's not something that's gonna bother anyone here, either. It's a term of affection between some dom's and their subs.

 

[Etoile]

You think I insult people to try and hurt thier feelings?

Dumb cunt.

Of course not. We think you're a sad little boy who has frequent temper tantrums.

And speaking of sad...don't think I've forgotten the time you begged me for cybersex, either.

Also: I can kill you with my brain.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Of course not. We think you're a sad little boy who has frequent temper tantrums.

And speaking of sad...don't think I've forgotten the time you begged me for cybersex, either.

Also: I can kill you with my brain.

LOL, well said Etoile. Have to say it does get difficult not to feel sorry for one who obviously hasn't got a life, but I'm hanging in there cause I think maybe there is a little masochist in there trying to find out how to get his fix and we all know what it is like to be there so maybe sympathy would not be the best course.

Catalina

 

[A Desert Rose]

You think I insult people to try and hurt THEIR feelings?

Dumb but beautiful and ooooooh so sexy, cunt.

There... I fixed it for ya.

 

[NemoAlia]

Fantasizing about rape is a far cry from actually fucking a dead body.

Yeah, but you'll notice I compared fantasizing about rape to fantasizing about fucking a dead body. An apt comparison, I would say.

 

[leeroy jenkins]

Fuck you and fuck you.

Dykes.

LOL, normally I say flame on lets get a discussion going that will enflame people a bit so they post with vigor. But name calling when out with gradeschool or did you not get the memo like the rest of us here??

 

[High-Tied]

Lets try and lighten this thread up a bit...I wonder how many people have requested to have their favorite pair of nipple clamps put on them when they are buried. Or how about some Domme requesting that her sub be buried with a chastity device on? Seems only appropriate for some.

 

[NemoAlia]

Or how about some Domme requesting that her sub be buried with a chastity device on? Seems only appropriate for some.

That sort of thing (assuming it had a keyed lock) would certainly take care of any potential risk of necrophilic behavior

 

[FurryFury]

That sort of thing (assuming it had a keyed lock) would certainly take care of any potential risk of necrophilic behavior

LMAO!

I drove by a grave side funeral today. Strange what people wear these days. *shakes head*

Fury

 

[WriterDom]

You definately have anger issues, dontcha?


And they call me a bitch... LOL

Only during PMS. Then your head spins like Linda Blair. Otherwise you are quite the lady.

 

[A Desert Rose]

Only during PMS. Then your head spins like Linda Blair. Otherwise you are quite the lady.

ahhhh... you've always been such a sweet talkin' fella. You know how much I you, don't you?


So... to stay on topic WD,... would you fuck me if I were dead? ;-)

 

[WriterDom]

ahhhh... you've always been such a sweet talkin' fella. You know how much I you, don't you?


So... to stay on topic WD,... would you fuck me if I were dead? ;-)

Well, if you died while we were fucking...

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Sure but you gonna go there and give it to them?

if a person writes it in they,re will
that they want a good fuck in the afterlife
should it be legal

 

[John Doe]

Yeah, but you'll notice I compared fantasizing about rape to fantasizing about fucking a dead body. An apt comparison, I would say.

I suppose, but fantasizing about rape actually makes sense on an evolutionary level, but fantasizing about necrophilia doesn't seem to serve any purpose that I can see.

 

[FurryFury]

Never mind.

 

[NemoAlia]

...fantasizing about necrophilia doesn't seem to serve any purpose that I can see.

...except to turn on some people now and then!

I say that's all the reason we need, to allow ourselves a fantasy.

 

[FurryFury]

...except to turn on some people now and then!

I say that's all the reason we need, to allow ourselves a fantasy.

Word

Fury

 

[Shankara20]

so - this thread is not dead yet?




run run run run run,,,,,,,,,,,

 

[John Doe]

...except to turn on some people now and then!

I say that's all the reason we need, to allow ourselves a fantasy.

I can certainly the appeal of the 'well it turns people on so it's okay by me' line of reasoning, but if we're going to seriously discuss the issues, we kinda have to go beyond the platitudes.

