WillowPuss
serene in submission
- Joined
- May 25, 2002
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Goodness ... I have only just found this gem.
Many people are amazed that R and I have been married for over 25 years ... and ask us how we still seem to be so much 'in love' - not just going through the motions.
Ours was not always a D/s relationship ... or rather it was - but W/we didn't know it. (let me try and explain that). It was only about a year ago that W/we discovered what we liked and did had a name. Once we found that and did a little more research .... BINGO - a strong partnership/marriage became even more so.
We have had a few arguments (about 4, I think) and all through not communication properly.
For me ... a strong relationship must be built on openness, honesty, communication ... and a generous helping on being able to adapt and bend slightly.
Many people are amazed that R and I have been married for over 25 years ... and ask us how we still seem to be so much 'in love' - not just going through the motions.
Ours was not always a D/s relationship ... or rather it was - but W/we didn't know it. (let me try and explain that). It was only about a year ago that W/we discovered what we liked and did had a name. Once we found that and did a little more research .... BINGO - a strong partnership/marriage became even more so.
We have had a few arguments (about 4, I think) and all through not communication properly.
For me ... a strong relationship must be built on openness, honesty, communication ... and a generous helping on being able to adapt and bend slightly.