Sensual intellect

[RainyWetDayGuy]

It is quite interesting to see this thread grow with it's many contributions. It reinforces what i think most of us contributing to it know.... that indeed when a mind is fully utilized...when it is allowed to pursue it's natural path...to question...to wonder....to dream....rather than be cornered/directed.... it can come to realizations that confound many predictive thoughts. Those possibilities are endless...and for those of us who are brave enough to understand this and pursue this avenue...invariably they are rewarded with increased knowledge...insight...satisfaction...and even passion. I look forward to continued reading of the thoughts of others in this mental exercise.

Questioning, wondering, dreaming and all underpinned by an openness (as you say a mind allowed to pursue its natural path) that makes possible discoveries, alone and shared, that would otherwise not see the light of day.

 

[pollock0]

I've greatly enjoyed reading this thread and find myself in agreement with many of you. The attraction HAS to be mental as well as physical, perhaps even more than physical. The conversations on non-sexual topics are just as important.

 

[OSGAMR]

The exact rreason I didn't suggest a colloquial term

Now boys, let’s not sully this thread with talk of toilets lol

 

[OSGAMR]

I've greatly enjoyed reading this thread and find myself in agreement with many of you. The attraction HAS to be mental as well as physical, perhaps even more than physical. The conversations on non-sexual topics are just as important.

So glad you found us…I love seeing the thread grow. @obsidiantales started this lovely thread.

 

[RainyWetDayGuy]

So glad you found us…I love seeing the thread grow. @obsidiantales started this lovely thread.

It feels like a good thread to be a part of doesn't it?

 

[Vivacious_in_the_TxHills]

Who else finds a woman reading a book at the library or at the coffee shops just so intensely sensual?

Is she just as sensual when reading a book over a glass of wine in a restaurant or airport bar? Asking for a friend.

 

[DesperatelySeeking]

Is she just as sensual when reading a book over a glass of wine in a restaurant or airport bar? Asking for a friend.

I'm not who you were replying to but yes

 

[drouter]

Is she just as sensual when reading a book over a glass of wine in a restaurant or airport bar? Asking for a friend.

Interesting perspective!.....It does beg one to ask if it is the reading of the book that makes that scenario so sensual.....or the immediate environment that elicits same? I am not sure if there is a correct or incorrect answer to this....what i do know is that each one of us will see it in their own unique way.

As i have stated before...when a mind is allowed to breathe without restrictions...the variables are endless. I would like to think there are a few more attributes that has to be taken into consideration from reading the question.....physical presence...demeanor...projected inner confidence...the type/style of dress.. etc.

The mind is indeed a living...sensual...mass of nerve endings.... that humanity has yet to fully explore... and in so doing put to task/challenge... in a manner that is fully appreciative of it vast capabilities and potential.

 

[Jasmine12345]

Sensuality is the bigger picture that covers sexuality under its extensive erotic power. Sensuality lights the fire for sexuality to take place. We don't even have to let sex be in command, for sensuality can be good enough to be enough. One could enjoy sensuality just about anywhere anytime alone, but one needs a suitable partner to have sex with at a right time and a right place.

 

[OSGAMR]

It feels like a good thread to be a part of doesn't it?

Yes it does.

 

[OSGAMR]

Sensuality is the bigger picture that covers sexuality under its extensive erotic power. Sensuality lights the fire for sexuality to take place. We don't even have to let sex be in command, for sensuality can be good enough to be enough. One could enjoy sensuality just about anywhere anytime alone, but one needs a suitable partner to have sex with at a right time and a right place.

So well said Jasmine. Sensuality is the key.

 

[BellaBestia]

My personal litmus test in conversations is the level of flirtatious amusing but respectful banter. Standard in Old Hollywood films I haven’t seen or heard it since Moonlighting went off the air. If the man I’m talking to can give good banter his attractiveness increases,

 

[DesperatelySeeking]

My personal litmus test in conversations is the level of flirtatious amusing but respectful banter. Standard in Old Hollywood films I haven’t seen or heard it since Moonlighting went off the air. If the man I’m talking to can give good banter his attractiveness increases,

You had me at "Moonlighting."

 

[OSGAMR]

My personal litmus test in conversations is the level of flirtatious amusing but respectful banter. Standard in Old Hollywood films I haven’t seen or heard it since Moonlighting went off the air. If the man I’m talking to can give good banter his attractiveness increases,

So totally agree. That banter is so important. However like most things some men start out well and then end up forgetting what attracted you to them first and just start talking about sex all the time. Why can’t you have both?

