Sex Club Experiences : would you go back

I went a couple times in my early 20s with my gf at the time. We met an older couple there in their mid 40s. My gf was shy and a bit hesitant. I watched her suck his cock. He must have been in heaven having such a young beautiful woman sucking his cock! I enjoyed it very much. We returned there a couple of times meeting the same couple there. Each time I watched her suck his cock. A couple times I fucked her while she sucked him, an other time she watched me get my cock sucked by his wife while she sucked his cock.
Did your gf ever fuck the guy? Did you ever fuck his wife?
 
We had a couple other experiences with other couples. It was usually at their places. My gf at the time was a little hesitant to play with other couples, so we kept it at swapping oral only. I loved watching her suck other guys cocks as their wives or girlfriends sucked mine. Once when she was a little reluctant or shy, the gf pushed her head down on her boyfriend’s cock. That was unbelievably arousing.
 
We had a couple other experiences with other couples. It was usually at their places. My gf at the time was a little hesitant to play with other couples, so we kept it at swapping oral only. I loved watching her suck other guys cocks as their wives or girlfriends sucked mine. Once when she was a little reluctant or shy, the gf pushed her head down on her boyfriend’s cock. That was unbelievably arousing.
Damn, that is pretty hot. The other gf really wanted her to suck that thing!
 
Our first experience at a club was back in 2017 and we both enjoyed it a lot but much preferred those gatherings with already established friends. So last fall another couple and us decided to spend a weekend in the BIG city and went back to that same club on Saturday night.

What a change in just a few years. The club hadn't changed in appearance but the people attending were so much younger than before. Then I realized that I'm not getting any younger!! 😂

Anyhow, it was nice to see them having a good time in an environment that is safer than those crazy bars where trouble always seems to abound.

There were plenty of us "older folks" there for us to mix and mingle with and we had a real good time.

I might also add a note to single men and that is the clubs in our area of the country have limitations on the number of singles that can enter and they must be paid members and scheduled for attendance in advance. And yes, be prepared to pay more than couples or single ladies.
 
Our first experience at a club was back in 2017 and we both enjoyed it a lot but much preferred those gatherings with already established friends. So last fall another couple and us decided to spend a weekend in the BIG city and went back to that same club on Saturday night.

What a change in just a few years. The club hadn't changed in appearance but the people attending were so much younger than before. Then I realized that I'm not getting any younger!! 😂

Anyhow, it was nice to see them having a good time in an environment that is safer than those crazy bars where trouble always seems to abound.

There were plenty of us "older folks" there for us to mix and mingle with and we had a real good time.

I might also add a note to single men and that is the clubs in our area of the country have limitations on the number of singles that can enter and they must be paid members and scheduled for attendance in advance. And yes, be prepared to pay more than couples or single ladies.
Sounds like our club experience.
 
My ex and I went to a sex club a few years back. It was a hell of an experience. Most of the men there were straight creepers though, so that was a turn off, but we got very lucky and found a hot couple that we had a foursome with in one of the private rooms there and also the next night back at our hotel. At our hotel, the four of us had even more time and toys at our disposal to have fun. My ex was effectively “air sealed” by the three of us. She rode me cowgirl while the guy fucked her mouth standing over me and the girl fucked her ass with a strapon. To this day one of the hottest experiences I’ve had.
 
The first time I went to a sex/swing club was while on vacation in a different city.
We entered the club and went down the stairs to an open lounge area. Porn was playing on all the tv’s. There was a dance pole but nobody danced.
We did see couples come and go but didn’t make the connection
After awhile we thought that this was really bad.
We went back to the entrance and found another door to the main room. When we entered, we were hit with about 25 naked couples in all forms of sex! I was blown away. We got naked and stuffed our clothing a tiny locker, grabbed a towel and looked around.
It’s hard to describe but hallways and rooms were divided from floor to ceiling by shear drapes Large foam beds were made and covered with a top sheet. Each bed could hold about 4 to 6 couples.
We made our way around and watched all sort of sex and sometimes I was just inches away.
There was one round bed about waist high. A couple was in the 69 position with the husband on the bottom. She was stroking and sucking him. But also offering his cock to any lady that waked by. I watched the women in front of me give him a quick suck. When I came up to her, she did the same and offered his cock to me. I thought to myself “hell ya” , I grabbed his cock and sucked in it. I think she saw my enthusiasm and joined me sucking him
We noticed that the “ bed” spots were filling up so we found an opening and jumped in. The couples next to us were just inches away on both sides. I could look right over and watch them fucking or sucking, hear them moan, watch their facial expressions,,, it was hot.
We ended up fucking next to this couple.
At some point we scooted to the edge of the bed, my feet ere at the edge and my knees up and spread. My husband on his knees and his cock in my mouth.
My pussy was on display for all the couples walking by. Eventually a couple stopped to watch us. Then I felt a hand on my thigh, I didn’t move. The hand went lower, I spread my legs wider. And then boom, I felt fingers on my pussy I was rocking my hips with their fingers which encouraged them further
I watched as the woman started to kiss my inner thighs. I pushed my hips up toward her.
Next I felt her tongue on my clit and fingers in my pussy. Unfortunately she didn’t finish what she started🙂↕️
We had a few more experiences and went back the next night!
A
 
