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Svenskaflicka said:
I feel sorry for him for having a mother who doesn't realize that a child needs firm boundaries in order to feel safe. Discipline doesn't make a child feel un-loved.
That's a pretty strong statement considering you only saw this one outing. There is no way for you to know if the way she handled the situation was her normal way or if she was just having a bad day. True, it is possible that it was her normal way, but you can't just assume that.
Boundaries are good, yes, but you don't want to be so strict that you're child is deathly afraid of you either.
Svenska, I am not trying to piss you off or offend you, but I did have to reply to that statement. I can empathize with that mother because I have been there and I am sure that the other parents here have as well. Just because she didn't deal with that one episode the way you (who have no children) thinks that she should have does not mean that she is a bad mother, nor does it mean that she does not know that a child needs boundaries.