Penis size

[Softly]

Another view

Masters & Johnson report, some thirty years ago, stated that the average penis was 5 7/8 inches long.

It is correct that just as there is as big difference in the size of men, that there is a big difference in the depth of a woman. To add to the puzzle, a woman's depth will change during her life.

Most women would not enjoy a huge man, when she first becomes sexually active. Now, there are two conditions that allow for her to accept a long thick man. Either she is deep to start with, or after the delivery of a child.

Later in life, many women experience a settling of her bladder. When that happens, she will feel discomfort when a large cock is inserted.

All that said; in the swinger scene in Florida, which is extremely active, due to the constant tourist movement, it is common for the women to inquire as to the "size" of the man, before considering to meet with him. Many ads state; "Must have eight inches."

Like a "Chicken or the Egg" first question, one might ask. Is one of the reasons that these women became "Swingers" in the first place was they were happy overall with their husband as a husband, but because he, even if normal size, did not come close to filling her? In some cases, her husband is just over half her length, so his only contact in her is at the opening.

 

[huskie]

FWIW.. I'v used a cock pump off and on for over a year. It has only increased my length by .5 to 1" but has increased the diameter by a 1/2". It happened over time and unless I just got through pumping my cock up my wife doesn't seem to notice. Only one time did she say it felt big.

 

[Voosla]

I have been with a few guys in the 7-8 inch range, and the man i'm with now is only around 5 inch, I truely believe its all in how you do it, he always gets me off, and sex is 10 times greater. I know women w/ men who have large penis, but have never experienced an orgasm with them.

 

[Cierra_Dessert]

Originally posted by SexySlut2

I am going to be the one that says size DOES matter.
I'm sorry, but it does.
I like a 6-8 inch penis, anything larger and it hurts, not at all enjoyable, and well anything smaller is just too small.

Intersting SS. I've always said size doesn't matter too, meaning, it depends if the woman enjoys it or not, regardless of size.

But I like your perspective too. It does matter, I too have had a large penis, and it wasn't fun at all. Every woman's fit is different. Some prefer extremely large penis's, some like a fat dick that feels good and may be 5-6 inches.

If you think your SO's dick is too small, then get doubled fucked by him and a dildo.

What I don't understand is, if a guy says he LOVES large breasts, and I don't consider myself large busted, I wouldn't care that he didn't like my breasts, he's not for me. But if a woman says, she like big dicks, why do men get so sensative. If their's isn't big, then the woman isn't for them.

What's the big deal guys?



You gotta love your guys dick and show him how much!

 

[paphian]

I don't get it

Doesn't matter what board you go on, if it has even the remotest connection to sex, some guy is worried about his penis size. There's been some good info here (mostly from the women!) though. I'm a guy, and here's the straight dope.

Someone cited Masters & Johnson, which to my knowledge is correct and the only scientifically done study. The average size is something just short of six inches and the majority fall between 5 and 7. it's the ol' "bell-shaped curve" y'know? Just like nearly everything in nature.

As to the few references to penis enlargement:

1. Pumps are dangerous. They can cause internal scarring and other damage to the corpus cavernosa. Pulling a huge vacuum on your dick, in other words, is a Real Bad Idea. The corpus cavernosa is what you get hard with, dudes, and if it's screwed up, yer fucked. Or rather, you aren't. Any size gains are temporary due to over-engorgement.

2. There's NO pill that works. Period. If you really think there is, send me your $49.95 for a month's supply, and I'll happily send you 30 m&ms. Even all green ones if you want. With those, you can imagine your size to be whatever you want, and there are no "unknowns" in them to which you may be allergic or have an adverse reaction. People allergic to chocolate or that are diabetic should consult a licensed physician before ordering!

3. Surgical techniques are pretty iffy, and I don't believe any are considered "routine". You can have your suspensory ligament severed, which might gain you 1/2 to 1 inch, but that puppy is there for a reason. I'll keep mine, thanks. You can have fat--usually extracted from your ass--injected, but you may end up with a really lumpy, ugly dick and it migrates away after a while anyway. Anything else is bogus.

As the old saying goes, "'Tis a poor workman what blames his tools." In other words, grow up, get over it, and learn to *please* a lady every way you can, instead of worrying about whether or not you're gonna look real impressive next time you and your buds whip it out to write your names in the snow.

 

[shynsexy]

Amen, Tiggs! Has anyone else had the disappointing experience of being with a man who thought that because he was well hung he didn't really have to try to please you, that you ought to be so thankful for his big cock that he didn't need to put any effort into sex?


my bf is 8 in but like 3 in wide! i feel like i am being spilt in half every time we fuck...but he really makes it so that i enjoy it... on the other hand i had a bf who was about 3 or 4 in and acted like he was the best thing in the whole world.....

 

[ToreHund]

Size matters -- in the ass!

