Pussy Worship... *yes I said it*

[nh23]

She said LIT NOW OFFERED SPELL CHECK...

Now thank you, but maybe if you missed that you missed some of my words too and that's why we don't understand each other...

I know you keep saying you didn't mean any of what you said towards me, and that's fine, Okay? Its all good.

Here's a gold star you you... *puts a gold star on you*

Now that we all feel special can we talk about PUSSY WORSHIP?

And I since I have to explain every word and tone, I am intending all my posts as friendly and jokingly sarcastic... since I am being totally virtually spanked on page seven...

Thanx. LOL

I’m really glad you mentioned that your posts are all friendly and sarcastic, because it sounds an awful lot like you’re being a catty bitch again. Etoile was trying to help you out, and this is the response she gets?

If you want people to treat you nicely, you need to remember the golden rule. Maybe that is why some people have such a hard time understanding you and you them. Because most people treat others how they deserve to be treated, and you treat people like you’re god’s gift to the boards or something. Newsflash, you are not the hottest shit to hit Literotica. That would probably be Britnii or Kailey or that chick who took the advice we posted here and reposted it to her own forum.

This one you can take personal. I'm speaking directly to you, so no need to wonder if this post is too or about you.

 

[twysted73]

I can't wait to get picked on. It will feel like a right of passage.

* snorts *

Keep it up. You're next. *lol*

 

[EmpressFi]

alexanna...

i'm not picking on anyone. However, if someone uses the term "fat" as a descriptor for a group of people, i question it.

Call it a pet peeve of mine.

I agree with you. While it was explained later to have not meant to have been offensive, I still read it and felt slapped in the face. What an ugly connotation to apply to "fat". And please dont mention the models in the fat suits learning what it's like to be fat. One week, one month in the fat suit shows nothing of what it feels like to be treated that way, to hear the comments, over years and years of feeling stupid and lazy and useless for not being able to make the weight loss stick. One doesnt "learn" what discrimination feels like by playing at it for a while.

 

[unfoundiamond]

I am loving Lit now...

Empress...

I am*/was/will always be considered a "big" girl. Call it Plus sized, call it "heavy" call it whatever, but I was under the impression I get to call my ba*donk whatever I want (joking again)

I have only been less than plus sized a few times in my life... I recently just lost 70 pounds, but was up to 250 this time last year.

My parents are both big people and I was raised to "shoot straight"

I was fat before. Point blank... and I can call my own fat ass, just that...

And nobody gets to hate me for it.

 

[unfoundiamond]

If you use firefox Lit doesn't offer the spell check, but if you do use firefox it can be set up to automatically underline misspelled words in red. That's how I have mine set up.

I didn't call your spelling out. I never said a word about your spelling. I was responding to what twist said in his post. He mentioned spelling so I pointed out that Lit offers a spell check tool. See that's what I was saying about seeing insults to yourself in posts that are not there.

Lastly I don't care enough about you to be a hater. I don't even know you. You've complained about your posts not being understood, and twist said something in his post about terminology and misspellings. If you want people to take you seriously sometimes proper terminology and spelling things correctly help. It's a suggestion take it or leave it. But loosen up everything is not an insult to you.

ETA- Shyguy posted a pic to show where the spell check option is if you are using IE. It can be found here.
http://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=25304352&postcount=96

I didn't say it was an insult... I am a terrible speller...

Oh No! Now I am insulting people who don't spell well, I better be careful. (JOKE)

People mistake things I say, I msitake things other people say... That's life, The real adults figure these things out and don't assume shit.

I love Lit, And I could care less what anyone on here thought of me... (can't you tell,?? Cmon. I have been taking a few risky jokes lately... but Jeez)

And I write here for me, I don't care if I have to ignore everyone and post, I am doing this for me...

I am not "gods gift to Lit" (did I just even repeat that?)

I am just being W. Its my nature to be a little bold and sarcastic...

It obviously not translating well, but I can only try to be more clear, and in time youlle either ignore me, or get me...

I thanked anyone who has corrected me, and you say I take things personally... I don't

Is it so hard to get the concept, If I do take something personally or make a comment about it. The person should just either explain it, and let it be done, or defend it, and we agree to disagree... isn't that how discussions work?

I don't think you realize words have diffrent connotations to diffrent people, and that's inevidable, so I expect to have to clarify my meaning every once in a while.

And tone and inflection play into how I communticate a lot, but even though we are online, I can't just bland myself out to sound like a F*ing hallmark card or its pointless...

I am provokative in nature.... (you like that... Dontcha *wink*)

I am sorry you guys don't get me. I am not the bad guy.

 

[nh23]

I didn't say it was an insult... I am a terrible speller...

Oh No! Now I am insulting people who don't spell well, I better be careful.

People mistake things I say, I msitake things other people say... That's life, The real adults figure these things out and don't assume shit.

