Ok, very serious question.......

[graceanne]

Crap too late.

Jesus Christ girlie. My starting was 100 and I got stranded 1 year once, 6 mos. second time. This latest round was only 4 weeks, and I still put on the last 10 lbs I'd just lost - in one week. I switched out all my ravenousness onto canned salmon and blueberries and leaves, so I'm glad it was just 10.

Acting like anyone who's been down this train can lose weight like everyone else is like expecting someone to just run in the paralympics using their hands.

Yeah, the 300 was spread out over the day. I got one shot, twice a day, of 150 mgs. I was also getting regular shots of dilauded and morphine, and shots in the stomach of blood thinners. lol Not one of my favorite times, but I don't remember it so well, either. You know, cause I was stoned out of my GOURD.

I've had two doctors tell me not to bother trying to lose weight, that it's not possible, that the prednisone had permanently fucked my metabolism, and I was going to be fat the rest of my life. I finally found one who directed me to the ideal protein diet, bless him. I can't afford it anymore, and honestly I'd rather starve than drink another protein shake.

 

[Kellydude666]

Yeah, the 300 was spread out over the day. I got one shot, twice a day, of 150 mgs. I was also getting regular shots of dilauded and morphine, and shots in the stomach of blood thinners. lol Not one of my favorite times, but I don't remember it so well, either. You know, cause I was stoned out of my GOURD.

I've had two doctors tell me not to bother trying to lose weight, that it's not possible, that the prednisone had permanently fucked my metabolism, and I was going to be fat the rest of my life. I finally found one who directed me to the ideal protein diet, bless him. I can't afford it anymore, and honestly I'd rather starve than drink another protein shake.

Haha, justifying why you have no interest in taking care of yourself. It's called put the fork down you dumb bitch and get to the gym.

 

[Noor]

Haha, justifying why you have no interest in taking care of yourself. It's called put the fork down you dumb bitch and get to the gym.

Never grow old, never get injured, never get sick and you should be able to do fine with your reasoning.

 

[incubus'_sub]

oh, please. the guy came on here to ask a valid b & d question and most of you tried, convicted and hanged him.

yes, njlauren condemned him for mentioning his business success. such a crime !

despite so many unusual desires being written about here, he's a dreadful person for not being attracted to fat - like the majority of people when and IF they DARE to be honest.

some of you have made that all about YOU and it's become the battle of the illnesses and meds. oh, i forgot lilac. her sadnesses are somehow unusual - NOT. i don't know ANYONE who has not faced similar situations, myself included.

knowledge - ex nurse here seeing illness left, right and centre so probably not an even sample however, by and large, the overweight are those who graze day in and day out. body type or disease seem to me to make little difference in the attitude towards foods and eating.

come on, you still have his bones to crunch up.

 

[Netzach]

I'm all for going to the local friendly pro in these situations, and I don't equate that with just having affairs. Nor do I even think marital infidelity is the end of the world. Said so at square one. Still don't. Fuck, I think if he wants to see a pro because he wants attention from a hot catsuited woman who's 2 percent body fat, do it, just shut the fuck up about your wife altogether.

That to me, is being a decently not decent man.

When he pulled the Dbag move of making his wife's weight THE reason for failings that are undoubtedly a two way street he took a trip to asshole town.

I realize this is hard to follow but it's not "all about me" it's about the fact that a LOT of people out there are battling for health and fitness (fuck the visual outcome of "skinny") with different odds and results and complicating factors. "sick people" is not a tiny minority. A lot of them are fighting to put ON weight and the bullshit is just as toxic.

You see a lazy person, I just see someone else whose life story I have no idea the fuck about.

 

[Noor]

I'm all for going to the local friendly pro in these situations, and I don't equate that with just having affairs. Nor do I even think marital infidelity is the end of the world. Said so at square one. Still don't. Fuck, I think if he wants to see a pro because he wants attention from a hot catsuited woman who's 2 percent body fat, do it, just shut the fuck up about your wife altogether.

That to me, is being a decently not decent man.

When he pulled the Dbag move of making his wife's weight THE reason for failings that are undoubtedly a two way street he took a trip to asshole town.

I realize this is hard to follow but it's not "all about me" it's about the fact that a LOT of people out there are battling for health and fitness (fuck the visual outcome of "skinny") with different odds and results and complicating factors. "sick people" is not a tiny minority. A lot of them are fighting to put ON weight and the bullshit is just as toxic.

