Pussy Worship... *yes I said it*

[unfoundiamond]

Have you ever had a hot dream that came true?

I had a fantasy when I was a teen about this one guy. I used to imagine him while I masterbated. I'd close my virgin eyes and imagine seeing his face, and his pale skin glowing in the dark. (As we pale ones do...*wink*) As He just... worshipped my pussy... and I worship Him.

I'd imagine his hot mouth on my pussy, as I rubbed my little pink cunt, the image of his eyes burning into mine made my heart pound and my pussy extremely wet. I came successfully many times.

I even had a dream after seeing him in person, years after I thought of him while masterbating.

In this dream He was going down on me, and I could do more than see him, I could FEEL him in the dream. This sounds rediculious, yes. I know. But I could feel his smooth head on my fingertips as he licked me. His skin is rather diffrent from most men. The word smooth doesn't cover it.

Later on, after I was an adult. I met this person again...

I was very pleased to be in His sight. He is the type of man who doesn't necesarily even need words to comand me.

He spent the evening with me out with my friends and family, bought me dinner, saved me from a guy who wouldn't leave me alone, and then blessed me with His company, and made my "dream come true"

This was months ago... and I am still thinking about it... maybe even fantisizing...
He has quiet gracious nature, and has left such an impression on me, I wish the story had a happy ending. And it doesn't... its a memory...

Along with most of the good ones...

 

[curiouskinkwife]

I do not want to be rude but all I cal think in my head is,

"Licking her with her pubic hair there...That's love, right there..."

I'd do a lot of shit for my mate... but shaving them, is also one of them if they expect licking.

Not to say it should be done, or to put it down but I am not pleased with the sensory of it... I dislike hair except on the head, and occasionally on the face if it doesn't burn me...

I don't like the feeling.

I have often said, that it is the courteous thing to do (denude) if one would like the receive oral gratification. I realize that there are some who are into the hair.....but not me, and none of the men I have been with either....wth the exception of a few teens in high school. But, they didn't know any better, and hair was the norm then.

I don't even want my Hubby down there if I haven't freshly denuded. I don't like it, why would I expect him to?

 

[unfoundiamond]

We have similar "taste"... hehe

I think you and I agree on this because we have such similar taste...

I just started thinking about how you might taste... *daydreaming....*

¡Oh! Yes,

but...

I don't just ask her or expect her to be shaved for me (its nice when it happens, but...) I even take some pleasure in preparing her.

I can't stop thinking about this one girl...

This girl Alexa, she had a boyfriend who thought he was gonna get a threesome... she was indebted to him(I don't know what they where looking back, she just didn't work and pretty much took care of his "needs" is all I know)...

They wherent vanilla persay (since he owned a porn store, and she took full advantage of that)

He agreed I could have her, without him even touching me(I was stone lesbian back then, lol) as long as he could watch, and he was so turned on after doing so he took her and fucked her for like 2 hours... I didn't care... I went and ate my "beans" and sat watching the hurricane come while we where on the 31st floor... mindblowing time.

I took her into the shower, also naked (this was extremely rare for me to disrobe) and We talked and washed our hair. I got down to my knees and washed her, untill I was satasfied. Then shaved her blonde hair off so gently and delicately, making sure to keep the skin pulled taught, so as not top cut her.

She had one of those larger clits...
I have to say one of the cool things about that is, I can remember when I'd slide my hand down her tight body and slide my dry fingers though the wet barrier of her pussy lips, I'd find her clit so fat, there was no mistaking her level of arousal.

She was my first expirience with being really rough with a girl. She liked to be thrown against the wall, I'd use fistfulls of her waist length blonde hair to draw her pretty mouth to mine. I'd pinch her nipples, and even slap her face and titties, and shed look up at me with the sweetest face and beg me to do it all again.

I didn't know why I liked doing those things to her, and I didn't know why she liked them. I can only say I hurt her with such care, and control. I have kinda heavy hands, very precise and agile, but they make a delightfully loud slap sound. She loved it, and I took pride in giving her what she wanted. I enjoy giving my partner just what they want.

Then we went and took pictures naked on the balcony... If she wasn't in prison now I'd ask her to tell me how to contact him, just to get copies of those pics...

