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Sex in to our 50's and 60's? You bet! :)

LMWM321 said:
It's urine. ..But the Kinky interpretation will be that it is some sort of magical lady-cum that science has not yet been able to fully explain. ..But it's urine. ;)
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Ahh look who's back! Given the fact that I ALWAYS urinate before any sexual activity including masturbation (I assume your urine is like mine: yellow and has the scent of urine, one we are all familiar with), we women who squirt must have a pair of bladders. Perhaps a more constructive way for you to base your opinion on would be to let your olfactory senses kick in, taste and indeed swallow both yourself from a pair of willing partners? And who said anything about it being "Kinky"? I fail to see what makes it kinky, and I believe the essential thing is for people to enjoy themselves whether alone or with a partner, and if "Kinky" is what you seek, there exist thousands of sites to visit. :) All the best in your adventures! :)
 
NightBirdNYC said:
"Kinky"? I fail to see what makes it kinky, and I believe the essential thing is for people to enjoy themselves whether alone or with a partner, and if "Kinky" is what you seek, there exist thousands of sites to visit.
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Well.. I'm not trying to Yuck other Peoples' Yum.... And to be clear, I don't see anything wrong with it at all - either doing it or enjoying watching itl! But the question asked was: "is it urine or some kind of female seminal fluid?" Which, to me, requires an accurate answer. Having worked in the healthcare industry for years and years, I have a thing for "keeping it real" and pushing back on misinformation. For example: my endless posts about the myth of dick size (that bigger is better) and BBC (the ugly, racist trope that Black men have bigger penises) etc.. It's not that I'm trying to ruin peoples' fun, it's just some myths are harmful. For example, telling young black men that to be average their dick should be 7" can lead to endless insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior. ..And while convincing women (and their partners) that SOME possess this secret sexual super power called "squirting" isn't quite as harmful it can still lead some to think there's something wrong with them if they don't do it.

As for what's being squirted, just ask an OBGYN and they'll tell you it's simply urine that is released when, either deliberately or not, the pelvic floor muscles are relaxed during sex. The fact that it's clear and tasteless just means the person was well hydrated.

I love sexual kinks, but I push back on misinformation.

We don't have to debate this here NightBird. You started this WONDERFUL thread about sex later in life so I'm happy to keep it to that :)
 
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So far as I am concerned the main aim of sex is to end up satisfied, a little tired, and with a slightly silly smile on one's face. No sexual athletics required for that, just a willing partner and a bit of sensitivity.
 
TheUKGent said:
I've just tipped over into my 50s (well, 51) and Mrs Gent is 53. Other than a bit of a blip for me earlier this year, I can safely sex that we're having more and better sex than I think we ever have. Long may it continue, and looking at the posts here, it will!
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Pretty much the same here ... and we're both 71 :love: !!!
 
As my name indicates, I really enjoy a mature lover, male OR female-or preferably both at the same time! Some of my most rewarding sexual experiences have been with lovers between 50-63! I'm 40, but have always appreciated an older MILF or DILF.
 
NightBirdNYC said:
As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .:)
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Always good to know that the fun doesn't stop just because of age! I've been chatting with a few people in their 60s on here and I have to say I've been pleasantly surprised how open they've been about sex and sexuality.
 
LMWM321 said:
Well.. I'm not trying to Yuck other Peoples' Yum.... And to be clear, I don't see anything wrong with it at all - either doing it or enjoying watching itl! But the question asked was: "is it urine or some kind of female seminal fluid?" Which, to me, requires an accurate answer. Having worked in the healthcare industry for years and years, I have a thing for "keeping it real" and pushing back on misinformation. For example: my endless posts about the myth of dick size (that bigger is better) and BBC (the ugly, racist trope that Black men have bigger penises) etc.. It's not that I'm trying to ruin peoples' fun, it's just some myths are harmful. For example, telling young black men that to be average their dick should be 7" can lead to endless insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior. ..And while convincing women (and their partners) that SOME possess this secret sexual super power called "squirting" isn't quite as harmful it can still lead some to think there's something wrong with them if they don't do it.

As for what's being squirted, just ask an OBGYN and they'll tell you it's simply urine that is released when, either deliberately or not, the pelvic floor muscles are relaxed during sex. The fact that it's clear and tasteless just means the person was well hydrated.

I love sexual kinks, but I push back on misinformation.

We don't have to debate this here NightBird. You started this WONDERFUL thread about sex later in life so I'm happy to keep it to that :)
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Hi there, and I hope you had a wonderful and libidinous Thanksgiving! :) While I agree that this needn't be debated here, I couldn't help noticing the following in you comment:

"It's not that I'm trying to ruin peoples' fun, it's just some myths are harmful. For example, telling young black men that to be average their dick should be 7" can lead to endless insecurity, anxiety and even toxic behavior. ..And while convincing women (and their partners) that SOME possess this secret sexual super power called "squirting" isn't quite as harmful it can still lead some to think there's something wrong with them if they don't do it.
As for what's being squirted, just ask an OBGYN and they'll tell you it's simply urine that is released when, either deliberately or not, the pelvic floor muscles are relaxed during sex. The fact that it's clear and tasteless just means the person was well hydrated."

