Punishment

[Luna_Wolf72]

Aa

As I have said before, I will say now...shy and I understood where the comment came from..I am sure you didn't. Kinder gentler whatever...different strokes for different folks and all that. MY only point was that others seemed to assume that she was being snotty. I read her posts and spoke to her about them after I got into the thread today so I know what she meant. It just did not come out correctly.

Can we move along now??

 

[sunfox]

I emailed him and explained I had felt let down by his response and reaction.
He rang me today, he explained he ahd not realised the depth of my fear and there would be no futher comment on my state of dress.
That is enough for me, i do want apology.

Oooh, AA is wrong.. not all of us were only right for our style of D/s. I was right.. I said on the benefit of the doubt side that maybe he had misconstrued and reacted off the cuff, to paraphrase, and might not have understood how upset shy was.

Okay, I'm done tweaking AA now, cause I'd rather not draw his wrath down onto my head. *grins*

shy... I am very glad that he understood and valued your feelings. That's a good sign. This is an an experience you want to pursue, so more power to you. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel in the future.. even Dominants need a bit of a push at times to understand things.

Good luck.

 

[shy slave]

Oooh, AA is wrong.. not all of us were only right for our style of D/s. I was right.. I said on the benefit of the doubt side that maybe he had misconstrued and reacted off the cuff, to paraphrase, and might not have understood how upset shy was.

Okay, I'm done tweaking AA now, cause I'd rather not draw his wrath down onto my head. *grins*

shy... I am very glad that he understood and valued your feelings. That's a good sign. This is an an experience you want to pursue, so more power to you. Don't be afraid to tell him how you feel in the future.. even Dominants need a bit of a push at times to understand things.

Good luck.

Thanks sunfox and I am glad i gave you an opportunity to 'tweak' AA just a little bit lol

 

[sub-james]

post deleted by the same idiot that created it, apologies

 

[dolf]

I must say you have the most delicious mouth

https://forum.literotica.com/attachment.php?attachmentid=406270

what's the mouth doing in shy's thread

 

[sub-james]

oh shit I'm ever so sorry, damn my stupidity *slaps myself*. I must remember to engage brain before posting.

 

[dolf]

oh shit I'm ever so sorry, damn my stupidity *slaps myself*. I must remember to engage brain before posting.

lol, i'm sure we can find someone else to do the slapping for you
it happens. done it myself.

 

[sub-james]

lol, i'm sure we can find someone else to do the slapping for you

now that would be very nice, so much easier for someone else to do it, they can get to those hard to reach places.

Hopefully I will not make the same mistake again, its my own fault for having too many windows open

 

[robynwildchild]

punishment and discipline

my point of view.. quickly..
to me theres a contrast bwtn punishment and discipline that both encompass one ideology.

• punishment if for corrective action towards what is incorrect/wrong/unjustly diginified
• discipline is for streamling or improvement against what is already presented in the individual

there should always be respect and concern for the subject being punished or disciplined
if there isn't then gross judgements and inaccuracies of the situation could lead to danger, sever injury or death.

i look at this in a
parent - child, teacher - student point of view with growth and transition coming through, not the furthering of wounds via mental control aimless physical abuse.

but to each his own, you will submit to what it is you want to experience.

 

[shy slave]

my point of view.. quickly..
to me theres a contrast bwtn punishment and discipline that both encompass one ideology.

• punishment if for corrective action towards what is incorrect/wrong/unjustly diginified
• discipline is for streamling or improvement against what is already presented in the individual

there should always be respect and concern for the subject being punished or disciplined
if there isn't then gross judgements and inaccuracies of the situation could lead to danger, sever injury or death.

i look at this in a
parent - child, teacher - student point of view with growth and transition coming through, not the furthering of wounds via mental control aimless physical abuse.

but to each his own, you will submit to what it is you want to experience.

Robyn I like your definitions they make sense to me. thank you