lil_jenni
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Good answer!11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
BECAUSE I COULD

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Good answer!11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
BECAUSE I COULD

17. Would the lack of being able to perform oral sex on your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
Don't understand question.
Ah, 100% yes. I'd ruin my teeth sucking on and crunching ice cubes.I have revised #17, as there have been several responses that indicated the person did not know what I meant (and I admit, I could have worded it better). Here is the revised version:
If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on he/she/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
And while some may still find this an odd question, I have known both men and women who did not allow their partners to perform oral on them, for a variety of reasons. As a very oral and giving person, I am not sure I could last in such a situation.
LOL... me too! Hell, sometimes I think Hubby would not mind if I went down on him a little less often. That's not an issue with my GF, however, for obvious reasons.Ah, 100% yes. I'd ruin my teeth sucking on and crunching ice cubes.
Poor boy!LOL... me too! Hell, sometimes I think Hubby would not mind if I went down on him a little less often. That's not an issue with my GF, however, for obvious reasons.![]()
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That's so incredibly sweet.Oh, I am sure he enjoys helping. And I know my husband sure enjoys what I do for him, but I do sometimes think he would rather do something more reciprocal... but what can I say, I love to please.
I gave my Hubby a BJ on the first day we met. It was a setup, and I didn't really date, so I was looking at it as a possible hookup. He was running later, so I met him at his apartment. I loved his eyes and his boyish smile and his dimples so much that we never made it to the dinner he planned to take me to. It really wasn't until I ended up spending the night instead of sneaking out after sex that I started to realize that it might not be just a hookup.![]()
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1. yesSeems like there have been a lot of BJ threads recently, and that got me thinking that we need (okay, maybe not ‘need’) and oral sex questionnaire thread. I know there are some blowjob questionnaire threads out there, but I wanted this one to be more inclusive and encompassing. So here it is. Please feel free to add questions to the questionnaire as we go!
1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone?
2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you?
3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex?
4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex?
5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex?
8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
9. Which do you prefer more?
10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate?
11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it?
13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused?
14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something?
15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)?
16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
17. Would the lack of being able to perform oral sex on your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex?
19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex?
20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex?
I had a brief relationship with two sisters (separately) about a year apart. Neither one of them would let me go down on them. said it was gross. They had no problem performing fellatio on me however.I have revised #17, as there have been several responses that indicated the person did not know what I meant (and I admit, I could have worded it better). Here is the revised version:
If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on he/she/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
And while some may still find this an odd question, I have known both men and women who did not allow their partners to perform oral on them, for a variety of reasons. As a very oral and giving person, I am not sure I could last in such a situation.
1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone? Many times
2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you? Less often than giving
3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex? Nope
4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex? Nope
5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time? The first time? No. I had no idea what the hell I was doing
6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time? Again.... we were like 19. It was a complete disaster.
7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex? Now? It's my absolute favorite.
8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex? It's more sexy that she is willing than something that a really feels good.
9. Which do you prefer more? Giving. No contest.
10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate? I don't think so
11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity? Yes. Being allowed to lick is a gift in and of itself.
12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it? Hell yes.
13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused? Just thinking about giving oral sex gets me aroused.
14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something? No. It's never good if you're not both into it.
15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)? Maybe..Sometimes people just need a pick me up
16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship? No.
17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship? Maybe
18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex? Nothing. It is amazing.
19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex? It doesn't feel great. It's the idea of it and her willing was to do it that is hot. Of and when she looks up and stairs me.in the eyes with my cock in her mouth....yeah that is just erotic as fuck.
20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex? Everyone should do it everyday.
Any chance you live near by me? Or Maybe have an identical Twin sister living near by me?1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone?
Yes
2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you?
Yes
3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex?
Yes
4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex?
Yes
5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Not really
6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Not sure
7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex?
Absolutely
8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
Hell yes
9. Which do you prefer more?
Too close to call! lol
10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate?
No
11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
No
12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it?
Yes
13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused?
Most of the time
14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something?
No
15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)?
Yes
16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
Probably
17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
Not sure
18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex?
No
19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex?
No
20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex?