The first time I went to a sex/swing club was while on vacation in a different city.
We entered the club and went down the stairs to an open lounge area. Porn was playing on all the tv’s. There was a dance pole but nobody danced.
We did see couples come and go but didn’t make the connection
After awhile we thought that this was really bad.
We went back to the entrance and found another door to the main room. When we entered, we were hit with about 25 naked couples in all forms of sex! I was blown away. We got naked and stuffed our clothing a tiny locker, grabbed a towel and looked around.
It’s hard to describe but hallways and rooms were divided from floor to ceiling by shear drapes Large foam beds were made and covered with a top sheet. Each bed could hold about 4 to 6 couples.
We made our way around and watched all sort of sex and sometimes I was just inches away.
There was one round bed about waist high. A couple was in the 69 position with the husband on the bottom. She was stroking and sucking him. But also offering his cock to any lady that waked by. I watched the women in front of me give him a quick suck. When I came up to her, she did the same and offered his cock to me. I thought to myself “hell ya” , I grabbed his cock and sucked in it. I think she saw my enthusiasm and joined me sucking him
We noticed that the “ bed” spots were filling up so we found an opening and jumped in. The couples next to us were just inches away on both sides. I could look right over and watch them fucking or sucking, hear them moan, watch their facial expressions,,, it was hot.
We ended up fucking next to this couple.
At some point we scooted to the edge of the bed, my feet ere at the edge and my knees up and spread. My husband on his knees and his cock in my mouth.
My pussy was on display for all the couples walking by. Eventually a couple stopped to watch us. Then I felt a hand on my thigh, I didn’t move. The hand went lower, I spread my legs wider. And then boom, I felt fingers on my pussy I was rocking my hips with their fingers which encouraged them further
I watched as the woman started to kiss my inner thighs. I pushed my hips up toward her.
Next I felt her tongue on my clit and fingers in my pussy. Unfortunately she didn’t finish what she started🙂↕️
We had a few more experiences and went back the next night!
A
That is such a hot experience! 🔥😍
 
I posted on this thread earlier, as did my husband. I thought I'd throw in another two cents worth, since spending a fun weekend with some close friends, friends who were actually people we would have never expected to be swingers and lived so very near to us.

Our first engagement in swapping was actually with my girlfriend and the man she had been introduced to by my husband, just a buddy. We all hung out as good friends by going out to dinner, movies and concerts. One night at our place while playing cards and with several drinks in us the subject came up as a joke, more or less, and in no time we were all naked on our bed having sex.

It was so crazy and after I sobered up I felt a little guilty and ashamed, but over time we did it with them several more times and got to be a lot of fun.

Months later John and I talked about doing it again so we did the club scene which wasn’t what we thought it should be. He signed up to two swing sites online which I laughed about as being a waste of time and money. I suppose he made contact with at least a dozen other men since that seemed to be the common thing. We only met with two couples and those meetings were just okay. Those folks were greater distances also.

During the lockdown when I was working from home I decided to look through the one website of his that seemed to have a greater selection of swingers in our area. I just happened to hit upon a couple where the wife seemed to make more frequent postings so I messaged her there. I wasn't about to talk to strange men!

Have you ever heard the term, “Swingers next door?”

Well after exchanging numbers with Cherry we chatted by text a bunch and I figured she was from near or in the same small community as us, but where exactly?

Finally we agreed to meet for dinner at a neutral location out of our city, so as not to be seen by anyone we knew but when I walked into the restaurant I spotted Cherry, not her real name, sitting at a table near the corner and OMG it was Cindy, the woman that lived a half mile away on the very country road we lived on!! And they were the couple we were to meet!!

I didn’t really know Cindy well but she had stopped by a couple times on her way to or from town when I was outside. A nice woman with rather big boobs and around my age. Chatty and giggled a lot too.

Well to skip all of that we had a fabulous dinner and conversation and afterwards at our house we had a fucking good time!! Damian was a frisky fellow and had great stamina and oral skills.