 

[shy slave]

Its threads like this that make me lose heart in people.

I agree with stup on this and Shank and Rebecca.

The idea is sick, as RR said 'What has this to do with BDSM?

Has this forum degenerated into a place where anyone with a sick fantasy can find acceptance?

In another thread someone asked for ideas to humilate is g/f, several of you jumped on him and waving the BDSM morality card saying Oh, no, the situations you describe are not SSC so begone; but it appears its ok to discuss fucking dead bodies as oppose to humilating live g/f's?

This strikes me as a tad hypocritical.

I don't give a fuck what you have fantasies about, but some things are not under BDSM, whatever you decide the individual letters stand for.

I would rather have 5 mins real time humiliation than hours, days weeks of fantasy about anything, including dead bodies.

When you discover someone you had an emotional relationship with has died, expecteded, unexpected, suicide whatever; don't for a minute think you would consider fucking them as an act of love. What happens is you have bad dreams and waking hells wishing they were back with you.

If you do think you would end up fucking them, have a long look at yourself and decide if you actually like yourself.....you do?
ok;
head back to fantasy land where, after you fucked them, they raise from the dead and thank you.

 

[FurryFury]

Its threads like this that make me lose heart in people.

I agree with stup on this and Shank and Rebecca.

The idea is sick, as RR said 'What has this to do with BDSM?

Has this forum degenerated into a place where anyone with a sick fantasy can find acceptance?

In another thread someone asked for ideas to humilate is g/f, several of you jumped on him and waving the BDSM morality card saying Oh, no, the situations you describe are not SSC so begone; but it appears its ok to discuss fucking dead bodies as oppose to humilating live g/f's?

This strikes me as a tad hypocritical.

I don't give a fuck what you have fantasies about, but some things are not under BDSM, whatever you decide the individual letters stand for.

I would rather have 5 mins real time humiliation than hours, days weeks of fantasy about anything, including dead bodies.

When you discover someone you had an emotional relationship with has died, expecteded, unexpected, suicide whatever; don't for a minute think you would consider fucking them as an act of love. What happens is you have bad dreams and waking hells wishing they were back with you.

If you do think you would end up fucking them, have a long look at yourself and decide if you actually like yourself.....you do?
ok;
head back to fantasy land where, after you fucked them, they raise from the dead and thank you.

And that is why I deleted a post on here because I didn't want to upset you.

However you may note that I said I would tell the person requesting that I fuck them when they were dead that I would but I would not honor that request. I would simply say so to ease them.

I am far too emotional for such things.

I could argue the SSC part of it but I won't. I don't want to argue with you.

Fury

 

[@}-}rebecca----]

Its threads like this that make me lose heart in people.

I agree with stup on this and Shank and Rebecca.

The idea is sick, as RR said 'What has this to do with BDSM?

Has this forum degenerated into a place where anyone with a sick fantasy can find acceptance?

In another thread someone asked for ideas to humilate is g/f, several of you jumped on him and waving the BDSM morality card saying Oh, no, the situations you describe are not SSC so begone; but it appears its ok to discuss fucking dead bodies as oppose to humilating live g/f's?

This strikes me as a tad hypocritical.

I don't give a fuck what you have fantasies about, but some things are not under BDSM, whatever you decide the individual letters stand for.

I would rather have 5 mins real time humiliation than hours, days weeks of fantasy about anything, including dead bodies.

When you discover someone you had an emotional relationship with has died, expecteded, unexpected, suicide whatever; don't for a minute think you would consider fucking them as an act of love. What happens is you have bad dreams and waking hells wishing they were back with you.

If you do think you would end up fucking them, have a long look at yourself and decide if you actually like yourself.....you do?
ok;
head back to fantasy land where, after you fucked them, they raise from the dead and thank you.

Shy you know you have my support in this matter.

@}-}rebecca----

EDITED TO ADD I will not be participating in any flame festival that may arise on the topic either.END OF EDIT

 

[shy slave]

And that is why I deleted a post on here because I didn't want to upset you.

However you may note that I said I would tell the person requesting that I fuck them when they were dead that I would but I would not honor that request. I would simply say so to ease them.