Ah, memories...

*daydreaming*

 

[Etoile]

I was stone lesbian back then, lol

Not to be nitpicky, but it sounds like you and I have very different definitions of "stone" - mine comes from the old school butch/femme dynamic, as in Stone Butch Blues. How do you define it?

 

[unfoundiamond]

Hey...

Be nitpicky, I want to know what I mean is being understood,

I don't take offence to it, maybe I should pic another word... if its unclear to the reader...

And I heard it used by my girlfriend, she explained it as "stone cold lesbian, no exceptions"

But about Alexa and I, It was definately about our dynamics. We where frends for a long time untill she, well she's on a government paid vacation now... but when she was with me, I treated her very well,

I don't want to downplay how much of a "gentleman" I am with women I like by saying she begged me to be a little physical sexually, but I did it with care, not too hard... even though she begged for more, and harder.

My very butch, very masculine, very dominant way of treating her, and her very femme, very submissive, very masochistic enjoyment of something I didn't even know there was a name for was dynamics...

And we had chemistry... just touching her made me so wet. Only one other thing gets me like that. (Pain)

I dunno...

I was also NOT femme at this time...

Make more sence?

 

[Etoile]

Ah...stone cold is not the same thing as stone. A stone butch is a masculine-identified lesbian (beyond the point of butch and into masculine, that is) who refuses to allow herself to be touched sexually. And yes, there is a very old history behind butch/femme, dating back many decades...to the 1930s at least, with its heyday having been in the 1950s and 1960s. It's out of favor now, and even many couples with one butch partner and one femme partner don't identify as butch/femme.

There's a lot of history behind lesbianism. I think it's important that any girl who wants to get past the "experimentation phase" read up on it. Stone Butch Blues, Rubyfruit Jungle, Daughters of Bilitis, maybe some lesbian separatist stuff. It's similar to being African-American and knowing nothing of black history in the United States. Knowing lesbian history is as important to being a lesbian as knowing about slavery is to being African-American. I tend to consider girls who don't know lesbian history as players...I don't mean to seem exclusionary, but I think you need to know where you come from if you're going to call yourself a lesbian.

Here's some reading on stone butches: http://www.butch-femme.net/butchfemmenetwork_021.htm
More info on butch/femme: http://www.butch-femme.net/index.htm - http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/
Lesbian history: http://www.swade.net/lesbian/tribal_chant/les_hist.html - http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/pwh/ - http://www.glbtq.com/

 

[unfoundiamond]

Ah...stone cold is not the same thing as stone. A stone butch is a masculine-identified lesbian (beyond the point of butch and into masculine, that is) who refuses to allow herself to be touched sexually. And yes, there is a very old history behind butch/femme, dating back many decades...to the 1930s at least, with its heyday having been in the 1950s and 1960s. It's out of favor now, and even many couples with one butch partner and one femme partner don't identify as butch/femme.

There's a lot of history behind lesbianism. I think it's important that any girl who wants to get past the "experimentation phase" read up on it. Stone Butch Blues, Rubyfruit Jungle, Daughters of Bilitis, maybe some lesbian separatist stuff. It's similar to being African-American and knowing nothing of black history in the United States. Knowing lesbian history is as important to being a lesbian as knowing about slavery is to being African-American. I tend to consider girls who don't know lesbian history as players...I don't mean to seem exclusionary, but I think you need to know where you come from if you're going to call yourself a lesbian.

Here's some reading on stone butches: http://www.butch-femme.net/butchfemmenetwork_021.htm
More info on butch/femme: http://www.butch-femme.net/index.htm - http://www.butch-femme.com/portal/
Lesbian history: http://www.swade.net/lesbian/tribal_chant/les_hist.html - http://www.fordham.edu/halsall/pwh/ - http://www.glbtq.com/

E,

I don't call myself a lesbian... I might love to fuck women, but I am not just into that...

Second, WOW... there's a name for identifying as masculine and not letting girls touch me... than... I may not have known what the word ment but... I was stone lesbian back then, I began to think I might be Asexual, I know I mention not undressing in most of my encounters with women, not letting them touch me... and you are talking about a girl like Chloe Sevingy, in if these walls could talk 2 type...