That one fun meeting led to meeting two couples that were their friends and I introduced my girlfriend and her man to the group. All of these people are within ten miles of us and the friendships we all share is so much better than anyone we ever met after driving a hundred miles to a club and dropping up to a hundred dollars there and the price of a hotel/motel room on top of that!

Over the years we had given a couple other clubs a try when we were on vacation but to us it never seemed to be our cup of tea. A one time meeting with strangers that lived so far away and never to be seen again.

The only real thing that appealed to me in the clubs was the chance to have other people watching me! The exhibitionist that I am!! Lol And maybe having another man hop right on after the last one was finished.

Oh, by the way condoms are required as is the house rule at all places we went to.

I know this is kind of long but the topic of the thread was about our experiences. That’s all this is whether, you agree or not. My suggestion, especially for those living in the great lakes region is to take a look around at a couple of those sites and you just might find out that the couple living right next door might also be swingers!!

I just decided to drop this tidbit since I'm home for the afternoon, kind of horny anticipating later today when Cindy and Damian are coming by for a swim and a cookout on the patio. It's been over a month with them and I'm ready!!

Done!!!
 
I posted on this thread earlier, as did my husband. I thought I'd throw in another two cents worth, since spending a fun weekend with some close friends, friends who were actually people we would have never expected to be swingers and lived so very near to us.

Our first engagement in swapping was actually with my girlfriend and the man she had been introduced to by my husband, just a buddy. We all hung out as good friends by going out to dinner, movies and concerts. One night at our place while playing cards and with several drinks in us the subject came up as a joke, more or less, and in no time we were all naked on our bed having sex.

It was so crazy and after I sobered up I felt a little guilty and ashamed, but over time we did it with them several more times and got to be a lot of fun.

Months later John and I talked about doing it again so we did the club scene which wasn’t what we thought it should be. He signed up to two swing sites online which I laughed about as being a waste of time and money. I suppose he made contact with at least a dozen other men since that seemed to be the common thing. We only met with two couples and those meetings were just okay. Those folks were greater distances also.

During the lockdown when I was working from home I decided to look through the one website of his that seemed to have a greater selection of swingers in our area. I just happened to hit upon a couple where the wife seemed to make more frequent postings so I messaged her there. I wasn't about to talk to strange men!

Have you ever heard the term, “Swingers next door?”

Well after exchanging numbers with Cherry we chatted by text a bunch and I figured she was from near or in the same small community as us, but where exactly?

Finally we agreed to meet for dinner at a neutral location out of our city, so as not to be seen by anyone we knew but when I walked into the restaurant I spotted Cherry, not her real name, sitting at a table near the corner and OMG it was Cindy, the woman that lived a half mile away on the very country road we lived on!! And they were the couple we were to meet!!

I didn’t really know Cindy well but she had stopped by a couple times on her way to or from town when I was outside. A nice woman with rather big boobs and around my age. Chatty and giggled a lot too.

Well to skip all of that we had a fabulous dinner and conversation and afterwards at our house we had a fucking good time!! Damian was a frisky fellow and had great stamina and oral skills.

That one fun meeting led to meeting two couples that were their friends and I introduced my girlfriend and her man to the group. All of these people are within ten miles of us and the friendships we all share is so much better than anyone we ever met after driving a hundred miles to a club and dropping up to a hundred dollars there and the price of a hotel/motel room on top of that!

Over the years we had given a couple other clubs a try when we were on vacation but to us it never seemed to be our cup of tea. A one time meeting with strangers that lived so far away and never to be seen again.

The only real thing that appealed to me in the clubs was the chance to have other people watching me! The exhibitionist that I am!! Lol And maybe having another man hop right on after the last one was finished.

Oh, by the way condoms are required as is the house rule at all places we went to.

I know this is kind of long but the topic of the thread was about our experiences. That’s all this is whether, you agree or not. My suggestion, especially for those living in the great lakes region is to take a look around at a couple of those sites and you just might find out that the couple living right next door might also be swingers!!

I just decided to drop this tidbit since I'm home for the afternoon, kind of horny anticipating later today when Cindy and Damian are coming by for a swim and a cookout on the patio. It's been over a month with them and I'm ready!!

Done!!!
Wow! Great experiences. Thanks for all the detail. I’m envious. Maybe you should write a few of these experiences as stories. I’d love to read the blow-by-blow 😍
 
I posted on this thread earlier, as did my husband. I thought I'd throw in another two cents worth, since spending a fun weekend with some close friends, friends who were actually people we would have never expected to be swingers and lived so very near to us.

