Part 1: Who are we?

[Netzach]

Female Top.

Kinky, but not simply kinky.

Known to bottom at blue moons and hormonal freakouts.

 

[JupitersGirl]

submissive female lurker

 

[Pixie]

Now this is a tough one for me, as I have no RT experience in anything BDSM, or really even anything kinky.

If I hadn't gotten to know someone who made me feel safe from the very start, who made me feel very feminine instead of the tomboy I was...
I don't think I'd ever even considered myself as being submissive in any way.

I have no idea how I'll react when it comes to RT, but I know that right now I long to be His. Not just in mind, but also in body. He has a way of making me feel comfortable and protected even at my most vulnerable.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

i voted switch femme....basically because none of the other ones fit as well. I do not take orders well from the average male..(way better at giving them) but i love to take 'em from a dominant female. Anyway it goes...i am a switch...a very aggravating, hard-headed switch but a switch nonetheless.
(though i wish there woulda been a spot for the kinky switch...i am a masochist after all...)

PET

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Dominant/Top male.

 

[s'lara]

submissive/bottom female

masosub too.

 

[Daddyslilpet]

submissive female here.

Thought at one time that I might have some switch tendencies, but that's been just about totally proven wrong...lol

 

[Georgia Girl]

submissive/bottom kinky female

 

[LadyAura]

Extremely kinky, but more submissive female.
LadyAura

 

[cellis]

Just stopping by to choose a label... It is not as easy as you think...

Switch... 60 submissive/40 dominant

 

[BlueSugar]

simply kinky, but more (very) submissive female

 

[TwistaFate]

by the looks of the poll, we have more submissive females on lit than anything else, seems the Dom/mes are the minority......

 

[aerofreak]

by the looks of the poll, we have more submissive females on lit than anything else, seems the Dom/mes are the minority......

Dom/mes seem to be outnumbered everywhere ... and yet we still can't find boys that suit us *sigh* oh well.

 

[Goddess Helena]

Domme


Helena

 

[ChainedEros]

Simply kinky, but more dominant male. While I will never be submissive or a bottom, the "Dom" label seems too restrictive for me.

 

[WriterDom]

by the looks of the poll, we have more submissive females on lit than anything else, seems the Dom/mes are the minority......

Yes, for the most part it is a target rich environment. With the exception of Dommes. Then it is hunting on a baited field.

 

[bunny bondage]

the dommes might be out of luck, but it seems like there's two femsubs for every dom! you guys lucked out!

 

[AnelizeDarkEyes]

Yes, for the most part it is a target rich environment.

Quantity and quality are two very different things.

~anelize

 

[aerofreak]

Quantity and quality are two very different things.

~anelize

yeah, that would be our problem. and in other places, it seems like there are 4 or 5 male subs to every Domme ... and then there are all the Dommes who only want femsubs & those of us who do want boys are overwhelmed.

 

[wolf2002]

Sometimes I think I am just a male switch mind in a vanilla body...
:sigh:

 

[Richard49]

the dommes might be out of luck, but it seems like there's two femsubs for every dom! you guys lucked out!

Does not seem to be that way in real life

 

[WriterDom]

bump

 

[A Desert Rose]

And still my point is valid. It's a Dom's market here.

I sure miss Lark!!

 

[Kajira Callista]

And still my point is valid. It's a Dom's market here.

I sure miss Lark!!

but....but.... isn't it ALWAYS a Doms market no matter who outnumbers whom?

 

[WriterDom]

I did a few samples at Bondage.com. Seems like Dom males are about 8 for every 5 female subs.

But I've heard lots of complaints here about Bondage Doms.