I love Lit, And I could care less what anyone on here thought of me... (can't you tell,?? Cmon. I have been taking a few risky jokes lately... but Jeez)

And I write here for me, I don't care if I have to ignore everyone and post, I am doing this for me...

I am not "gods gift to Lit" (did I just even repeat that?) (JOKE)

I am just being W. Its my nature to be a little bold and sarcastic...

It obviously not translating well, but I can only try to be more clear, and in time youlle either ignore me, or get me...

I thanked anyone who has corrected me, and you say I take things personally... I don't

Is it so hard to get the concept, If I do take something personally or make a comment about it. The person should just either explain it, and let it be done, or defend it, and we agree to disagree... isn't that how discussions work?

I don't think you realize words have diffrent connotations to diffrent people, and that's inevidable, so I expect to have to clarify my meaning every once in a while.

And tone and inflection play into how I communticate a lot, but even though we are online, I can't just bland myself out to sound like a F*ing hallmark card or its pointless...

I am provokative in nature.... (you like that... Dontcha *wink*)

I am sorry you guys don't get me. I am not the bad guy.

*shrugs* I very rarely "get" what you're saying in your posts. Which is why I normally avoid them. That and when I have responded to them it was taken as an insult to you when it clearly wasn't trying to insult you. (This was long ago in another thread) The only reason I responded in this thread was because twyst was bringing up the fact that you're being picked on. I call bullshit when I see it. I was pointing out that you aren't picked on half as much as he (you) think you are. It's in the way it's being read. I mean to me it really shows an overinflated sense of self-importance that you think that all of us actually spend time sitting around coming up with ways to insult you...we don't care about you THAT much, honey. You play the role of the victim way too much. The last line of your post here shows that.

And to me "adults" don't handle things the way you responded to Etoile. She was trying to be helpful and you were flat out a bitch to her. Now I'm not always the most joyful and nice person myself, but I think it was way over the line to be rude to someone who was being helpful to you. Especially when it's someone who is always very nice to everyone and tries to help as much as she can. Your reading insults about you in posts that aren't there is exactly what lead to that rude post to her.

 

[unfoundiamond]

I agree with you. While it was explained later to have not meant to have been offensive, I still read it and felt slapped in the face. What an ugly connotation to apply to "fat". And please dont mention the models in the fat suits learning what it's like to be fat. One week, one month in the fat suit shows nothing of what it feels like to be treated that way, to hear the comments, over years and years of feeling stupid and lazy and useless for not being able to make the weight loss stick. One doesnt "learn" what discrimination feels like by playing at it for a while.

I was always heavy, especially as a child, when other children are cruel, and people opinions seem to mean the world.

I didn't mean to imply the "fat suit expiriment" was a good representation of the actual self loathing the media and society can impose on people. (I personally like the attitude my chinese friends have on it, Being heavy is a sign of wealth among men, I wish being heavy in this culture was reguarded the same)

What the "fat suit" does illistrate is people treat you diffrently based on how you look, if you do or don't look like their stereotype, they determine if you're genuine.

I am just sharing my expririence. But I never intended to offend you. I am sorry I was so unclear. I was trying to hurry to get my thoughts out, which does happen to me a lot...

I will be more clear.

As for other posts (and you, nh23)...

I hate repitition, but almost wanna quote my own post at this point, and show you where I adressed it... you obviously didn't read where I wrote I don't feel at all insulted... only misunderstood. And I don't mind clarifying...

This has gotten redundant...

 

[nh23]

I hate repitition, but almost wanna quote my own post at this point, and show you where I adressed it... you obviously didn't read where I wrote I don't feel at all insulted... only misunderstood. And I don't mind clarifying...

You can quote your own post and say it all you want. Your actions and the way you respond to posts show differently. And with that... you know what I refuse to engage in a battle of wits with the unarmed, it's just not fair. So, I'm out of this thread. Good Luck!

 

[tommynova2001]

Geez...ducks....

i came here to post a cute story (I thought anyway) about this thread.

At the risk of thread jacking here back on point, my comment is about pussy worship...not the act itself, worthy of reverence that it is, but the actual combination of these two words.

My wife was readint this thread like late November early December and liked the phrase. She borrowed it for the title of a post on our blog.

well that phrase alone has gotten us an inordinate amount of google hits. If you type in "pussy worship wife" into Google's blog search that entry comes up number one!

Interestingly to me pussy worship husband is about number two...not sure if this implies we are expected to have "the wife" do some worshipful servitude on a third party's pussy or just what.

The relevant thing about this is that it got me thing in general about balance in our bedroom. In our blog we had when I first noticed, about 12 entries about fellatio and about 8 about cunnilingus. I am working to catch up

 

[unfoundiamond]

Freakin Sweet!

I do LOVE your blog...

You guys are great at writting, among other things... *wink*

My kinky role models

::sigh::

 

[ammre]

I feel so anti sexual in this post...

