poll: strangest requests?

[Ricwilly]

Hmmmm, now ya got me curious.

 

[rhev]

1. what was the strangest request you ever had during sex that you granted?
2. what was the strangest request you ever had during sex that you didn't grant?

1. I guess some people wouldn't consider it as strange as me, but once during sex a girl really wanted to RP daddy/daughter incest fantasys. It was a bit uncomfortable for me personally.

2. One time during sex a girl was telling me to hit her so I played along at first with some light fun slapping of the ass or whatever. She said no, she wanted me to closed fist hit her. It squicked me out so much that we ended up stopping right there. I think a part of my mind was afraid that maybe she was going to claim I raped her or something.

 

[PinkSteel]

Granted: Eating my cum from her hand after a handjob.

Declined: Pretending she was my mommy.

 

[silverwhisper]

granted: asphyxiation. i find it very unnerving, to be honest.
declined: would you believe me if i said there wasn't any such thing to date?

ed

 

[EJFan]

granted: asphyxiation. i find it very unnerving, to be honest.

i've never come across anyone who's actually done this... every time i hear about it it makes me shudder just a bit. of course, that could be because you only hear (or see staged portrayals) of the situations gone wrong.

 

[silverwhisper]

well, it seemed to work as advertised but you really have to know one another. it scared the hell out of me the first time, but b/c my partner didn't often make such requests, it was awfully hard to say no. :>

ed

 

[bisexplicit]

Whenever I think of asphyxiation I think of guys accidently hanging themselves. I'm not sure if thats an urban legend or not, but it sounds pretty awful. *shudders*

 

[silverwhisper]

no, that's actually happened, bi. but as you should know from your studies, that's technically referred to as auto-asphyxiation. :>

ed

 

[visionskate]

strangest i granted
hmm has to be the time a grrl asked me to shove a viberator up her bum and and my penis inside here(haha good old dp)

weirdest i didnt grant
Grl asked me to cum in a glass a couple times so that she could drink it(i dunno but that wuz just a bit too much for me )

 

[AppleBiter]

no, that's actually happened, bi. but as you should know from your studies, that's technically referred to as auto-asphyxiation. :>

ed

ACTUALLY, it's Autoerotic Asphyxiation

But, you were close.

 

[silverwhisper]

doh! you are, of course, quite right applebiter.

ed

 

[Ricwilly]

The whole restricting breathing thing scares me. It should be left to the professionals in my opinion.
I'm starting to feel like a puritan.

 

[silverwhisper]

dude: at some point, i think everybody on this site has seen or read something that made 'em balk and have that exact same reaction. :>

ed

 

[rhev]

So true. I honestly can't imagine a person who reads everything on this site and shrugs his (or her) shoulders and says to themselves "this place is too tame for me."

 

[Ricwilly]

Ya, it's what keeps me comin back.

 

[bisexplicit]

So true. I honestly can't imagine a person who reads everything on this site and shrugs his (or her) shoulders and says to themselves "this place is too tame for me."

I completely agree.
Although, sometimes I worry that the hardcore stuff is going to stop phasing me, and I'll just begin to find everything natural. "Oh, so you tied up your brother, urinated on him, and then had sex? Well, tell me something I haven't already heard twenty times." hehe.

 

[rhev]

Doing that while wearing a Richard Nixon mask.

 

[silverwhisper]

in some ways, it's what i tell people about south park: if at some point you aren't offended, you've got a problem. :>

ed

 

[Eilan]

asphyxiation. i find it very unnerving, to be honest.

I've done what I consider to be "breath play lite."

in some ways, it's what i tell people about south park: if at some point you aren't offended, you've got a problem.

I agree. Though sometimes I tend to laugh when I should be offended.

Back to your regularly scheduled topic.

 

[mrmgp]

OK, this poll is a two-fer (two for the price of one):

2. what was the strangest request you ever had during sex that you didn't grant?

An old girlfriend once mentioned that she'd like to have sex with another woman. Provided that I have sex with another man. It would basically be a same sex couple-swapping thing (apparently she already knew some people). I'd love to watch two women make love to each other, but I just can't do the male-male thing. I can barely encounter men that I even want to spend a minute around, let alone want to have sex with. Guess some of my female friends weren't joking when they referred to me as a "lesbian trapped in a man's body."

 

[mrmgp]

Whenever I think of asphyxiation I think of guys accidently hanging themselves. I'm not sure if thats an urban legend or not, but it sounds pretty awful. *shudders*

It's not an urban legend. It was quite common in the 80s, but don't know about how common it is today. The friend of one of my ex-girlfriend's brothers killed himself that way while trying to masturbate.

Hustler even did an article on the phenomena titled "Orgasm of Death."

 

[mrmgp]

granted: asphyxiation. i find it very unnerving, to be honest.

There is a technique that simulates asphyxiation without having to choke someone. Have your head (or your lover's head) past the end of the bed, and tilt the head toward the floor. I've read that it provides the same feeling as asphyxiation without the danger of accidentally killing someone.

 

[iansearchof]

There is a technique that simulates asphyxiation without having to choke someone. Have your head (or your lover's head) past the end of the bed, and tilt the head toward the floor. I've read that it provides the same feeling as asphyxiation without the danger of accidentally killing someone.

Supposedly the valsalva manuever also simulates the effect.

Does anyone know whether this (restricted breathing) actually is enhancing or is it simply based on the fact that asphyxiation, especially hanging, MAY result in orgasm?

 

[thegirl]

Strangest requests? I have done the hot wax, been peed on and drank pee, had floggings upward of 120 strikes, recieved 300 strikes with a crop while unrestrained and tried the breath play. Of all those, I came the hardest with the breath play. No I was not hung, or alone. That is too far out there for me right now...

His fingers were around my neck, and he counted to 6 then released, and pretty much the rest is a fog to me.. smiles.. but I squirted all over the place and want more of it... I know its extreme.. but the rush is what I wanted and got..

Have tried to find more info but it seems its only talked about when things go wrong.. so finding info is not easy.

We also had a simular experience with him just placing his hand across my neck gently while on the bed... seems just the hint of pressure on my neck makes me squirt, ooze and cum.. so to me its a very interesting experience.. but still I am looking for more info.. at least with a BDSM twist to it.

Thanks for posting this.. its been interesting reading it

 

[popcorn2721]

It's not an urban legend. It was quite common in the 80s, but don't know about how common it is today. The friend of one of my ex-girlfriend's brothers killed himself that way while trying to masturbate.

Ive been lurking on this forum for a while so, "Hello from MR. and MRS. Popcorn". Guess it takes a post like this to get me to post, but now Im here Ill never stop. Having experienced alot of things life has to offer I think that most answers to most request are a matter of how far you have progressed down lifes path... If that makes any sense. Now, I too live in lower Illinois and remember when the kid in the town where I went to High School hung himself while jerking off in the closet. He was my brothers age...I dont remember his name though, Its odd... It actually came up in conversation a few weeks ago when my other brother came home from chitown, they knew who he was. The newspapers tried to hide some of his dignity by saying he committed suicied... it was found out a couple of days later what actually happend.