I may not be a freakin reader of lesbian literature but... I think that calling me a player is... cheap.

I mean, I know I am a evil Bisexual... but I started a F*ing pussy worship thread...

I was in the 2000 Pride Parade here, I was voted Prom Drag King... I may not have read your books...
and I may not exclude someone from my love because they don't have the right genitals...

Life isn't about genitals or labels, or making people feel like they aren't "gay" enough...

I thought you kinda "got" me...

I know you probably look at that avatar, and you don't get it... you think I am one of "those" girls... and you couldn't be further from the truth... but I can't prove anything to you...

 

[Etoile]

E,

I don't call myself a lesbian... I might love to fuck women, but I am not just into that...

Second, WOW... there's a name for identifying as masculine and not letting girls touch me... than... I may not have known what the word ment but... I was stone lesbian back then, I began to think I might be Asexual, I know I mention not undressing in most of my encounters with women, not letting them touch me... and you are talking about a girl like Chloe Sevingy, in if these walls could talk 2 type...

I may not be a freakin reader of lesbian literature but... I think that calling me a player is... cheap.

I mean, I know I am a evil Bisexual... but I started a F*ing pussy worship thread...

I was in the 2000 Pride Parade here, I was voted Prom Drag King... I may not have read your books...
and I may not exclude someone from my love because they don't have the right genitals...

Life isn't about genitals or labels, or making people feel like they aren't "gay" enough...

I thought you kinda "got" me...

I know you probably look at that avatar, and you don't get it... you think I am one of "those" girls... and you couldn't be further from the truth... but I can't prove anything to you...

I think you misunderstood me. What I'm saying is that history is important, and a lot of the 18-22 y/o girls who are playing with other girls in college don't have that background. Even the butch ones. For a lot of them, they think lesbianism is cool, but they grow up and marry men and have 2.5 kids etc. It's an easy way out...they have no respect for what most lesbians go through. These girls are players in my book. If you don't know lesbian history, and you don't respect the lesbian experience, you're just playing around.

I'm sorry I didn't clarify in my second paragraph that I wasn't talking about you specifically. All of it was intended as a "you-general" not a "you-unfoundiamond" thing. It honestly wasn't about you, and I don't know if you can believe that, but it's what I meant.

But yeah, there's a name for it. And you don't have to list your gay credentials to me, I'm not the gay police. I never said you weren't gay enough. I think you took my post more personally than it was intended.

I'm not sure what your avatar has to do with anything, though?

 

[twysted73]

How....disappointing.

If she cared to have the terminology correct she'd do research.
If she thought she'd be judged for her "lack of label correctness" she'd try to be as accurate as possible. That's just how she is. Intelligent and audiably well spoken.

I'm not sure why a select few of you have taken it upon yourselves to correct her on almost every thread she has put out concerning her grammar and terminology, but truly...must we nitpick?

Read closer at her words. Spend less time on semantics. I do not spell as well as I could. This I know and am fully aware of.
But I type here nontheless. I open up and begin threads despite my learning deficiency.
Sometimes...you just have to let it go and look deeper at the meaning and not at the surface for flaws and mistakes. Not a one of us here is perfect.
And I'd rather not skim through other's threads to do as has been done to her.

I prefer to look at the big picture.

 

[nh23]

If she cared to have the terminology correct she'd do research.
If she thought she'd be judged for her "lack of label correctness" she'd try to be as accurate as possible. That's just how she is. Intelligent and audiably well spoken.

I'm not sure why a select few of you have taken it upon yourselves to correct her on almost every thread she has put out concerning her grammar and terminology, but truly...must we nitpick?

Read closer at her words. Spend less time on semantics. I do not spell as well as I could. This I know and am fully aware of.
But I type here nontheless. I open up and begin threads despite my learning deficiency.
Sometimes...you just have to let it go and look deeper at the meaning and not at the surface for flaws and mistakes. Not a one of us here is perfect.
And I'd rather not skim through other's threads to do as has been done to her.

I prefer to look at the big picture.

I very rarely respond to any of her posts, so as someone who can't really be accused of picking on her, I'll say this. I lurk a lot. I read most everything posted on the BDSM forums. From what I've seen often times people are NOT picking on her, she just takes it that way. I've seen countless posts where she's started defending herself from a post she's mis read, only to have the person who posted come back to say wtf? I wasn't even talking about you.