You see a lazy person, I just see someone else whose life story I have no idea the fuck about.

agreed! I followed it just fine.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Haha, justifying why you have no interest in taking care of yourself. It's called put the fork down you dumb bitch and get to the gym.

You've been told, ladies. Get to work on shedding those pounds, or say goodbye forever to your chance at making it with Kellydude666.

 

[Noor]

You've been told, ladies. Get to work on shedding those pounds, or say goodbye forever to your chance at making it with Kellydude666.

I wonder how many ladies actually gain pounds to avoid guys like him, kind of an ultimate acid test. I have notice some women who seem to slim down pretty much without trying after they get married or are in a good long term relationship.

 

[blulilacgrl]

oh, please. the guy came on here to ask a valid b & d question and most of you tried, convicted and hanged him.

yes, njlauren condemned him for mentioning his business success. such a crime !

despite so many unusual desires being written about here, he's a dreadful person for not being attracted to fat - like the majority of people when and IF they DARE to be honest.

some of you have made that all about YOU and it's become the battle of the illnesses and meds. oh, i forgot lilac. her sadnesses are somehow unusual - NOT. i don't know ANYONE who has not faced similar situations, myself included.

knowledge - ex nurse here seeing illness left, right and centre so probably not an even sample however, by and large, the overweight are those who graze day in and day out. body type or disease seem to me to make little difference in the attitude towards foods and eating.

come on, you still have his bones to crunch up.

Incubus... okay I have to ask what everybody else is wondering. Can you read? And I mean by that do you actually comprehend what you are reading?

I didn't say that my problems were unusual. I said that for the past few years I have had more important things to worry about. I have not made excuses for being overweight. I know what it will take for me to lose weight, I just have had other things on my mind, so I have put it off until such a time that I feel I can give it my attention. Not an excuse. When I am ready I will. Simple as that.

Another point you don't seem to be able to read and comprehend. No one has condemned him for creating a successful business or even staying fit and trim. Good on him for that. What a majority of the posters here had a problem with was his attitude toward his wife. Moreover, a large number of us can identify with the struggle of having a spouse that we care about but that is unable to explore this aspect of our sexuality. What we had a problem with was that he never even talked about it with her. And then blamed her for all their issues. A marriage is a union, which means I highly doubt that ALL the problems are hers and hers alone. And the more I see of his disgusting behavior, the more I am starting to think she probably isn't even responsible for 40% of their problems.

And I will follow your advice and stop 'grazing'. Wait... I don't do that at all. Well fuck! How does it feel to be wrong every single time you open your mouth?

And this " like the majority of people when and IF they DARE to be honest." This is what is wrong with people like you. You take your fucked up opinion and apply it to the majority. This is why I didn't believe my husband and my Dom and countless other men who told me I was beautiful and desirable. It is opinions like this, the assurance that they were lying to me me because surely, as you state, no one could find me attractive because I am overweight. But you know what? Turns out you are wrong. Accept that it is your opinion and just leave it at that. And I will accept that not all skinny people are intolerant and abrasive, that's just you.

 

[KoPilot]

You've been told, ladies. Get to work on shedding those pounds, or say goodbye forever to your chance at making it with Kellydude666.

FUCK

So this divorce was for nothing??

But Kellydude, what happens if I lose weight for you, and my doctor gets mad at me for being underweight because I'm already thin? Do listen to you or doctor??????????????

 

[Noor]

FUCK

So this divorce was for nothing??

But Kellydude, what happens if I lose weight for you, and my doctor gets mad at me for being underweight because I'm already thin? Do listen to you or doctor??????????????

I guess you'll have to wait until he posts your dilemma on lit, gets a bunch of answers and then decides to tells us what he really thinks

 

[Kellydude666]

Incubus... okay I have to ask what everybody else is wondering. Can you read? And I mean by that do you actually comprehend what you are reading?

I didn't say that my problems were unusual. I said that for the past few years I have had more important things to worry about. I have not made excuses for being overweight. I know what it will take for me to lose weight, I just have had other things on my mind, so I have put it off until such a time that I feel I can give it my attention. Not an excuse. When I am ready I will. Simple as that.

