Part 1: Who are we?

[A Desert Rose]

I did a few samples at Bondage.com. Seems like Dom males are about 8 for every 5 female subs.

But I've heard lots of complaints here about Bondage Doms.

I'd never complain about a bondage Dom.

 

[A Desert Rose]

but....but.... isn't it ALWAYS a Doms market no matter who outnumbers whom?

Well yes, you silly goose. But you know what I mean. ;-D

 

[WriterDom]

a Dominant/Top male 18 15.65%
a Dominant/Top female 4 3.48%
a submissive/bottom male 4 3.48%
a submissive/bottom female 46 40.00%
a Switch male 8 6.96%
a Switch female 6 5.22%
simply kinky, but more dominant female 1 0.87%
simply kinky, but more submissive female 19 16.52%
simply kinky, but more dominant male 4 3.48%
simply kinky, but more submissive male 5 4.35%
Total: 115 votes 100%

 

[A Desert Rose]

a Dominant/Top male 18 15.65%
a Dominant/Top female 4 3.48%
a submissive/bottom male 4 3.48%
a submissive/bottom female 46 40.00%
a Switch male 8 6.96%
a Switch female 6 5.22%
simply kinky, but more dominant female 1 0.87%
simply kinky, but more submissive female 19 16.52%
simply kinky, but more dominant male 4 3.48%
simply kinky, but more submissive male 5 4.35%
Total: 115 votes 100%

mmmm WriterDom, one need only look up to see this.

 

[Kajira Callista]

Well yes, you silly goose. But you know what I mean. ;-D

 

[WriterDom]

mmmm WriterDom, one need only look up to see this.

I know dolly but it has been a while and I wanted to see what the trends now will be after new folks vote.

 

[A Desert Rose]

I know dolly but it has been a while and I wanted to see what the trends now will be after new folks vote.

Ohhhhhh... You so smart, You Domly-guy, You.

And I'm a dope. LOL

 

[A Desert Rose]

Dom
Period!

Ahhhhh my kinda Man! (and my favorite penpal, too )

 

[Xelebes]

Hmmm.... only 5 sub males? 4:5 ratio.... that's not bad. Heh.

 

[Esclava]

I chose Switch female, but the "label" I most identify with was not listed as a choice...

My option would be, "Female submissive to One who is so alpha He cannot be resisted and dominant to all others unless submissive by His command." Work with me just a minute, here, please...

Does that make me a Switch? I don't know...but I have discovered that it will take a VERY SPECIAL Top/Dom/me to deal with me. The more I learn about me, my expectations and desires, the more I know that - if I try to "accept" a relationship with One who is NOT a superior Alpha (whether male or female) and secure in their own identity - I will never be happy. Not as a sub, anyway. And they have to be physically attractive to me. There are a few Dom/mes out here that are very attractive to my mind, but if I met them in person, they might not remain as attractive. I don't know...I've never seen any of those here who entice me...please, keep working with me...

That does not mean that I can be ruled by an iron fist; but it does mean that I must be ruled by one who respects me, knows the difference between an iron hand and a velvet glove - plus knows which one to use and when.

Esclava

 

[itsyuk]

Hi all,

An Active UK Dom here who has just found this site and my what an intresting collection of thoughts and ideas from all.

 

[spankableBelle]

Evolving. Changing. Growing. Learning.

I chose Switch.

Belle

 

[ethereal~minx]

I am only submissive to a person that has 'discipline'(?) that has boundaries, that lives within their own set of rules..and that I would find myself free to live within~~~

I have not found a person that has a frame, a structure that I fit into ---though I have not reeeally looked
I have felt a bit of context and comfort *smiling* so I getting a feel for what I am/need/like/?

I also question though my submission entirely. I am aroused when he willingly submits to my desire, trusting that he is safe~

I am unwilling to put a label on myself, only because I don't know. I have not been in either position at least not verbally by acknowledgement by both parties.

*smiles*

 

[WriterDom]

a Dominant/Top male

 

[SubKekiLee]

I am a submissive bottom for a man..

 

[myinnerslut]

submissive female.
no matter who has a problem with it.

 

[BiBunny]

Switch. That's the simplest way to put it.

 

[HottieMama]

submissive female for a special person.

Kinky bitch in general.

 

[sexycaz22]

submissive female

 

[NALA CAYENNE]

submissive female and proud of it

 

[MasterBrad]

A Dominant/Top male here.

-- Master Brad

 

[minx1]

submissive woman

 

[intothewoods]

bottom, female

 

[nh23]

a submissive female

 

[WriterDom]

It feels like it's raining all over the world.