Earlier I was allways a bit worried that my dick was too small. (It's medium from what I've read in the statistics, but that's not important.) Anyway, I have realized that it's the ideal size if you want to do girls up the bum!
For instance, a friend of my ex complained that her boyfriend wanted to take her in the ass; he was too big.
So beeing a bum guy I am extremely happy that my size does not scare off girls.

TH

 

[MR.GGG]

Geez, once you and your woman discover and perfect a GSpot orgasm all, you need is a functioning THUMB. I've talked to women who have been with guys who were hung like a freakking RHINO and the sex was horrible. Make them cum 15 or 20 times in an evening via cock, tongue and thumb and you've generally got yourself one HAPPY woman. Duzn't matter how big, small, skinny or thick your dick is if you use it as one of many techniques to get her off.

 

[medjay]

Having a big dick isn't all it's cracked up to be. I'm 8.5 inches long and I've actually had women turn me down because they were scared. Only one woman has ever been able to deep throat me and anal is pretty much out of the question. Yeah it's aesthetically pleasing but after a woman gets over the excitement of looking at it and has to actually think about letting me put it inside her, it's another story. Also, having a big dick makes it harder for a woman to really move her pussy and flex those vaginal muscles the way guys like. Something else I typically miss out on. So, to all the guys out there longing for bigger packages, if it were possible I'd gladly donate an inch or two for your cause.

 

[Mr.Luv69]

My penis is 9 inches long and 6 inches around. My wife loves to look at it and play with it but when it comes to oral she complains that it hurts her jaws. Everytime we make love she has to be worked up for it to be any good. It took 5 yrs. of playing around fingering and using dildos to get her to loosen up enough to let me fuck her in the ass. Now she loves it but to get started she has to be drunk and well lubed. If you want to get a larger penis use a cockring it will definetly increase your width and make you hard as a rock. Yes I use them on occasion my wife likes how the veins bulge and how hard it gets. She also likes the variety in size it brings to the table. It is strange how every guy wants a bigger dick even the ones with big dicks. I must say if I could get a extra inch without any trouble I would do it, I guess it is just a macho thing.

 

[russell]

penis size

It's not the size of the ship or the motion of the ocean, it's the ability of the captain to remain in port until all passengers have gotten off

 

[fanzee1]

well all I can say is it's bigger than mine

seriously - I would say 6" is about average from experience so you're normal.

Preference does have some part to play but its not the most important factor. 8 inches is bordering on my acceptable but I am relatively small framed. A larger woman might perfer it.

Why do men seem to think women all come fitted with standard size vaginas?

just as an experiment consider sucking a cucumber and then a zuchinni - and let me know which one gives you jaw cramps.

SM:

SM, what has made you think most men think this?

 

[DevilBoy79]

Ok im a 20 year old male, and i have a question for the ladies.

I have a 6 1/2 inch penis. Now being honest, how does that rate in comparison to most guys you have been with? I always thought it was fairly normal, but i was just wondering, is it?

Im not worried, more just curious? How does it rate when you stack it up against other ones? And is it better or worse than having an 8 inch pecker? I spose personal preference comes into it somewhat too.

Thanks for any replies

I been curious about this as well,even though this is one area i never get complained about , i'm usually between 6.5 - 7 inches, and roughly 2.5-3 in around,does it really matter how long or thick a guys penis is, or mainly how its being used? and what do most women perfer size wise for a man to be?

 

[Quint]

Have you read ANY of this thread? It's all here! Everything you asked, it's all been answered at least once! All you gotta do is go to pages one through three! Geez...

I'm glad that most of the women here gave the practical answer, which is "past a certain length, which is customized per vagina, too much is not desirable." Despite the plethora of well-hung men in erotic fiction, the majority of penises are medium sized and pleasurable. I'm unsure why the fantasy of "how many black men hung like stallions can I fuck tonight?" is so prevalent. (NOT a racist comment, merely an observant one. Read the fiction.)

My first was 8" and Tiggs, he did think that size was all he needed. I don't think I was even wet before he started going at me. He had amazing recovery time (as in, none needed), but I hated it. I was just not built for it. I do Kegels now, and I love the feeling of my average-sized hunny sliding inside me...that exquisite pressure and stretching.

 

[BarberBabe]

Well I agree with most of the posts on this thread . I also think if you know what your doing with, what ever you were given ...NO woman would care if you were 3" or 12" . That being said I would run from a cock that was larger than 7 1/2". I am not built for a horse. My SO has the perfect size as far as I am concerned . He fits me to a "T" or is that a "J" ? When I tell him I want more .... it isn't in lenght , it's in time . ( 4 hours goes by so fast)

 

[MrNiceGuy]

Talking with a friend of mine who is constantly with a lady or three at his side, I asked him his secret - mostly whether or not he was hung like a horse.

He said that he was only 5 inches, which was roundabout average - but his secret was this:

Using the other wonderful appendages that God gave him, such as fingers, tongue, and confidence, he makes it standard practice to make a woman cum at least twice before insertion. Whether penis size mattered to a woman or not, they always had a great time.

