Question? Bi vs curious guys

[mctex29]

I consider myself to be just curious because although I want to have a sexual experience with another guy (I haven't before), I am not attracted to men in the sense that when I see a good looking guy I don't start thinking about wanting to have sex with him or date him or anything while I do have those thoughts when I see an attractive woman.

For me wanting a sexual experience with another guy is more cuz I'm a very sexual person and want to try everything. I have had sex with a couple transgender woman and loved it so why not try another guy. With the transgender women I did enjoy stroking their cocks and having mutual masturbation, but didn't suck their cocks or get fucked by them. They did suck me and i did fuck them though.

So that's my two cents

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

I consider myself to be just curious because although I want to have a sexual experience with another guy (I haven't before), I am not attracted to men in the sense that when I see a good looking guy I don't start thinking about wanting to have sex with him or date him or anything while I do have those thoughts when I see an attractive woman.

For me wanting a sexual experience with another guy is more cuz I'm a very sexual person and want to try everything. I have had sex with a couple transgender woman and loved it so why not try another guy. With the transgender women I did enjoy stroking their cocks and having mutual masturbation, but didn't suck their cocks or get fucked by them. They did suck me and i did fuck them though.

So that's my two cents

I don't date guys but am still attracted to some and love having sex with them, still say I'm bisexual. I'm attracted to and date women and TGs and love having sex with them as well. I'm as sexual as they come, or cum, and like trying new things as well but don't think it defines me what I am sexually, it's how you feel and how somebody else makes you feel.

 

[Misshotndeep]

This is so interesting to read. I like getting in your heads guys. Thank you for sharing. I know there is still a lot of stigma in the states about what is "gay" or not. I don't buy that bs. I think if it feels good and all parties are of age and consenting, have at thee!

 

[mctex29]

agreed

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Me too.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

Agree 100%

 

[Misshotndeep]

I am learning so much from you guys. Than you to all the shy guys that have been sending me PM's too. I appreciate your answers as well.

 

[Jeniinnylons]

We have talked about just the two of us using a strap-on with him. (Another of my fantasies)
And before anyone goes all crazy about it, The strap-on for me is not about dominance but rather a different way to bring my lover pleasure. I have a thing for hearing my name screamed and making a guy fall apart like us ladies do. Shrugs

Sign me up!!!!

he is not very appreciative of my understanding.

Wish there was more women that were understanding. I CD and have been alone for awhile because once they find out they want out.

 

[Y_Diner]

I've only recently faced up (so to speak...or is that ass up? : -) ) to my bi-sexuality. Other than teen experimentation, I didn't think sexually about cocks, or my ass, for decades. Then I cross-dressed for Halloween.....woooheee, round and round the rabbit hole I've spun, since then.

My point is everybody is different. In the male gay world, I'm already finding a huge amount of 'pigeon hole' -ing oneself (top, bottom, verse, dom, sub, yada yada). I refuse. I'm in the 'it all feels good' stage. And I'm still very much bi...male faces don't do much for me, maybe that's why I'm into CD...but show me a hard cock, and, well...different feelings take over.

I'm currently indulging in a fantasy of being with you both, and being the seducer and persuader, talking you both thru your first sex encounter, and teasing and taking part with you both. Tell him you both need to come to New Orleans for Mardi Gras!

 

[Misshotndeep]

I've only recently faced up (so to speak...or is that ass up? : -) ) to my bi-sexuality. Other than teen experimentation, I didn't think sexually about cocks, or my ass, for decades. Then I cross-dressed for Halloween.....woooheee, round and round the rabbit hole I've spun, since then.

My point is everybody is different. In the male gay world, I'm already finding a huge amount of 'pigeon hole' -ing oneself (top, bottom, verse, dom, sub, yada yada). I refuse. I'm in the 'it all feels good' stage. And I'm still very much bi...male faces don't do much for me, maybe that's why I'm into CD...but show me a hard cock, and, well...different feelings take over.

I'm currently indulging in a fantasy of being with you both, and being the seducer and persuader, talking you both thru your first sex encounter, and teasing and taking part with you both. Tell him you both need to come to New Orleans for Mardi Gras!

Oh my friend would love that. Mardi Gras would be fun regardless of sex. I have been once. I don't think he has. On the surface he is really conservative so it would be fun to take him and make him loosen up a bit. lol

 

[Y_Diner]

Oh my friend would love that. Mardi Gras would be fun regardless of sex. I have been once. I don't think he has. On the surface he is really conservative so it would be fun to take him and make him loosen up a bit. lol

Sounds like I could loosen him up quite a bit!

 

[Misshotndeep]

Sounds like I could loosen him up quite a bit!

lol

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

Sounds like I could loosen him up quite a bit!

Naughty

 

[Gods_Favorite]

If you have desires and strong urges to suck cock and play with men, your bi curious. If you act on those urges and it's something you keep doing your bisexual. I started out having fantasies of a man sucking my cock, I acted on those and it evolved to me being the one giving the blowjobs, I have now sucked 15 dicks and I am a cocksucker and as bisexual as you can get. Tell your friend he needs to be sure because once you go down this road it will change you. You can pm me if you need to talk more.

 

[Spartan112]

Gods Favorite, I have to disagree.

