Need advice from happily married men

[cyndiesweet]

I think that it is a myth that the male has one orgasm and roles
over asleep. Yes, orgasm can make you sleepy but I think with the right stimuli most FIT males could get up 2-3 times easily.
If he comes mastubate or suck him, or push your pussy in his face and get some until he's in the right mood again. The 2nd and 3rd orgasms should see him lasting longer and being harder than before.

Mind you I only go on personal experience, not suffering from premature anything, one orgasm an hour, or ten an hour, depending how the mood takes us.

if you don't damn well try to beat that sleepwall after the first orgasm what do you expect?


C.

How old are you?

 

[cactiphile]

How old are you?

I'm 30 and been married 6 years.

Also by FIT, I mean don't smoke, not overweight,
doesnt drink too much or take medications or drugs.

c.

 

[Guest]

I would say there is a definitely some kind of anxiety there. I would forget about the sex for a while. Why not just tell him you would like to do what ever he wants this weekend. Do that a few times till he has no problem telling you what he wants to do and then possibly bring up that what ever he wants to do includes the sexual area as well.


Spin


just my 2 cents

 

[Yeagermeister]

14 years is a long time, sex is not as important as it was when we were young. A good portion of guys my age will prefer a good footbal game or a night out with the buddies over sex. Unless it is with someone new. I know it sounds sad, but it is very much true. As far as answering your "trying something new" question. You are going to have to give him some examples of what you mean. I know I wouldn't have gone down that road with my wife, without her leading me down the road to what she views as acceptable options.

 

[It'sasecret]

I really feel for you HoneyBunny. If you have read my post on this board you know I in the same boat (or maybe even worse). I don't want to make it seem hopeless, but I have tried everything to get my husband going, to no avail. I truly hope things are different for you. Good Luck.

 

[cyndiesweet]

I'm 30 and been married 6 years.

Also by FIT, I mean don't smoke, not overweight,
doesnt drink too much or take medications or drugs.

c.

I agree it helps to be "fit". We are both close to your age but have been married much longer(11 years). Sometimes, even often we chose between sex and sleep. We have small children. Once is all we can hope for. Too there is a growing discrepancy between ourr libido's. Mine is creeping up since I am near the 30 year mark, his is going down . His peak was 10 years ago.So as much As I would like to agree with you it sounds great I can't.

 

[BJ]

About Married Men

I don't know if I'm to late to respond to your particular post, I am a married man, I have been for 13 years. For the most part we've been happy and the sex ok. The only thing missing in our sexual relations is that she isn't into oral sex.
Simply put, she loves it when I give her satisfaction that way, but won't resiprocate. I've learned to live with that. She also isn't into any roll playing. That's something you might try. I do appolgize if that's not the type of response your looking for. It's been a while since I posted anything here. I hope this helps.