Something to consider...

 

[Devilish1]

The only thing i can add to this is i think i PERSONALLY enjoy a man with girth than inches.
I like to know hes " filling" me up. I dated a guy i swear was a good 12 inches long and a good 3 inches around! I couldnt wrap my fingers around him and my fingers touch.
I told him he should be in movies......lol Be John Holmes son...lol
He could put a fucking on me like you wouldnt believe lol
He was able to go at it for HOURS! On a 3 day weekend i might sleep 4 hours all weekend long. By Monday morning i was so sore i was nearly limping.....lol
Having Oral sex on him was hard on my jaws but the sex was WONDERFUL!!!!!!
But I think he would had been good at sex rather he had 12 inches or 6 inches. He just knew how to move to get me off.
Till i was with him i never had a orgasm with a man on top of me during sex. It was the most AMAZING feeling ive ever had.
*Sigh* And to think i had to end it cause he dranked to much......
Oh well.

 

[Devilish1]

The only thing i can add to this is i think i PERSONALLY enjoy a man with girth than inches.
I like to know hes " filling" me up. I dated a guy i swear was a good 12 inches long and a good 3 inches around! I couldnt wrap my fingers around him and my fingers touch.
I told him he should be in movies......lol Be John Holmes son...lol
He could put a fucking on me like you wouldnt believe lol
He was able to go at it for HOURS! On a 3 day weekend i might sleep 4 hours all weekend long. By Monday morning i was so sore i was nearly limping.....lol
Having Oral sex on him was hard on my jaws but the sex was WONDERFUL!!!!!!
But I think he would had been good at sex rather he had 12 inches or 6 inches. He just knew how to move to get me off.
Till i was with him i never had a orgasm with a man on top of me during sex. It was the most AMAZING feeling ive ever had.
*Sigh* And to think i had to end it cause he dranked to much......
Oh well.

 

[amiss]

I know y'all keep saying 5"-7" is average, but I could've sworn it was 5"-6". *shrug* Beyond statistics, based on experience, I'd say average was closer to 7" (which makes guys who are "normal" around 5"-5.5" seem kinda small, unfortunately). As for girth, naturally, that also makes a difference. However, I don't think it's measured nearly as often.

Beyond all these numbers, how you use what you've got is most important.

 

[voyergirl]

all you men are to hung up on your size, if the woman is only laying down with you for sex then who cares if is what she wants or not, she isn't someone you'd want to keep anyway.

 

[fanzee1]

boy i just love those posts...

all you men are to hung up on your size, if the woman is only laying down with you for sex then who cares if is what she wants or not, she isn't someone you'd want to keep anyway.

that start off with words like "all you men..."


Voyergirl, you're right of course that if they're in bed with a size queen who is just using them, they shouldn't care what she wants. Here's the deal though, these guys are probably in their early 20s and if they're like i was in my early 20s, that means they're unsure about what women they meet will want sexually and whether they can provide it. This leads to insecurity, which leads to being a big turn off. So what they are probably looking for is some measure of security in their own sexual worth. You don't help the issue by coming on here as a woman and calling them irrational for it. Women have their hang ups, so do men. Let these guys work theirs out, just like i'm sure you would advise them to give their SO space to work theirs out.

Thank you.

Btw, i apologize if i have mischaracterized any of the other men who posted on this thread. I was trying to stick up for you guys, really.

 

[huskie]

all you men are to hung up on your size, if the woman is only laying down with you for sex then who cares if is what she wants or not, she isn't someone you'd want to keep anyway.

I agree. But If a man is not pleasing her via sex and it is because his cock is not HER size (over 5" say?) then ya. It's a big deal to us. It's a big deal to women to have bigger shaply breast but not a deal breaker to most men (ok I know some guys are breast men, but hey I'm not).

FWIW: My cock is about 6" long. When I do fuck my wife, I can tell she loves it DEEP. So much so that she just drives back into me. Not hump, but pushes back deep. Like go deep and hold it there. So, what I'm going to do is buy a cock extender (say about a 2 to 3" one?). If she goes nuts over that then hey size (or lenght) does matter IF USED CORRECTLY (this I agree).

huskie

 

[coolr]

well post the results

 

[michaelmt1]

Penis Size

i am some what lucky my cock is just under nine inches long and 6 inches in circumfrance now that sonds big but if you look at the insert from a toilet roll you will get the thickness.

My wife loves the full feeling that it gives her but i did have to learn how to work things up so my penis will fit well in most women.

One thing ive found is that in my experiance only one woman had trouble with the size of my penis and that was solved by electing a position that involves shallow penetration.

Remember one thing a baby can come out of there so with expertise any cock can go up there. ( Im not however suggesting you could put the baby back)

Anyway size isnt every thing cos it took me quite a while to learn to use what i had.


Mike

 

[solid_]

size dont matter its how you use it thats more important