Ok, very serious question.......

[Sweetdaisymae]

So, kids with special needs don't go to school, sleep or have social lives?
Interestingly narrow perspective and very wrong.

 

[incubus'_sub]

graceanne apparently home schools this child. it's written right above.

i had to wonder about the busy, busy mother too. she's on here, and it seems on a number of other boards too, almost all the time.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

graceanne apparently home schools this child. it's written right above.

i had to wonder about the busy, busy mother too. she's on here, and it seems on a number of other boards too, almost all the time.

I don't know, I have a busy job, kids, social life and I often have lit running in the background on my pc or phone so I can keep in touch with my friends, it takes little time from my day.

 

[incubus'_sub]

maybe so but i doubt that you contribute her sheer volume of words. i also doubt that you spend your day composing long winded, opiniated posts on a sex forum during your paid working hours.

i know if i had 5 kids, one of whom was special needs, under my supervision i wouldn't find it appropriate to have lit "running in the background" even if i wasn't being paid for the babysitting. concentration only spreads so far, even for our self confessed superwoman.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

maybe so but i doubt that you contribute her sheer volume of words. i also doubt that you spend your day composing long winded, opiniated posts on a sex forum during your paid working hours.

i know if i had 5 kids, one of whom was special needs, under my supervision i wouldn't find it appropriate to have lit "running in the background" even if i wasn't being paid for the babysitting. concentration only spreads so far, even for our self confessed superwoman.

I guess that I wouldn't presume to comment on her life until I had walked a mile in her shoes. That is where we differ.

 

[incubus'_sub]

oh, i don't know. she's quite comfortable commenting on mine and everyone else's lives despite knowing next to nothing about us.

on the other hand we are force fed a steady diet of her life and innards.

 

[blulilacgrl]

My god, you have three children and one is "special needs"! I see your posting history so you pretty much spend all your valuable time here on this board. Don't you think your time would be better well spent taking care of that "special needs" child??? Instead of you fucking around with strangers here on a sex message forum????
"Special needs"
"Special needs"
"Special needs"
Mother of the year award right here folks! You should be embarrassed of yourself. Shit, I may be cheating on my wife in some weird way, but you are cheating on your own child's "special needs" life.........

Word of advice, maybe devote just half of the time you spend on here to that "special needs" child and maybe just maybe......ahhhh forget about it, you already don't get it. God Bless that "special needs" child

This gives us such insight into how you might possibly be treating your wife. It is quite apparent from this posting that you have no idea how a mother's life is run while taking care of children. Which leads me to believe you have never tried to understand your wife's day, you just sit back in judgment and probably make belittling comments. You have now officially made into the running for 'Douchebag of the Year'. Congratulations

And you are not cheating on your wife "in some weird way", you are cheating on your wife period.

oh, i don't know. she's quite comfortable commenting on mine and everyone else's lives despite knowing next to nothing about us.

on the other hand we are force fed a steady diet of her life and innards.

Oh my God!!! You mean she commented on the life of a poster who asked for comments? Fuck! Incubus, I wish I understood the ins and outs of a discussion board as well as you do. So what you are saying, I just want to make sure I understand before improperly posting on another thread, when a poster asks for commentary we should not give it. Gotcha! Again I have to thank you for your intelligent and obviously well thought out posts.

maybe so but i doubt that you contribute her sheer volume of words. i also doubt that you spend your day composing long winded, opiniated posts on a sex forum during your paid working hours.

i know if i had 5 kids, one of whom was special needs, under my supervision i wouldn't find it appropriate to have lit "running in the background" even if i wasn't being paid for the babysitting. concentration only spreads so far, even for our self confessed superwoman.

Nope, in no way ignorant or judgmental.

 

[Netzach]

Fuck off, you piece of shit. My special needs daughter is far more intelligent then you could ever wish to be.

Thread is won.

 

[Kellydude666]

This gives us such insight into how you might possibly be treating your wife. It is quite apparent from this posting that you have no idea how a mother's life is run while taking care of children. Which leads me to believe you have never tried to understand your wife's day, you just sit back in judgment and probably make belittling comments. You have now officially made into the running for 'Douchebag of the Year'. Congratulations

And you are not cheating on your wife "in some weird way", you are cheating on your wife period.



Oh my God!!! You mean she commented on the life of a poster who asked for comments? Fuck! Incubus, I wish I understood the ins and outs of a discussion board as well as you do. So what you are saying, I just want to make sure I understand before improperly posting on another thread, when a poster asks for commentary we should not give it. Gotcha! Again I have to thank you for your intelligent and obviously well thought out posts.



Nope, in no way ignorant or judgmental.

Gotta love it, the pot calling the kettle black. I know this much, if we had three kids and one was "special needs" me or my wife wouldn't be spending our days or our lives on a sex message forum. Shame on the dumb bitch! Mother of the year award for sure. Let it go, you and SHE have already exposed yourselves for what you really are. You wanna judge, I can play that game too. She's a LOSER!!!