Other than that sometimes using the correct terminology IS important. It's easy enough, if you don't know what terminology to use google it. It takes about 2 minutes. As for spelling Lit now offers a spell check, it's not that hard to use either. Just push a button.

 

[catalina_francisco]

Nit picking is all very fine, but from my experience when most of us begin being sexually active we go with what feels good, what moves us enough to say 'yes', more so than rushing to the nearest library to find out what label we should wear and what label we should be looking to sleep/experiment/feel with. At least that is my experience, and even then it is difficult enough to find the one who is right for you in all ways without having to choose from a million and one labels first. I go with my emotions, which is not always the best choice, but I cannot intellectualise my sexuality overly much without losing its appeal. Can't we just fuck and be happy?

Catalina

 

[twysted73]

Nit picking is all very fine, but from my experience when most of us begin being sexually active we go with what feels good, what moves us enough to say 'yes', more so than rushing to the nearest library to find out what label we should wear and what label we should be looking to sleep/experiment/feel with. At least that is my experience, and even then it is difficult enough to find the one who is right for you in all ways without having to choose from a million and one labels first. I go with my emotions, which is not always the best choice, but I cannot intellectualise my sexuality overly much without losing its appeal. Can't we just fuck and be happy?

Catalina

Delightfully decadent idea. Anyone interested? We can clear out a nice area right here. Move all the furniture to the walls, pull off all the cushions and such, toss em on the floor here and just have a nice, little free-for-all/headon-fest.

*grins and feels quite pleased with himself *

 

[unfoundiamond]

you generally? that's kinda weak...

I think you misunderstood me. What I'm saying is that history is important, and a lot of the 18-22 y/o girls who are playing with other girls in college don't have that background. Even the butch ones. For a lot of them, they think lesbianism is cool, but they grow up and marry men and have 2.5 kids etc. It's an easy way out...they have no respect for what most lesbians go through. These girls are players in my book. If you don't know lesbian history, and you don't respect the lesbian experience, you're just playing around.

I'm sorry I didn't clarify in my second paragraph that I wasn't talking about you specifically. All of it was intended as a "you-general" not a "you-unfoundiamond" thing. It honestly wasn't about you, and I don't know if you can believe that, but it's what I meant.

But yeah, there's a name for it. And you don't have to list your gay credentials to me, I'm not the gay police. I never said you weren't gay enough. I think you took my post more personally than it was intended.

I'm not sure what your avatar has to do with anything, though?

See... I think If I was fat and butch like I used to be, you'd of looked at me, and assume I knew the definition.

I am not so much taking it personally as I think you are acting like only your books are the history of lesbianism, and you are bascially trying to be the "Old Guard" of Lesbian History, your form(books and definitions) of lesbianism is the only TRUE form.

I am not giving you my lesbian crudentials... That would be having some of them come tell ya...

I can... but its pointless...

And your whole form of lesbianism includes lesbians not having a family at some point and children (EVEN WITH A MAN/some are actually gay men....) You're misinformed, My mother in law has 3 sons and she is a lesbian, I have a friend who IS a lesbian, and she got pregnant, had a child, and was never with him, even though she did fuck him because she wanted to.... and she's a lesbian...

I get your whole stone lesbian thing,

Thanx for clarifying, and now I will always difrentiate between the two, I thank you for helping to educate me. I am now better informed and that was my whole goal.

I appreciate you educating me, but at the same time you have to understand, you are preaching about true lesbians to the choir, for lack of a better term. And I hate cliches but that one pretty much sums it up.

I don't have any problem with ya, E, in fact, I usually love your posts and watch for them...

I just hope you can look at your attitude (or tone of writting) and realize that you did come across as condesending and you should accept people as you expect to be accepted.

Everyone should, Gay, Straight, Bisexual, Asexual... Whatever...

People fail to remember what it is like to suffer the lesbian harassment and ridicule you mention like you're proving YOUR crudentials, I actually was not apologetic about loving who I wanted, wherever I wanted. I got my clothes ripped and threated by men who wanted to "show me what a man is like" and got shunned, I know what it feels like to be hated for how you feel, and so should you, and you should treat others accordingly**

I don't need some chick telling me I don't do enough reasearch to be considered more than a player... and you did say that.

