Part 1: Who are we?

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

I consider myself to be a submissive bottom female.

~anelize

 

[James G 5]

Um, I guess I am a bottom/kinky submissive type.

Oh hell, I'll be whatever you need me to be, lol.

 

[navarre]

Dom
Period!

 

[RoughPlay]

A male Dom.

 

[lektra]

Submissive AND kinky. I hate it when I have to choose

 

[Zaudika]

Submissive Female..

 

[RisiaSkye]

Switch (Dominant/50:bottom/50) female.

 

[WillowPuss]

submissive female ... but I do not bottom. Its all or nothing at the moment.

 

[Richard49]

submissive female ... but I do not bottom. Its all or nothing at the moment.

Do not bottom?

 

[aerofreak]

Do not bottom?

i don't quite get it either *shrugs* but i didn't mention it, cuz i thought i was the only one ... good to know that i'm not.

 

[Richard49]

i don't quite get it either *shrugs* but i didn't mention it, cuz i thought i was the only one ... good to know that i'm not.

I never refuse to let the world know
"I do not know shit"

 

[aerofreak]

I never refuse to let the world know
"I do not know shit"

lol ... i don't usually either ... but since my usual role here is 'lurker' well ... i tend to lurk rather than post ...

 

[MaxwellKing]

I'm a male switch, some situations I like having control others I'm completely content to be told what to do.

I do love giving oral sex.

 

[Ebonyfire]

I'm a male switch, some situations I like having control others I'm completely content to be told what to do.

I do love giving oral sex.

Ooh, another male switch. PBW will have some company.

 

[MaxwellKing]

PBW? What may that be?

 

[RoughPlay]

Hi all

Could someone please tell me what is the difference between a dominant and a top ?

Plus what is the difference between a submissive and a bottom ?

 

[Richard49]

lol ... i don't usually either ... but since my usual role here is 'lurker' well ... i tend to lurk rather than post ...

We still do not know what they meet

 

[Richard49]

PBW? What may that be?

That be a person who posts on these boards

 

[Ebonyfire]

That be a person who posts on these boards

There are few male switches posting here. SpectreT used to, and P.W. Walker is a male switch (kinda) too.

 

[lark sparrow]

Hi all

Could someone please tell me what is the difference between a dominant and a top ?

Plus what is the difference between a submissive and a bottom ?

Partners "exchange power" when one partner -- the submissive (or "sub") -- agrees to defer to the other partner -- the dominant (or "dom," and sometimes for females, "domme" or "femdom"; the term "dominatrix" is not generally used for female doms). Recall that Power Exchange the top is the leader of the action and the bottom is the follower or one who is done to. That is, doms and subs are particular kinds of tops and bottoms -- ones who emphasize power exchange in their play. Some people use the terms dom and sub to be synonymous with top and bottom. Others use the terms top and bottom to refer to people who emphasize SM as opposed to DS in their play. Which exact definition is being used is usually clear from the context, but it can be helpful to ask.

From: http://www.submission.net/AboutBDSM1.html

Want to read more? http://search.yahoo.com/bin/search?p=dom+top+sub+bottom+definition

http://search.yahoo.com/search?p=bdsm+labels+and+definitions

 

[Croctden]

I'm a dominate male of sorts. Even in relationships I don't want to have a sub 24/7, they get underfoot.

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

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[Avery_Chisholm]

totally submissive KINKY bi female

 

[Mystery Lover]

submissive bottom female

 

[FungiUg]

Could someone please tell me what is the difference between a dominant and a top ?

Plus what is the difference between a submissive and a bottom ?

Hmmm... different labels, depending on how you dice and slice. I just treat them as synonymous. (or as a chance to have fun with the word "bottom"...)

I have heard a description where they meant different things, so no doubt someone will be able to give you a better answer.