Is someone only heterosexual or gay once they have acted on those things? So it's not possible to be a gay virgin?

You can be bi before you act on those feelings physically.

By suggesting you are only "Bi curious" until you act on those feelings you are making bisexuality "less than".

 

[coati]

Gods Favorite, I have to disagree.

Is someone only heterosexual or gay once they have acted on those things? So it's not possible to be a gay virgin?

You can be bi before you act on those feelings physically.

By suggesting you are only "Bi curious" until you act on those feelings you are making bisexuality "less than".

The reason why I and perhaps Gods Favorite made this distinction for bi men is than some of them go into denial after they start acting on their "bi curiosity". Some men stay in permanent denial about being bi, and continue to split hairs about being straight because they are more attracted to women or attracted to other aspects of women or somehow not anything like a gay or bi man. This attitude usually indicates lingering homophobia and is a huge insult to the people who have had the personal integrity to openly fight for gay and bi rights,

Now, if a bi curious man who has no actual experience wants to identify as being bi, no problem. Some guys think they are bi, but then can't handle their feelings after they have an actual experience. They either retreat completely, or sometimes go into this cycle of denial followed by a compulsion to do it again (like some of the religious right politicians or preachers who finally get outed in airport bathrooms or in the red-light district of major cities).

As far as I am concerned, any man can admit to being bi, but men who repeatedly get off with other men should respect other gay and bi men and not call themselves straight or bi curious any more. That makes bi and gay men feel "less than".

 

[Gods_Favorite]

Oh my friend would love that. Mardi Gras would be fun regardless of sex. I have been once. I don't think he has. On the surface he is really conservative so it would be fun to take him and make him loosen up a bit. lol

Tell your friend I can give him his first bi blowjob, and I am very good at it.

 

[DNow51]

I have had m2m desires for the past couple of years. Hard (pun intended ) to act on these urges though as I'm a single parent with two children. Mind you, I am going to act on these urges one if these days. I don't consider myself anything other than horny and curious what it would feel like to be naked and hard with another guy who wants to be the same. If anyone wants to talk, or more, I'm all ears - and more!

 

[Misshotndeep]

Tell your friend I can give him his first bi blowjob, and I am very good at it.

We are not in your area, but if we were I would definitely talk to him about it. Thank you for the offer.

I have had m2m desires for the past couple of years. Hard (pun intended ) to act on these urges though as I'm a single parent with two children. Mind you, I am going to act on these urges one if these days. I don't consider myself anything other than horny and curious what it would feel like to be naked and hard with another guy who wants to be the same. If anyone wants to talk, or more, I'm all ears - and more!

Go to the Lit personals if you want to solicit for fun. This is a serious discussion thank you!

 

[dacoach44]

Many takes on it, Dear. I love sissies; love to suck their sissycocks. Yet, I am not gay; dont go to gay bars, etc. A sissy can suck a golfball thru a garden hose, and they squeal so cute when Daddy sucks their cocks, mmmmm

 

[dacoach44]

This is so interesting to read. I like getting in your heads guys. Thank you for sharing. I know there is still a lot of stigma in the states about what is "gay" or not. I don't buy that bs. I think if it feels good and all parties are of age and consenting, have at thee!

Many takes on it, Dear. I love sissies; love to suck their sissycocks. Yet, I am not gay; dont go to gay bars, etc. A sissy can suck a golfball thru a garden hose, and they squeal so cute when Daddy sucks their cocks, mmmmm

 

[deyv]

Personally, I began referring to myself as bisexual after I sucked a few cocks and really enjoyed it.

In my mind - the first time was just an experiment to see what it was like - how that came about is a longer discussion. But just the act of doing it the first time was so nerve-racking that I didn't fully enjoy but it wasn't bad and I liked it enough to try it again.

To make a long story short - after the third cock I was like, yeah, I do enjoy sucking cock.

But I also still enjoyed everything about women. Therefore, I am bisexual.

 

[bwb58]

I am a woman. I have a dear and very sexy friend who states he is not gay but would love to suck cock and have his ass fucked by a guy. SO my question is when does a guy go from curious to bi? Is there some rule? Is it about the emotional aspect of it? I am confused and he is not explaining it well to me.

I can tell you this much. If he is curious, then you can help him. Arrange a threesome with a bi guy or a transexual. You can slowly get him warmed up to it and he can move at a slower pace. A man's first sexual encounter with another man is much easier if a woman is present, IMO.

 

[Misshotndeep]

FYI. I am reading the thread folks. I may not comment on everything you guys post though. It is the holiday season. busy busy busy over this way.

 

[NorCalCumCannon]

Personally, I began referring to myself as bisexual after I sucked a few cocks and really enjoyed it.

In my mind - the first time was just an experiment to see what it was like - how that came about is a longer discussion. But just the act of doing it the first time was so nerve-racking that I didn't fully enjoy but it wasn't bad and I liked it enough to try it again.

To make a long story short - after the third cock I was like, yeah, I do enjoy sucking cock.

But I also still enjoyed everything about women. Therefore, I am bisexual.

Almost the same for me. It was after I sucked my first cock, which I thoroughly enjoyed more than I could ever imagined... after I got over my nerves, which happened as soon as my tongue touched his pulsing head