Our first engagement in swapping was actually with my girlfriend and the man she had been introduced to by my husband, just a buddy. We all hung out as good friends by going out to dinner, movies and concerts. One night at our place while playing cards and with several drinks in us the subject came up as a joke, more or less, and in no time we were all naked on our bed having sex.

It was so crazy and after I sobered up I felt a little guilty and ashamed, but over time we did it with them several more times and got to be a lot of fun.

Months later John and I talked about doing it again so we did the club scene which wasn’t what we thought it should be. He signed up to two swing sites online which I laughed about as being a waste of time and money. I suppose he made contact with at least a dozen other men since that seemed to be the common thing. We only met with two couples and those meetings were just okay. Those folks were greater distances also.

During the lockdown when I was working from home I decided to look through the one website of his that seemed to have a greater selection of swingers in our area. I just happened to hit upon a couple where the wife seemed to make more frequent postings so I messaged her there. I wasn't about to talk to strange men!

Have you ever heard the term, “Swingers next door?”

Well after exchanging numbers with Cherry we chatted by text a bunch and I figured she was from near or in the same small community as us, but where exactly?

Finally we agreed to meet for dinner at a neutral location out of our city, so as not to be seen by anyone we knew but when I walked into the restaurant I spotted Cherry, not her real name, sitting at a table near the corner and OMG it was Cindy, the woman that lived a half mile away on the very country road we lived on!! And they were the couple we were to meet!!

I didn’t really know Cindy well but she had stopped by a couple times on her way to or from town when I was outside. A nice woman with rather big boobs and around my age. Chatty and giggled a lot too.

Well to skip all of that we had a fabulous dinner and conversation and afterwards at our house we had a fucking good time!! Damian was a frisky fellow and had great stamina and oral skills.

That one fun meeting led to meeting two couples that were their friends and I introduced my girlfriend and her man to the group. All of these people are within ten miles of us and the friendships we all share is so much better than anyone we ever met after driving a hundred miles to a club and dropping up to a hundred dollars there and the price of a hotel/motel room on top of that!

Over the years we had given a couple other clubs a try when we were on vacation but to us it never seemed to be our cup of tea. A one time meeting with strangers that lived so far away and never to be seen again.

The only real thing that appealed to me in the clubs was the chance to have other people watching me! The exhibitionist that I am!! Lol And maybe having another man hop right on after the last one was finished.

Oh, by the way condoms are required as is the house rule at all places we went to.

I know this is kind of long but the topic of the thread was about our experiences. That’s all this is whether, you agree or not. My suggestion, especially for those living in the great lakes region is to take a look around at a couple of those sites and you just might find out that the couple living right next door might also be swingers!!

I just decided to drop this tidbit since I'm home for the afternoon, kind of horny anticipating later today when Cindy and Damian are coming by for a swim and a cookout on the patio. It's been over a month with them and I'm ready!!

Done!!!
The exhibitionist part is the part me and my husband enjoy the most too and of course the voyeurism part obviously ,seeing all sorts of stuff really close in the flesh .totally understand where you are coming from
 
The exhibitionist part is the part me and my husband enjoy the most too and of course the voyeurism part obviously ,seeing all sorts of stuff really close in the flesh .totally understand where you are coming from
Us as well. We love the excitement watching other or eachother with someone else. We've tried clubs. Not our thing. But it's amazing we found couples we knew and now have great sexual relationships with them.
 
Wow! Great experiences. Thanks for all the detail. I’m envious. Maybe you should write a few of these experiences as stories. I’d love to read the blow-by-blow 😍
I've thought about it! Maybe a couple juicy fun times! 😉
The exhibitionist part is the part me and my husband enjoy the most too and of course the voyeurism part obviously ,seeing all sorts of stuff really close in the flesh .totally understand where you are coming from
Both watching and being watched brings increased pleasure to the experience for us. I'm glad you two experience it too.
Us as well. We love the excitement watching other or eachother with someone else. We've tried clubs. Not our thing. But it's amazing we found couples we knew and now have great sexual relationships with them.
I'm in agreement with you Dan and significant other!
 
Absolutely if I was younger. Went to one in Fort Lauderdale years ago a couple of times. It was crazy. Kind of Percy going at my age now.
It was a hell of an experience. And I missed several opportunities there I now regret.
 
My wife and I were into the Swing lifestyle in Atlanta in the early 2000’s. Back then, there were 3 to 4 known swing clubs that we visited many, many times, which was a lot of fun. I’ve watched her spread her legs and lips many times for other cocks, but I always reclaimed her before we went home for the night. That lasted for about 10 years until she decided she was finished with it all.
 
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