I am far too emotional for such things.

I could argue the SSC part of it but I won't. I don't want to argue with you.

Fury

Nor I with you Fury,

But this thread really makes my blood pressure boil.
I cannot remember another thread that has had that ability since I joined Lit, nor on the other forums I am non.

I cannot say its all about my son dying, I never wanted to fuck him when he was alive; but I am very sure his g/f did not have that urge. It took a huge amount of courage for her to see him at the funeral directors.

We have talked death FF, and I have no issue with your views, they are yours and I can respect that.

I know I do Rebecca~thank you

 

[FurryFury]

Nor I with you Fury,

But this thread really makes my blood pressure boil.
I cannot remember another thread that has had that ability since I joined Lit, nor on the other forums I am non.

I cannot say its all about my son dying, I never wanted to fuck him when he was alive; but I am very sure his g/f did not have that urge. It took a huge amount of courage for her to see him at the funeral directors.

We have talked death FF, and I have no issue with your views, they are yours and I can respect that.

I know I do Rebecca~thank you

I'm very glad to hear it.

*HUGS*

Fury

 

[catalina_francisco]

I'm sorry the thread has had such an effect on you shy, and to some extent I can relate to where you are coming from as well as respect your opinion and feelings. As you know, I have a high opinion of you and I am not about to judge you or change my opinion and affection for you over your expressing your opinion...that is one of the things I like about this forum, the ability for most to share their opinion and not be continually shouted down and flamed for it. I also think it comes back to personal views and feelings and how we relate to life and death. I didn't want to fuck my father when he was dead, but then I also didn't when he was alive, so that didn't come into my thoughts on how I feel about the subject matter as it wasn't relevant....I also would not be interested in fucking a friend or stranger after they were dead.

I know many people were horrified I went to see my father's body and spend time with him practically as soon as I was off the plane...but then they also admitted they were not comfortable with being near a dead body so to them being in the same room or near someone after death was a nightmare...I remember how some of their faces went white when they found out I had spent that time with him. To me death is just a step in our journey and I have thought for many years on how I would feel if someone I was in love with died and always it has been very emotional and also accepting that I may want to spend time with them after their death, and that part of that may be about touching intimately, though not in a puffing panting way I think some envision. To me, even after death they are still the person they always were in life...they are not alien, nor contaminated, nor someone I can turn away from in horror or revulsion. Actually now I think of it, there have been a few people who were close to my heart in a non-sexual way who I did not think twice about kissing lightly after death as I would have in life..and I was not the only one in most of those times who did so without hesitation or distaste.

I have a view of love which transcends death, and in part that was probably why it seemed natural to me when F demanded I never be owned by another if anything were to happen to him...just seemed natural. It also seems natural for me that I might want to lay with him after death, that I would undoubtedly want to kiss him, and that I may want to share intimate moments with him in that context if it were also something he had indicated he was comfortable with. I do see it as being able to relate to D/s, just as I see it relateable to loving someone with all your heart and being. Being highly emotional beings, it is for me a form of expression, and a way of hnouring the one I love. If he expressed he did not share that view and did not want anything remotely intimate or personal after death, I would honour his wish because as in all things, I am not into non-consensual acts, nor would I want to dishonour his ownership by going against his wishes.

I especially see it as relating to D/s if it were an expressed wish of the Dominant in the event of their or their submissives death. As everyone has an individual relationship and style of D/s, I can see how some might not be able to stretch to see it as D/s after death. For us though we have already discussed how our M/s relationship will be for eternity, not just while we both live in this place in time, on this planet. And of course, expressing how we feel at this point in time when we are not presented with the death of our loved Dominant or submissive, as in all things, when the reality happens no-one can be 100% sure of how they will experience it or react until it is a reality. Some who feel intimacy would be a wish might find they couldn't handle it for one reason or another when the time came, while those who feel it just is not possible might find they want to or need to have that last closeness. Human emotions can do strange things, and for myself I can only say how I feel I would feel as I have never loved like this before, nor lost one I love so deeply as I do F.

Catalina