Just sayin...

 

[Etoile]

See... I think If I was fat and butch like I used to be, you'd of looked at me, and assume I knew the definition.

I am not so much taking it personally as I think you are acting like only your books are the history of lesbianism, and you are bascially trying to be the "Old Guard" of Lesbian History, your form(books and definitions) of lesbianism is the only TRUE form.

I am not giving you my lesbian crudentials... That would be having some of them come tell ya...

I can... but its pointless...

And your whole form of lesbianism includes lesbians not having a family at some point and children (EVEN WITH A MAN/some are actually gay men....) You're misinformed, My mother in law has 3 sons and she is a lesbian, I have a friend who IS a lesbian, and she got pregnant, had a child, and was never with him, even though she did fuck him because she wanted to.... and she's a lesbian...

I get your whole stone lesbian thing,

Thanx for clarifying, and now I will always difrentiate between the two, I thank you for helping to educate me. I am now better informed and that was my whole goal.

I appreciate you educating me, but at the same time you have to understand, you are preaching about true lesbians to the choir, for lack of a better term. And I hate cliches but that one pretty much sums it up.

I don't have any problem with ya, E, in fact, I usually love your posts and watch for them...

I just hope you can look at your attitude (or tone of writting) and realize that you did come across as condesending and you should accept people as you expect to be accepted.

Everyone should, Gay, Straight, Bisexual, Asexual... Whatever...

People fail to remember what it is like to suffer the lesbian harassment and ridicule you mention like you're proving YOUR crudentials, I actually was not apologetic about loving who I wanted, wherever I wanted. I got my clothes ripped and threated by men who wanted to "show me what a man is like"

I don't need some chick telling me I don't do enough reasearch to be considered more than a player... and you did say that.

Just sayin...

I don't know how to make it any more clear than I already did. The post was not about you. I'm sorry if you felt insulted by the things I said, but they were not targeted at you, so any offense taken was on your own.

I don't consider myself old guard, I just think it's important to know where you come from, no matter who you are.

 

[HottieMama]

Ummm...unfound...i like you and i generally like your posts... but what does being fat have to do with a damn thing?

 

[alexanna]

I can't wait to get picked on. It will feel like a right of passage.

 

[Etoile]

I can't wait to get picked on. It will feel like a right of passage.

That's rite of passage, little miss.

how was that?

 

[HottieMama]

alexanna...

i'm not picking on anyone. However, if someone uses the term "fat" as a descriptor for a group of people, i question it.

Call it a pet peeve of mine.

 

[unfoundiamond]

Ummm...unfound...i like you and i generally like your posts... but what does being fat have to do with a damn thing?

Only that I used to be heavyer, and have seen how me having a extra 20 pounds on me makes women act diffrently towards me...

Have you ever seen when they take a fat suit and put it on a supermodel, how people go from treating her like they wanna drink her piss to laughing at her, and pointing,

Well that's what my expirience with being a "stud" reminds me of.

Being butch with reguard to men, is like wearing the fat suit. Guys don't open doors as much, don't buy drinks... don't even make eye contact...

Now being butch in reguard to women, they have a few attitiudes, one is homophobia, the other common one is they see me as a prospect, someone who could be a romantic interest, not competition or threatning...

Like being heavyer became a comfort mechanism for me then because then men didn't objectify me and women didn't act like they where threatened by me, or they didn't wanna try to push me around...

This isn't so noticable online, but... ever since I went "undercover" girls act so much diffrently... part of the reason I don't date many women anymore... just Amanda... but even when I go to the local lesbian hotspots I frequent, I can't just talk to whoever I want anymore, women get super threatened. I can't walk up to my old fellow studs and talk to them without their girlfriends(the femme ones) giving me dirty looks and being threatend by the fact I no longer wear mens clothes... Go Figure...

So forgive me, but I am refferring to my old fatness...

I would never say such a thing about lesbians...

I lick them, oops I mean Like... hehe

 

[alexanna]

That's rite of passage, little miss.

how was that?

*glows*

 

[unfoundiamond]

allrighty then!

