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Private_Label said:Why or why not?
With my physical intimacy also goes my emotional intimacy. I couldn't sell just my body - my brain goes with it. If someone is good enough for me to consider selling them my body, I would probably offer them the desired thing for free out of love.
lol, exactly what my late wife and I thought when we saw that movie. The concept sounded good to us, but the movie was crap.Justina123 said:Ever seen that movie with Robert Redford and Demi Moore (sorry, I'm awful with titles, and pretty darn unusual that I remembered the actors), where he pays her 1 million dollars for one night? I spent the whole movie thinking, "What's WRONG with her and her husband? This is a NO brainer, go for it!"
marieR19 said:having sex with guys that don't care about me, just want a cheap fuck...
Marie
aslave4him said:Given all of the interest in giving away sex, or just being used for sex, WHY does the acceptance of money make it any less moral?
sex + money = Prostitute
sex + free = ???? (slut?, stupid?) I don't know.
For myself, I would have a hard time accepting money for sex... but I am really having to ask myself... Why?
Why is a willingness to "give" it away any more moral than selling it?
Wow, I'm a bit surprised to see you here, which is funny given that I suggested you come check it out! I think this is the first time I have heard you refer to him as your owner - have things changed since we last spoke? Your situation is pretty unique, an introductory thread in the Cafe might be a friendly thing to do.aslave4him said:Wow, I can't believe that THIS topic came up!!!!
My owner has actually made comments about taking me some place and prostituting me out as a form of punishment... so I have thought about this a lot.
I posted a question on Live Journal about a gang-bang and received a lot of responces to the effect that it was a lot of womens fantasies. If you throw "sex with a complete stranger" out there, I think that you would get a lot of favorable responses as well. Then there is also the crowd of willing female subs who belong to owners that are willing to lend them out, and those who fantasize about that as well.
Given all of the interest in giving away sex, or just being used for sex, WHY does the acceptance of money make it any less moral?
sex + money = Prostitute
sex + free = ???? (slut?, stupid?) I don't know.
For myself, I would have a hard time accepting money for sex... but I am really having to ask myself... Why?
Why is a willingness to "give" it away any more moral than selling it?
aslave4him said:sex + money = Prostitute
sex + free = ???? (slut?, stupid?) I don't know.
It seems free between partners in an established relationship...am I misunderstanding you?Hooper_X said:When is sex ever really free?
I like to think we are warm and supportive, though I think there is a thread about "Lit is mean to newcomers" or something like that...? I'm sorry your business venture didn't work out; that's a totally different kind of 24/7 devotion! As I mentioned, we are sorely lacking in male subs around here, and there are some threads lamenting that fact too. I look forward to seeing you around here more!Jay Davis said:And thanks for the friendly welcome, Etoile. I find myself easing back into a social life again, in various forms, after spending 18 months devoted almost 24/7 to a small business that ultimately closed its doors. I joined Literotica two years ago, posted a few stories, but never became involved in the forums. Skimming around this forum now, tho, this seems to be a warm and supportive community, and one that I might like to be a part of in some small way.
Etoile said:It seems free between partners in an established relationship...am I misunderstanding you?
Jay Davis said:That was pretty much my point, Etoile . . . that professional performance, even enjoyment of and pride in one's profession, are neither limited nor defined by one's personal life.
And of course, I was reacting to my perception that Lloyd was falling into the inaccurate but common misperception that submission is only about lying back, being tied down, and flogged silly. In my experience, it is more often an active, creative role, which can take many forms depending on the people involved and the situation or scene. The common thread in submissive acts--from being the subject of intricate Japanese rope bondage, taking a severe flogging, enduring a play-piercing, performing body worship or a boot-blacking--is that the submissive is deriving her or his satisfaction in the act because the act is pleasing to a Dominant he or she has freely chosen to serve.
And thanks for the friendly welcome, Etoile. I find myself easing back into a social life again, in various forms, after spending 18 months devoted almost 24/7 to a small business that ultimately closed its doors. I joined Literotica two years ago, posted a few stories, but never became involved in the forums. Skimming around this forum now, tho, this seems to be a warm and supportive community, and one that I might like to be a part of in some small way.
In answer to the final portion of the original series of questions, regarding "forced" prostitution . . . the idea of serving a Mistress by being "forced" to serve others she designates--regardless of whether there is money exchanged, or whether she knows them well--is exciting as a scene. However, outside of a true, properly-negotiated D/s relationship based on mutual respect, affection, and trust, "forced" prostitution is non-consensual and exploitive, and therefore wrong. I suspect that most of the relationships involving prostitution that is truly coerced, and in which the unwilling prostitute has no option to even leave the relationship, are abusive and exploitive relationships pure and simple, even if they masquerade as D/s relationships.
The line between abuse and exploitation and true D/s is fuzzy, especially when seen from outside the lifestyle. I think it's important that we who are free and willing participants are careful not to shield genuine abusers and their victims, or allow them to hide in our midst. That's why context is so important when discussing things like "forced prostitution." An act that in one case might be loving submission, in another might well be victimization of the most terrible kind.
Hooper_X said:You still incur costs, monetary as well as time and aggravation.
jasonlf said:...and most of the time the prostitiute is cheaper