 

[KoPilot]

maybe so but i doubt that you contribute her sheer volume of words. i also doubt that you spend your day composing long winded, opiniated posts on a sex forum during your paid working hours.

i know if i had 5 kids, one of whom was special needs, under my supervision i wouldn't find it appropriate to have lit "running in the background" even if i wasn't being paid for the babysitting. concentration only spreads so far, even for our self confessed superwoman.

What, do you have to bang two rocks together to dial up to the interwebs? Do you type at 8 words a minute? Do you read at the same rate?

Not sure about you, but posting on a forum takes such an inconsequential amount of time from my day that I actually post at several forums, run one, do social media, and I still manage to get work done AND have free time on top of it.

Doubly hilarious was your 5+ pages of harping on people for giving their opinions about the OP's marriage (when he asked for it) and now you're doing it yourself (with someone who didn't). Homo Hypocritus indeed.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Gotta love it, the pot calling the kettle black. I know this much, if we had three kids and one was "special needs" me or my wife wouldn't be spending our days or our lives on a sex message forum. Shame on the dumb bitch! Mother of the year award for sure. Let it go, you and SHE have already exposed yourselves for what you really are. You wanna judge, I can play that game too. She's a LOSER!!!

[laughs]

You need to doublecheck the meaning of that phrase.

But in this "if we had three kids and one was "special needs" you are correct. You really don't know what you would do because you haven't and are not there.

 

[Kellydude666]

[laughs]

You need to doublecheck the meaning of that phrase.

But in this "if we had three kids and one was "special needs" you are correct. You really don't know what you would do because you haven't and are not there.

HMMMM, yes I do, and it wouldn't be spent on a sex forum that's for sure. Her post count is through the roof so now at least we established where her priorities lie, and it's not with her "special needs" child and her other children.
And it's also been established that she posts the hell out of herself on other various sites. She's great though, she's been here 24/7 the last few days and now we call her out and you know she's reading this but now she's gotta prove to us all she's been busy with her kids. It's getting so laughable now

 

[Emerson40]

Holy smokes, I haven't seen so much deflection since working with those light boxes and mirrors in high school.

To the O/P - your original post asked for input about a touchy and polarizing subject, which was sure to generate some heated discussion. I think you were kinda fishing for some abuse and anger thrown your way - you even fueled the flames when attempting to justify your post / behavoiur with your shallow comments about your wife's weight.

Now you're just firing off insults and calling names, which again reminds one of high school.

Perhaps you are just seeking further abuse. Perhaps not. Either way, you will never get a majority to agree with the behaviors you propose, for the reasons you suggested.

If you are genuine and have just been misunderstood, I suggest you read back through the thread as there is some sound advice. You may not care for some of it because it holds you accountable for your actions (those done, and those suggested), and requires you to take a look at yourself and address some serious issues with yourself, and your views about your wife and relationship. The advice cost you nothing, and you can place value on it as you see fit.

If you are not really interested in the responces to your original post, or if you are just trolling for shit and abuse, then carry on as you were.
If this is the case, I'll save you the trouble of replying.

"Oh look, another fatty-fuck lazy loser throwing his two cents in. If I wanted real advice and opinion, I wouldn't have posted on a sex site. Go drop another dozen cinabons down your throat."

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Seriously, I really need to know if there are different rules for parents of special needs children than for the rest of society?
Are they not allowed friends or a sex life?
Is there some legislature somewhere that dictates that special needs parents must live a life of piety and solitude?
Do enlighten me where this opinion comes from please.

 

[Kellydude666]

Seriously, I really need to know if there are different rules for parents of special needs children than for the rest of society?
Are they not allowed friends or a sex life?
Is there some legislature somewhere that dictates that special needs parents must live a life of piety and solitude?
Do enlighten me where this opinion comes from please.

Different rules? Not sure about that but it's been established by her post count, the amount of times she has spent on this thread alone, and another poster has already established she on various other sites with high post counts. So how in the world can she possibly be dividing her time between sex sites and paying attention to her children and one who is "special needs" her priorities are clearly not with them, her priorities are here and other sites posting and judging other posters. Pretty clear. And we don't even know how her other useless time is spent on other hobbies.
Sheesh, what a loser parent! That much is clear.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Different rules? Not sure about that but it's been established by her post count, the amount of times she has spent on this thread alone, and another poster has already established she on various other sites with high post counts. So how in the world can she possibly be dividing her time between sex sites and paying attention to her children and one who is "special needs" her priorities are clearly not with them, her priorities are here and other sites posting and judging other posters. Pretty clear. And we don't even know how her other useless time is spent on other hobbies.
Sheesh, what a loser parent! That much is clear.