 

[Play2nite]

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[Celticlight]

Like many others, I'm really glad this exists and it's been a delight to read

So totally agree. That banter is so important. However like most things some men start out well and then end up forgetting what attracted you to them first and just start talking about sex all the time. Why can’t you have both?

And on this, it's interesting. I daresay you get people on here who are smart and charming, but still not actually interested in anything more meaningful. Therefore they can certainly 'play the role' (and can do so patiently, at least at first), but it's with a.. well, a much more carnal goal in mind. And over time I suspect they're less worried about playing the role quite as patiently as they used to.

 

[RainyWetDayGuy]

So totally agree. That banter is so important. However like most things some men start out well and then end up forgetting what attracted you to them first and just start talking about sex all the time. Why can’t you have both?

Banter really is important, it's having space to breath, to relax, to be, without agenda or goals, just letting the flow go where it will.

 

[spunkyE]

I luv reading this thread. The most important thing in any relationship is the intellectual. I have found finding that in real life is hampered by my shyness but online being able to have a guy lose control because of my words is the most arousing emotion.

Finding that relationship that is dual sided is so hard to find. The feeling when you do (it's been a well). The feeling of anticipation when the chime goes off knowing it's him can make or break a day. Whether it's a naughty note or not. It's the greatest.

I think the rain drove me to respond this morning and mental boredom. Have a good one everyone!

Spunkye

 

[Jasmine12345]

Regardless of what we want, just sex? or ?

Here's what Eckhart Tolle said,
" It’s Ok to desire, but not from a sense of wanting or expecting something, but from passion, joyous energy
and spirit for dealing with the situation…....There's a difference between enjoying desire and wanting to be satisfied. "

 

[OSGAMR]

Like many others, I'm really glad this exists and it's been a delight to read

And on this, it's interesting. I daresay you get people on here who are smart and charming, but still not actually interested in anything more meaningful. Therefore they can certainly 'play the role' (and can do so patiently, at least at first), but it's with a.. well, a much more carnal goal in mind. And over time I suspect they're less worried about playing the role quite as patiently as they used to.

I would agree, but I do enjoy a conversation and not just what are you wearing. That gets old very quickly.

 

[OSGAMR]

I luv reading this thread. The most important thing in any relationship is the intellectual. I have found finding that in real life is hampered by my shyness but online being able to have a guy lose control because of my words is the most arousing emotion.

Finding that relationship that is dual sided is so hard to find. The feeling when you do (it's been a well). The feeling of anticipation when the chime goes off knowing it's him can make or break a day. Whether it's a naughty note or not. It's the greatest.

I think the rain drove me to respond this morning and mental boredom. Have a good one everyone!

Spunkye

Exactly, someone who gets you intellectually and sexually is the best. And it is exactly like you said, getting that notification makes your day because they are stimulating your mind and your body. It gets boring very quickly if there is nothing else.

 

[Ajjay_Annita]

Need to learn lot of things... After knowing this thread

 

[Tweedledude]

I think a man who is witty and intelligent is so sexy. If he is able to carry on a conversation about things other than sexual things the sex will happen, trust me. I just want some substance behind that sex. I have mindless toys to get me off, I don't need a mindless man. LOL

A person capable of taking either a current or scientific ideal and express their ideas concerning it clearly and concisely will capture my attention completely

 

[OSGAMR]

Regardless of what we want, just sex? or ?

Here's what Eckhart Tolle said,
" It’s Ok to desire, but not from a sense of wanting or expecting something, but from passion, joyous energy
and spirit for dealing with the situation…....There's a difference between enjoying desire and wanting to be satisfied. "

Wise words indeed

A person capable of taking either a current or scientific ideal and express their ideas concerning it clearly and concisely will capture my attention completely

Care to give and example? I must say I am intrigued.

 

[Tweedledude]

Wise words indeed

Care to give and example? I must say I am intrigued.

For instance what are we learning from the JWST and how that may or may not affect the direction of cosmology.

Or perhaps even politics from a evidential perspective vrs the standard emotional basis that people usually engage in that discussion.

Or even the above references quote:
Here's what Eckhart Tolle said,
" It’s Ok to desire, but not from a sense of wanting or expecting something, but from passion, joyous energy
and spirit for dealing with the situation…....There's a difference between enjoying desire and wanting to be satisfied. ". What is he saying and how does it affect our current relationships?

Or being able to generally converse and appreciate a point of view that you may not agree with without an emotional response.

A immense amount of possibilities