BlackSnake
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You better fuck all you can now, else you end up like the skit of the two men sitting on the beach. "If I knew I was going to live this long...I would have taken better care of myself."
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Dirty Slut said:If a marriage works, only 5% of the reason it works is because of sex. However, if a marriage doesn't work, it's because 95% of the problem is related to sex. LOL
DS
BlackSnake said:Would you really want to marry a woman that has never been touched? If she could hold out before marriage, think how long she could hold out after marriage.
Medieval-Man said:'Never said I was sure I wanted to marry Rachel, I just said I wouldn't have sex with her unless we were married.
Mischeviously,
-Medi
Dest, I understand your 'romantic idealism', but I have to say those notions were put out there, rather insidiously, some centuries ago with the institutionalization of marriage and Love. We might try to fix it for ourselves (I don't personally), but it's difficult to extract the possessiveness of marriage from what one does with one's own body.destinie21 said:... Sometimes I wish that K was the only person I'd ever been with sexually just because in my own mind I can see the beauty of sharing myself only with her. ...
perdita said:Dest, I understand your 'romantic idealism', but I have to say those notions were put out there, rather insidiously, some centuries ago with the institutionalization of marriage and Love. We might try to fix it for ourselves (I don't personally), but it's difficult to extract the possessiveness of marriage from what one does with one's own body.
bemusedly, Perdita
Dirty Slut said:As hard as love is to explain, one thing is for sure. When you love someone, truly love them, you love them as they are. It's not something that you have any control over, it's just a fact.
DS
Tatelou said:But what about other women? Is that allowed? Nudge, nudge. Wink, wink.
Lou
Svenskaflicka said:Seriously, Medi - WHY???
Since waiting won't make it better, only worse - WHY are you waiting? I'm not being sarcastic here, nor am I trying to talk down to you, I just don't understand your way of reasoning?
Well, if that's her wish and you're man enough to respect it, then more power to you, brother.Medieval-Man said:She wants to wait, I agree with it, I won't force her into anything, I'm not that kind of guy.
Yes, that is the real question, I believe. Not that I'd ever question a lady's intentions and greater scheme on matters of this kind.Svenskaflicka said:Then I'll re-phrase the question: why does SHE want to wait?
perdita said:Dest, I understand your 'romantic idealism', but I have to say those notions were put out there, rather insidiously, some centuries ago with the institutionalization of marriage and Love. We might try to fix it for ourselves (I don't personally), but it's difficult to extract the possessiveness of marriage from what one does with one's own body.
Many men (and patriarchal institutions) still want an intact pussy and the owner's belief that only his dick has rights to it. That's what 'saving' one's self for marriage is based on, no matter how romantically or spiritually people make it out for themselves.
Chastity originally had more to do with one's character and grace than with sex or a carnal life; now it's been degraded to tightly locked thighs and a false sense of self and one's other.
bemusedly, Perdita
Icingsugar said:Yes, that is the real question, I believe. Not that I'd ever question a lady's intentions and greater scheme on matters of this kind.
I don't even need to consult Og on that little piece of etiquette.
But as you are a lady yourself, I guess other rules apply. So I let you ask those questions.
Medieval-Man said:I just guess Rachel wants to be able to wear a white gown and not feel guilty in her marrige.... other than that, I have no clue...