Reactions to the BDSM community?

[the captians wench]

It's completely over most people's heads that a lot of times, it's not purely about the look externally to tightlacing or rubber or leather, but how it feels to the wearer.

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I gotta agree here. Other than the fact that a corset gives me even more cleavage than I already am well splied with, I'm probably not the best looking 20 something in a corset out there, but I could give a flying fuck. I started wearing corsets because I liked how they feel, the restraint and constriction of the garment, not to please anyone else.

The fact that my tops have all loved how I look in a corset is just cake.

 

[Homburg]

IMO everyone should, at least at first, be approached neutrally and as equals. If you then learn that their dynamic or role states that they should be approaches a different way, then adjust the way you approach them. And if I accidentally speak to some women who's dominant speaks for her, and they yell at me for doing the wrong thing, it's not me who is in the wrong. They should explain their dynamic to me and I'll respect it after I learn what it is. It is wrong of them to assume that I would have their same dynamic and so understand their rules right off the bat.

Abso-damned-lutely. I say "please" and "thank you" to the subbiest of submissive, and my "please" is not contrite. If I ask someone that I don't own to hand me something, I am asking.

And when I talk to someone that I don't know at an event, I speak to them as an equal, and make no assumptions about dynamic. Why should I? Their dynamic doesn't mean a thing to me, as I'm not part of it. I'll respect if to an extent, but I'm not going to go out of my way to do so.

Sorry, but I won't call you "Lord High Mucky-muck" just because your boi does. I'm not your boi. Nor will I call you "slave cumsucker" just because your master does. I'm not your master.

 

[HarlotMinx]

Abso-damned-lutely. I say "please" and "thank you" to the subbiest of submissive, and my "please" is not contrite. If I ask someone that I don't own to hand me something, I am asking.

And when I talk to someone that I don't know at an event, I speak to them as an equal, and make no assumptions about dynamic. Why should I? Their dynamic doesn't mean a thing to me, as I'm not part of it. I'll respect if to an extent, but I'm not going to go out of my way to do so.

Sorry, but I won't call you "Lord High Mucky-muck" just because your boi does. I'm not your boi. Nor will I call you "slave cumsucker" just because your master does. I'm not your master.

I'm soooooo calling mistress Lord High Mucky-muck for the duration of this upcoming event.