You have no idea what bringing up a special needs child entails, how much help the family receive from other family members or from care agency staff. It becomes glaringly aparrent that you know very little, apart from how to sling insults. Seriously an allegedly grown man screaming "fatty" and "retard" at anyone who dares to disagree with him. Grow up man, go spend some time with the wife who you profess to love instead of slinging infantile insults at strangers who dared to have an opinion on something that you asked them to.

 

[LazyAssReader]

This thread makes me laugh. I am a vanilla lurker on LIT boards. By what I've read here,it seems the OP is topping from the bottom.LMAO He's controlling the responses here. He has people talking about this in other threads.
This reminds me of a thread I read in another section of this forum.

Damn it, Breeze! No fair coming in and being all lady like and what not! [laughs]


Although, and this is the one issue I have with your post (the rest I will. as I do with others, choose to agree to disagree)


If, on the other hand, the OP continues in what the culture has deemed to be an 'inappropriate' way, then the OP will be ridiculed and ostracised.

First~ I don't see the point in and frankly it bothers me to see a bunch of "adults" gleefully piling on to poke fun at and ridicule another poster because he/she said something they don't like. It is silly and childish and I always question the need for the ridicule when simple silence would have sufficed. I will even go so far as to say that I have engaged in knock down, drag outs and looking back I am ashamed and mortified by my behavior. I would also point out, Breeze, (and trust me, I point this out with respect) I have never seen you stoop to this behavior, in fact I always feel quite low when I am around you.

Second~ I have seen a poster or two that has been ridiculed for relatively innocuous statements.

But please keep this going,it's good entertainment for the lurkers here.

 

[blulilacgrl]

This thread makes me laugh. I am a vanilla lurker on LIT boards. By what I've read here,it seems the OP is topping from the bottom.LMAO He's controlling the responses here. He has people talking about this in other threads.
This reminds me of a thread I read in another section of this forum.



But please keep this going,it's good entertainment for the lurkers here.

Go back and read where that post was made and what it was about. I was discussing the How-To forum. Specifically the How-To forum. I said over and over again that I didn't care what went on in other forum. But that the How-To forum should be free of it.

The OP of this thread didn't post in the How-To forum (which is not this forum), nor did he ask for advice on how to do something. He wanted to know if anyone one else was doing what he was doing.

I have seen a poster or two that has been ridiculed for relatively innocuous statements.

And I'm sorry at what point are statements where you call your partner fat and lazy, call other posters fat, lazy, retard, cunt, etc considered innocuous?

However in light of doing a semblance of a mea culpa... I will apologize for calling the OP a douchebag. Better?

 

[Kellydude666]

You have no idea what bringing up a special needs child entails, how much help the family receive from other family members or from care agency staff. It becomes glaringly aparrent that you know very little, apart from how to sling insults. Seriously an allegedly grown man screaming "fatty" and "retard" at anyone who dares to disagree with him. Grow up man, go spend some time with the wife who you profess to love instead of slinging infantile insults at strangers who dared to have an opinion on something that you asked them to.

You really are stupid blind. I didn't call anybody anything until I was savagely called names, go back and read, but you want to see what you want to see. It's getting dumb reading your responses. I just respond in kind to everyone.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Seriously, I really need to know if there are different rules for parents of special needs children than for the rest of society?
Are they not allowed friends or a sex life?

I need more information to answer your question. Are these parents thin?

 

[incubus'_sub]

lilac, if you're going to quote me please include the specific context ie the statement i was answering.

it's true, the op did not start name calling until he was hammered by some regulars on a particular point which struck a nerve with them. he, in turn, has picked on a different point and hammered back. we're all human and ALL of our lives are more than the odd point we reveal here.

topping from the bottom my arse! the main attempt to control has come from graceanne. she wanted to shut him down and shut him up as she does to anyone who disagrees with her limited view of life and morals. he called her on it as did i.

for what it's worth i nursed for years at a hospital with over 1000 "special needs" residents of all types and behaviours. i do indeed know about caring for and teaching these people. you need eyes in the back of your head not glued to a computer screen.

 

[blulilacgrl]

 

[incubus'_sub]

amazing, a whole day without graceanne adding her bit or calling someone a troll. must be a record.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

I need more information to answer your question. Are these parents thin?

In all likelyhood no.

 

[Somcock]

Funny, walk a mile in her shoes. Obviously she isn't using her shoes to walk or do any other exercise. My wife got heavier for a little while and I told her to get the fucking weight off. She looked like an egg, who but a chicken wants to fuck an egg. I think he should do what ever the fuck he wants to do. I assumed it would boil down to lousy sex at home. Seems to me she hooked him, got knocked up because she wanted fucking kids and then cut him out of the pussy pages. I'll make you a bet she hasn't sucked his dick in years. Typically fucking wife.