Sensual intellect

[Jasmine12345]

For the OP and all the lovers in this thread

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[3holeinstall]

Absolutely, and you know what kills me is you have a lovely intelligent conversation with a man on here and then you move off-site and they turn into this raging libido and forget what it was that got them offsite to begin with.

 

[OSGAMR]

I think a man who is witty and intelligent is so sexy. If he is able to carry on a conversation about things other than sexual things the sex will happen, trust me. I just want some substance behind that sex. I have mindless toys to get me off, I don't need a mindless man. LOL

 

[drouter]

To be admired as being attractive and even intellectual does not happen in a vacuum. It takes a coming together of minds with similiar thoughts and desires...a deep focus...willingness in one's character and the ability to transcend borders seen and unseen.

These minds are all around us.....we just have to be observant and open

 

[Darkweather]

I think a man who is witty and intelligent is so sexy. If he is able to carry on a conversation about things other than sexual things the sex will happen, trust me. I just want some substance behind that sex. I have mindless toys to get me off, I don't need a mindless man. LOL

ah yes, but until they make toys that can take the rubbish out, you're stuck with them!

 

[OSGAMR]

ah yes, but until they make toys that can take the rubbish out, you're stuck with them!

Ah but I said a mindless man. I much prefer a man with a brain as sexy as his cock

 

[OSGAMR]

To be admired as being attractive and even intellectual does not happen in a vacuum. It takes a coming together of minds with similiar thoughts and desires...a deep focus...willingness in one's character and the ability to transcend borders seen and unseen.

These minds are all around us.....we just have to be observant and open

You have such a way with words.

 

[drouter]

Surely there are more sensually intellectual persons on this site...to express oneself here on what fascinates...and in what one finds attractive in interacting with others....has to be a pre-requisite for improved communication and sensual pleasure. "A good mind is a terrible thing to waste"

 

[OSGAMR]

You are so right. The mind is an important erogenous zone.

 

[LoneMilf]

Surely there are more sensually intellectual persons on this site...to express oneself here on what fascinates...and in what one finds attractive in interacting with others....has to be a pre-requisite for improved communication and sensual pleasure. "A good mind is a terrible thing to waste"

Isn't that usually followed by "..and a dirty one even more so" ?

 

[OSGAMR]

Isn't that usually followed by "..and a dirty one even more so" ?

No not always, sexual arousal isn't dirty unless you make it that way. Nothing dirty about two people enjoying each other in every way.... at least IMO. What say you all the followers of this forum?

 

[Seokrocks]

No not always, sexual arousal isn't dirty unless you make it that way. Nothing dirty about two people enjoying each other in every way.... at least IMO. What say you all the followers of this forum?

I could not agree more! Our bizarre association of sexuality and sensuality is one of the most tragic aspects of American culture. Shaming what should be one of life’s most uplifting aspects is terrible.

 

[mobleedzblue]

No not always, sexual arousal isn't dirty unless you make it that way. Nothing dirty about two people enjoying each other in every way.... at least IMO. What say you all the followers of this forum?

I totally agree. In my mind, it's much the same as the difference between making love and fucking.

 

[OSGAMR]

We may be a small group on Lit, but I bet we have the best sex….

 

[OSGAMR]

Omg! I have graduated from virgin to experienced lol

 

[Jasmine12345]

No not always, sexual arousal isn't dirty unless you make it that way. Nothing dirty about two people enjoying each other in every way.... at least IMO. What say you all the followers of this forum?

I also wonder why many people use the word filthy. sounds awful

 

[RainyWetDayGuy]

Omg! I have graduated from virgin to experienced lol

Congratulations upon your promotion.

 

[Lucien_Al]

I totally agree. In my mind, it's much the same as the difference between making love and fucking.

While I agree 100% with you, there is always a time and place for both, provided the expectations are aligned.

 

[RainyWetDayGuy]

While I agree 100% with you, there is always a time and place for both, provided the expectations are aligned.

Yes, expectations and desires being aligned is more important isn't it than one flavour, style or kink above another?

 

[Lucien_Al]

Yes, expectations and desires being aligned is more important isn't it than one flavour, style or kink above another?

exactly.

 

[OSGAMR]

I also wonder why many people use the word filthy. sounds awful

Maybe they are.... lol

It does sound awful

 

[OSGAMR]

Congratulations upon your promotion.

Thank you!!! I feel so special! LOL

 

[OSGAMR]

While I agree 100% with you, there is always a time and place for both, provided the expectations are aligned.

I couldn't agree more. Variety really is the spice of life. One position, one speed, or mood results in dissatisfaction. Mixing it up is more conducive to a happier sex life in my humble opinion.

 

[Dancingflamengoals]

I enjoy intelligent conversations and to enjoy good company.
I am jack of all trades so I can keep up with many good conversations and am well read. I am a switch but I can be submissive to only some guys .

 

[triptoceylon]

I enjoy intelligent conversations and to enjoy good company.
I am jack of all trades so I can keep up with many good conversations and am well read. I am a switch but I can be submissive to only some guys .

Exactly -- it's the intelligent conversation that keeps you engaged. Much like tasting coq au vin for the first time, the richness of flavors has you coming back to try it again and figure out the nuances of such a simple dish.