Another point you don't seem to be able to read and comprehend. No one has condemned him for creating a successful business or even staying fit and trim. Good on him for that. What a majority of the posters here had a problem with was his attitude toward his wife. Moreover, a large number of us can identify with the struggle of having a spouse that we care about but that is unable to explore this aspect of our sexuality. What we had a problem with was that he never even talked about it with her. And then blamed her for all their issues. A marriage is a union, which means I highly doubt that ALL the problems are hers and hers alone. And the more I see of his disgusting behavior, the more I am starting to think she probably isn't even responsible for 40% of their problems.

And I will follow your advice and stop 'grazing'. Wait... I don't do that at all. Well fuck! How does it feel to be wrong every single time you open your mouth?

And this " like the majority of people when and IF they DARE to be honest." This is what is wrong with people like you. You take your fucked up opinion and apply it to the majority. This is why I didn't believe my husband and my Dom and countless other men who told me I was beautiful and desirable. It is opinions like this, the assurance that they were lying to me me because surely, as you state, no one could find me attractive because I am overweight. But you know what? Turns out you are wrong. Accept that it is your opinion and just leave it at that. And I will accept that not all skinny people are intolerant and abrasive, that's just you.

Ok it's official, you are a retard. I thought maybe you were just a flat out cunt but you are a combo of both. My attitude towards my wife???? I said one thing turned me off and that was her weight and she hasn't done anything about it and that we have other issues going on together and you come up with that I'm blaming my wife and her alone. You are no smarter than a special needs child every time you post, it's laughable! Word of advice, next time just answer the poster's question instead of judging their personal life. And by the way, "working on losing weight" and you haven't found the time? Please, it doesn't take time, it's an everyday occurrence where you stop shoveling food down your throat from a buffet line.
I offered nothing other than I'm not turned on by my wife's weight and you follow up with your drivel. Gotta tell you, it's good that dumb folks like yourself still litter the population for the rest of the upper arc.

 

[blulilacgrl]

Ok it's official, you are a retard. I thought maybe you were just a flat out cunt but you are a combo of both. My attitude towards my wife???? I said one thing turned me off and that was her weight and she hasn't done anything about it and that we have other issues going on together and you come up with that I'm blaming my wife and her alone. You are no smarter than a special needs child every time you post, it's laughable! Word of advice, next time just answer the poster's question instead of judging their personal life. And by the way, "working on losing weight" and you haven't found the time? Please, it doesn't take time, it's an everyday occurrence where you stop shoveling food down your throat from a buffet line.
I offered nothing other than I'm not turned on by my wife's weight and you follow up with your drivel. Gotta tell you, it's good that dumb folks like yourself still litter the population for the rest of the upper arc.

There's a buffet line in my house?! When did that get there?!

Okay, and I know I am going to hate myself for asking this. Then what is your responsibility for what has gone wrong in your marriage, to the point where you cannot openly discuss your sexual predilections with your spouse?

 

[Kellydude666]

There's a buffet line in my house?! When did that get there?!

Okay, and I know I am going to hate myself for asking this. Then what is your responsibility for what has gone wrong in your marriage, to the point where you cannot openly discuss your sexual predilections with your spouse?

Well.....that question wouldn't have been a problem if you asked that after reading my original post(I would have answered it), instead of putting words in my mouth that I called her a fat pig and it's all her fault.
But, after the way I was judged on my marriage that no one here really knows anything about, why don't we just leave it at that and not get into it. No offense but after all the bullshit responses I'm sure you and your friends here hardly qualify as marriage counselors so let's just leave it be and we will end this on civil terms.

 

[KoPilot]

Okay, and I know I am going to hate myself for asking this. Then what is your responsibility for what has gone wrong in your marriage, to the point where you cannot openly discuss your sexual predilections with your spouse?

He basically admitted to being a coward in the OP except BUT WAIT EXCEPT SHE'S FAT AND UGLY that's the real reason he's not actually a coward, all her fault, nothing his fault. No responsibility.

 

[graceanne]

Incubus... okay I have to ask what everybody else is wondering. Can you read? And I mean by that do you actually comprehend what you are reading?

I don't think she can. Or will. It's moot point, as she only ever shows up to pick fights with regulars, then she goes away. I mean, seriously, look at her posting history!

I think she's an alt. Or a troll. Or both. *shrugs* I'm done wasting my time with her, she doesn't actually care about what anyone thinks but her, and there is no point trying to educate her. And since I won't call ... shoot, whatshisname anymore names to jerk off to, I guess I'm out of this thread.