Seems like there have been a lot of BJ threads recently, and that got me thinking that we need (okay, maybe not ‘need’) and oral sex questionnaire thread. I know there are some blowjob questionnaire threads out there, but I wanted this one to be more inclusive and encompassing. So here it is. Please feel free to add questions to the questionnaire as we go!
1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone? Yes
2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you? Yes
3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex? No
4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex? No
5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time? N/A
6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time? Not Sure If 'Enjoy' Would Describe How Much
7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex? I Can Have an Orgasm Doing So when the Enjoyment is Mutual
8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex? Yes
9. Which do you prefer more? What She Would
10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate? No
11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity? Never
12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it? Hell to the Yes
13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused? That Would be in the Affirmative
14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something? Fuck, No
15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)? Yes
16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship? No
17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship? No
18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex? Not Enough Time in the Day
19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex? Sometimes It Makes Me Feel Selfish
20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex? Stop the Spread! Well, Sort Of
Yes, many times1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone?
Yes2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you?
No, though I am tempted and chatting to someone about it3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex?
No, though I am tempted and chatting to someone about it4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex?
N/A5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Yes I enjoyed it but it took a bit of practice (and feedback from my partner) before I was really getting her off.6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Yes, I love it7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex?
Yes, though I have been blown by a couple of women whom weren't really into it so it didn't really give me pleasure.8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
Giving9. Which do you prefer more?
No, I get pleasure from giving pleasure so honestly have never regarded it as something that "should" be reciprocated. Though I have had a few partners whom thought that way.10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate?
No, not that I can remember.11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
Yes, as above I love doing it.12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it?
Yes13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused?
No14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something?
Probably. I have performed oral sex knowing that I am not going to fuck her, that particular friend was brilliant at blowjobs so I knew she would do that and we would cuddle afterwards but a fuck was out of the question.15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)?
No16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
No17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
No18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex?#
Only if I sense that she isn't really into it and doing it because she feels that she "must"19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex?
The thing that some people seem to forget is that sex isn't one size fits all and therefore they don't seem to look and listen for feedback as to what is hitting the spot, not everyone likes the same thing. I had a woman who insisted on squeezing my balls hard, when I asked her to more gentle her responses was "my last boyfriend loved it" as if it is was my fault that I didn't.20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex?
Yes!1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone?
Yes!2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you?
No3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex?
No4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex?
N/A5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Yes. Actually, I came from the excitement!6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
Yes, love it7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex?
Yes!8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
Giving9. Which do you prefer more?
No10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate?
Yes11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
Yes12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it?
Yes!!!!!!13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused?
No!14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something?
Yes!!15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)?
No16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
Yes17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
No18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex?
No19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex?
If anyone wants to help me practice my technique, PM me!20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex?
I. Yes, both.Seems like there have been a lot of BJ threads recently, and that got me thinking that we need (okay, maybe not ‘need’) and oral sex questionnaire thread. I know there are some blowjob questionnaire threads out there, but I wanted this one to be more inclusive and encompassing. So here it is. Please feel free to add questions to the questionnaire as we go!
1. Have you ever performed oral sex (fellatio or cunnilingus) on anyone?
2. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you?
3. Have you ever performed oral sex on someone of the same sex?
4. Have you ever had oral sex performed on you by someone of the same sex?
5. If you have performed fellatio, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
6. If you have performed cunnilingus, did you enjoy doing it the first time?
7. Do you enjoy performing oral sex?
8. Do you enjoy receiving oral sex?
9. Which do you prefer more?
10. Have you ever performed oral sex just to get your partner to reciprocate?
11. Have you ever performed oral sex for some benefit other than reciprocity?
12. If you did not feel obligated in any way to perform oral sex, would you still do it?
13. Does performing oral sex get you aroused?
14. Is performing oral sex ever a chore that you only do to please your partner or to get something?
15. Would you perform oral sex on someone even if you knew that it was completely one sided (no reciprocity, no sex, not snuggling – nothing)?
16. Would lack of receiving oral sex from your partner be a deal breaker in a relationship?
17. If your partner did not let you perform oral sex on him/her/them, would that be a deal breaker in a relationship?
18. Is there anything you really do not like about performing oral sex?
19. Is there anything you really do not like about receiving oral sex?
20. Anything other thoughts you want to add about oral sex?