I don't do cock worship so I don't think i'd do pussy worship. I had a brief Dom who was all about that cock worship stuff, and while i didn't mind the tears form the gag reflex, i did mind the tears from boredom.
Also, it never felt very dominant on his part. Maybe a little when he'd hold me or position me or what not, but in the end he'd come he'd shudder, moan, pant, and near collapse and I'd be fine and bored... I mean really who's fucking superior now? I'm still standing (well upright at least) and You sir are NOT. If done in conjunction with other Domly things, fine sure awesome, but straight worship was boring as hell. I stopped talking to him after a month of this.

So i can't imagine pussy worship to be that awesome. Although if i had to choose between someone forcing me to go down on them, i'd choose a female bodied person. I'd rather be face deep in pussy or a strap on then a penis.
I do like going down on people. I just don't like that to be inherently dominant or submissive.

also:
I don't like male ejaculation. (it's foul, it gives me heart burn, Ill deal with it if i have to but i wont like it)
I don't like periods/menstrual blood. (it's inconvenient, thankfully I've only gotten mine once in the past 2 and a half years)
I don't mind hair, though i prefer trim. (if you're going to loveee menstrual blood then should you love hair which is also natural and protective of the vulva?)

 

[Netzach]

I don't do cock worship so I don't think i'd do pussy worship. I had a brief Dom who was all about that cock worship stuff, and while i didn't mind the tears form the gag reflex, i did mind the tears from boredom.
Also, it never felt very dominant on his part. Maybe a little when he'd hold me or position me or what not, but in the end he'd come he'd shudder, moan, pant, and near collapse and I'd be fine and bored... I mean really who's fucking superior now? I'm still standing (well upright at least) and You sir are NOT. If done in conjunction with other Domly things, fine sure awesome, but straight worship was boring as hell. I stopped talking to him after a month of this.

So i can't imagine pussy worship to be that awesome. Although if i had to choose between someone forcing me to go down on them, i'd choose a female bodied person. I'd rather be face deep in pussy or a strap on then a penis.
I do like going down on people. I just don't like that to be inherently dominant or submissive.

also:
I don't like male ejaculation. (it's foul, it gives me heart burn, Ill deal with it if i have to but i wont like it)
I don't like periods/menstrual blood. (it's inconvenient, thankfully I've only gotten mine once in the past 2 and a half years)
I don't mind hair, though i prefer trim. (if you're going to loveee menstrual blood then should you love hair which is also natural and protective of the vulva?)

Makes so much sense.

Hot, into-it, great oral is just a logical outcropping, for me, of a really good sexual relationship. My Bull is really into the pussy, really REALLY into the pussy, and I don't think of him wedging his face in my thighs for an hour as worship, as domination as anything, really, other than a really good time for both of us, evidently.

I suppose it *can* be part of a power dynamic, but it's no more endemic to it for me than tooth brushing or eating, it CAN be part of it, but it's not one of the first places my brain goes - oral alone needs context to be anything other than great sex for me.

 

[curiouskinkwife]

And for me, oral is more than just part. It's a necessity for me. I don't know if I would qualify what I do as "cock worship". (Although Hubby certainly feels worshipped) It's an important part of sex for me. It's something I do, have needed to do, in order to get off. It's only recently that I have been able to really enjoy sex when I haven't given oral. And I couldn't enjoy receiving oral sex because I felt I wasn't "doing my part". I often wonder how this dynamic would play if I were to be sexual with a woman. Could I recieve...or would I feel compelled to give?

 

[Etoile]

Am I the only person who prefers to receive oral rather than to give? I actually don't much like giving oral, to an innie or an outie.

 

[alexanna]

Am I the only person who prefers to receive oral rather than to give? I actually don't much like giving oral, to an innie or an outie.

If I could ever freaking relax I think I would enjoy receiving it more than giving it. Sometimes I really dig giving it and sometimes its just okay. I got a sort of ick feeling for the first time swallowing the other day, usually its no big deal.

And Tommy and his wife's blog really rocks.

 

[ammre]

hahaha innie or outie ahahahahah

ok so I dont orgasm from other people. I'm sure if i could that would change the entire scope of oral sex. For me I like giving oral sex in order to see what i ca make them do, oh hey look! that made you moan! oh hey look that made you squirt! etc... It's ntot hat i LOVE the act. I jsut love what it does to them, which is probably why i get bored. After a while it feels like you're playing the same video game you've already won, over and over again.

 

[Netzach]

Am I the only person who prefers to receive oral rather than to give? I actually don't much like giving oral, to an innie or an outie.

No you are not.
I don't hate it, but I have a decided bias. I know that a lot of girls get into the "ooo I'm the tongue stud" kind of top mentality, but I really like doing the aggressive femme receptive thing, and eventually wearing them out or putting a gag in them and telling them, go ahead, stud, get me off, what's the matter, and teasing stuff like that. Receptive can still be a hell of a fun top position.