 

[incubus'_sub]

funnily enough i think i'm one of the very few who actually DID read the OP and didn't put words into his mouth. the rest of you have taken one little thing and blown it up out of all proportion, then run with it.

you're right graceanne, i don't care what anyone thinks of me. educate me???? to be as ignorant, judgemental and hypocritical as you lot? anyone who calls you out is a troll??? i've been around for 10 years or so but i get bored with the same old, same old. every now and then i have a read to see if anything has changed but sadly, no. i get fed up reading the same pontificating pronouncements from people who despite saying how busy they are seem to spend many, many hours lecturing posters here from their own limited point of view. i'm guessing that barely a week has gone by in those 10 years that you haven't mentioned, in detail, your many and various illnesses and meds. you know i'm not an alt or a troll but as your apparent research suggests, i don't tolerate bullshit.

 

[blulilacgrl]

funnily enough i think i'm one of the very few who actually DID read the OP and didn't put words into his mouth. the rest of you have taken one little thing and blown it up out of all proportion, then run with it.

you're right graceanne, i don't care what anyone thinks of me. educate me???? to be as ignorant, judgemental and hypocritical as you lot? anyone who calls you out is a troll??? i've been around for 10 years or so but i get bored with the same old, same old. every now and then i have a read to see if anything has changed but sadly, no. i get fed up reading the same pontificating pronouncements from people who despite saying how busy they are seem to spend many, many hours lecturing posters here from their own limited point of view. i'm guessing that barely a week has gone by in those 10 years that you haven't mentioned, in detail, your many and various illnesses and meds. you know i'm not an alt or a troll but as your apparent research suggests, i don't tolerate bullshit.

Am I the only one who finds that funny?

 

[graceanne]

Am I the only one who finds that funny?

No, you're not.

 

[incubus'_sub]

yessss, it doesn't take much to amuse small minds.

 

[nh23]

Ok it's official, you are a retard. I thought maybe you were just a flat out cunt but you are a combo of both. My attitude towards my wife???? I said one thing turned me off and that was her weight and she hasn't done anything about it and that we have other issues going on together and you come up with that I'm blaming my wife and her alone. You are no smarter than a special needs child every time you post, it's laughable! Word of advice, next time just answer the poster's question instead of judging their personal life. And by the way, "working on losing weight" and you haven't found the time? Please, it doesn't take time, it's an everyday occurrence where you stop shoveling food down your throat from a buffet line.
I offered nothing other than I'm not turned on by my wife's weight and you follow up with your drivel. Gotta tell you, it's good that dumb folks like yourself still litter the population for the rest of the upper arc.

Fuck off, you piece of shit. My special needs daughter is far more intelligent then you could ever wish to be.

 

[graceanne]

yessss, it doesn't take much to amuse small minds.

See you're talking, but all i hear is wah wah wah, i have no way of arguing any of your points so all i'm going to do is attack you. wah wah wah.

 

[incubus'_sub]

yes, a small and closed mind.

i don't expect anything else from you actually. you don't hear anything from anyone who doesn't agree with your rigid point of view. your favourites, of course, get regular gifts of cyber cookies, gag!

just because you are the most vocal poster atm does not make you the brightest or the best.

 

[Sweetdaisymae]

Fuck off, you piece of shit. My special needs daughter is far more intelligent then you could ever wish to be.

Well said Sir!

 

[Kellydude666]

Honestly, I don't care if people call me lazy, as I just laugh at them. I have three children, one of whom is special needs and whom I homeschool, and I babysit up to four others. I clean two houses, other than mine, keep my house clean, take care of my husband, and still manage to teach sunday school once a week, manage a registry for a christian organization and moderate several yahoo groups. Plus I'm the librarian here and I keep the bdsm botm conversations catalogued.

My god, you have three children and one is "special needs"! I see your posting history so you pretty much spend all your valuable time here on this board. Don't you think your time would be better well spent taking care of that "special needs" child??? Instead of you fucking around with strangers here on a sex message forum????
"Special needs"
"Special needs"
"Special needs"
Mother of the year award right here folks! You should be embarrassed of yourself. Shit, I may be cheating on my wife in some weird way, but you are cheating on your own child's "special needs" life.........

Word of advice, maybe devote just half of the time you spend on here to that "special needs" child and maybe just maybe......ahhhh forget about it, you already don't get it. God Bless that "special needs" child