I very rarely respond to any of her posts, so as someone who can't really be accused of picking on her, I'll say this. I lurk a lot. I read most everything posted on the BDSM forums. From what I've seen often times people are NOT picking on her, she just takes it that way. I've seen countless posts where she's started defending herself from a post she's mis read, only to have the person who posted come back to say wtf? I wasn't even talking about you.

Other than that sometimes using the correct terminology IS important. It's easy enough, if you don't know what terminology to use google it. It takes about 2 minutes. As for spelling Lit now offers a spell check, it's not that hard to use either. Just push a button.

Damn... I can only say you must see somethings in those posts I didn't...

And BTW, c'mon, I don't have spell check or I'd use it, Its not on my skin, or I also use the basic text box... point me to the spell check...

And I can't believe you actually called my spelling out... that's what editors are for, and I find it hard to believe all the intelligence you posess can only be used to correct people

This is general comments:
(IMO)Correcting people is only the right thing to do if they benefit from it...

Which is why, if you are honestly trying to help me seem as perfect as possible... Thanx that's how I will take it...
If not... don't expect me to see it as anything other than people just being "haters."

 

[Etoile]

And BTW, c'mon, I don't have spell check or I'd use it, Its not on my skin, or I also use the basic text box... point me to the spell check...

Spell check for IE: http://www.iespell.com/
For Firefox: http://www.wikihow.com/Install-a-Spell-Checker-Into-Firefox
For Safari: http://8help.osu.edu/2143.html

 

[IntenseDesire]

Pussy Worship

A/all - we seem to have slipped off the topic.

Lets face it we all have a sexuality, and most will experience discrimation or ridicule in their lives be it based on sexual preferences, partner choice, or appearance.

Now, the topic. I see pussy worship as both a dominant and submissive activity. As a dominant, there is nothing better than combining the act of worship with a degree of orgasm denial. Progressively building in intensity until the whimpers and begging reach a point where Im satisfied to let nature take its course and my sub to have the best toe curling orgasm possible.

But hey thats me, and I'm happy in my shell.

ID

 

[unfoundiamond]

Spell check for IE: http://www.iespell.com/
For Firefox: http://www.wikihow.com/Install-a-Spell-Checker-Into-Firefox
For Safari: http://8help.osu.edu/2143.html

She said LIT NOW OFFERED SPELL CHECK...

Now thank you, but maybe if you missed that you missed some of my words too and that's why we don't understand each other...

I know you keep saying you didn't mean any of what you said towards me, and that's fine, Okay? Its all good.

Here's a gold star you you... *puts a gold star on you*

Now that we all feel special can we talk about PUSSY WORSHIP?

And I since I have to explain every word and tone, I am intending all my posts as friendly and jokingly sarcastic... since I am being totally virtually spanked on page seven...

Thanx. LOL

 

[nh23]

Damn... I can only say you must see somethings in those posts I didn't...

And BTW, c'mon, I don't have spell check or I'd use it, Its not on my skin, or I also use the basic text box... point me to the spell check...

And I can't believe you actually called my spelling out... that's what editors are for, and I find it hard to believe all the intelligence you posess can only be used to correct people

This is general comments:
(IMO)Correcting people is only the right thing to do if they benefit from it...

Which is why, if you are honestly trying to help me seem as perfect as possible... Thanx that's how I will take it...
If not... don't expect me to see it as anything other than people just being "haters."

If you use firefox Lit doesn't offer the spell check, but if you do use firefox it can be set up to automatically underline misspelled words in red. That's how I have mine set up.

I didn't call your spelling out. I never said a word about your spelling. I was responding to what twist said in his post. He mentioned spelling so I pointed out that Lit offers a spell check tool. See that's what I was saying about seeing insults to yourself in posts that are not there.

Lastly I don't care enough about you to be a hater. I don't even know you. You've complained about your posts not being understood, and twist said something in his post about terminology and misspellings. If you want people to take you seriously sometimes proper terminology and spelling things correctly help. It's a suggestion take it or leave it. But loosen up everything is not an insult to you.

ETA- Shyguy posted a pic to show where the spell check option is if you are using IE. It can be found here.
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=25304352&postcount=96