When reading it, it occurred to me that, while intentional or not, your comment might well harken to the old "calling the kettle black". Your example of black people telling their young that their cocks should be 7" is foreign to me. I have many black friends, both male and female, and I have frankly never heard of such a comment. And while yes, the largest cock I've ever experience by far was one belonging to a black man (I wrote about it in my "stories" here on Lit), I wouldn't assume that his was representative of all any more than I would one of the well endowed Caucasian lovers I've had.

But I also believe that in constantly saying the squirting is simply peeing, you fall on your own sword in advancing the argument that causes damage as well: that we are simply peeing. As I said earlier, I ALWAYS urinate before any sexual activity, whether with a partner or alone. We all know what urine looks and smells like, and I can personally attest to the fact the minutes later, during masturbation or sex, my squirts don't resemble urine in any way, and I am no differently "hydrated" than anyone else. So in a way, I'd propose that you are doing the same thing you speak against when you mention that blanket statements do more harm than good.

All of my OBGYN's have been forthcoming (when I've asked questions over the years), in stating that there has has not been enough conclusive research on the subject, and that what research HAS been done often has contradicting conclusions. But what they all seem to agree on is "Don't worry about it as long as you and your partner(s) are finding fulfillment."
An interesting read (the links withing it as well) for those who are curious:
https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/13634607211041095

I'm glad to hear that you are into the occasional kink as well! :)

PS: this was made 15 minutes after peeing, while watching some good porn :)
xo's Ursula
https://vlix.io/video/b7f1006d605e9161946b/
 
Back to the question. Yes, even approaching our seventies we are still going strong. But we do have to make some concessions to age. We cant do all of the positions that we could in the past. And we are a little slower all around. But all in all very satisfying for both of us.
 
NightBirdNYC said:
Your example of black people telling their young that their cocks should be 7" is foreign to me. I have many black friends, both male and female, and I have frankly never heard of such a comment.
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I didn't say it was necessarily black people who were promulgating this idea. Indeed, the myth reverberates throughout all popular culture - it's everywhere. And thanks to porn monetizing the myth, it seems like it's here to stay even though the most credible studies of penis size flatly refute it. As an aside, if black men truly had larger dicks, wouldn't black women have deeper vaginas with larger openings? Curiously, you never hear about that.

The origin of the BBC trope belongs to white men who wanted to keep their women from cavorting with black men so they spread lies that they are hyper sexual brutes who can't be trusted alone with them. The lies about their penises being huge was a part of the effort to dehumanize them and instill fear in white women. These days, the myth has been morphed into a kink that is monetized by the porn industry. The fact that so many black porn actors do indeed have a huge cock is merely a reflection of the industry's racist selection criteria. A white guy wanting a job in Porn needs to be reasonably handsome and have a big cock and will be considered for a wide range of Porn roles. But if you're a black man, your cock has to be gigantic AND and your work will be limited mostly to BBC "Kink" roles. Ugh.

As to the squirting thing... Well, everyone is free to make their own judgments. But when you consider that Doctors can do in-utero heart surgery on a fetus a mere 20 weeks after gestation, the idea that they are stumped by vaginal squirting seems far fetched to me.

Anyway.... I'll say no more about this here, I don't want to derail things. Your thread is about sex after 50 and it's great! People need to know that sex doesn't have to end w/ aging, including the arrival of menopause.
 
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Thanks Nightbirdnyc, as I followed your posts to a new seam of fascinating fellow travellers here on Lit. I am now 52 and although things are definitely getting irregular I certainly have not (yet?) noticed any decline in my libido. Being determinedly single, sex with partners is not an assured thing. 50 and 60 are not magical numbers. I feel no less enthusiastic or adventurous about sex than I did 10 years ago. Oral, vaginal and anal all offer the pleasures that they did in the past-I still get as wet as always when turned on although I have always needed plenty of lube for anal and still do. What I do notice is that my lovers, who have aged out with me, do not have the stamina that they used to. Most of my partners are my age. or older and they are definitely "one and done" sort of guys. Nothing wrong or strange about that but if you are both to enjoy yourselves then you need to change things up a bit. I can still orgasm 3 times or so over an evening but if we are both to remain interested there can be no early evening orgasms for my partner. 10 years ago it never occurred to me that an early evening orgasm meant there was nothing to follow-now I definitely have to think about that. Solution? Early evening puss licking followed by more serious fucking to end the evening-that way we both enjoy the whole evening. Lots of tales to tell on this subject but this will do for now:)
 
paulapossiter said:
Thanks Nightbirdnyc, as I followed your posts to a new seam of fascinating fellow travellers here on Lit. I am now 52 and although things are definitely getting irregular I certainly have not (yet?) noticed any decline in my libido. Being determinedly single, sex with partners is not an assured thing. 50 and 60 are not magical numbers. I feel no less enthusiastic or adventurous about sex than I did 10 years ago. Oral, vaginal and anal all offer the pleasures that they did in the past-I still get as wet as always when turned on although I have always needed plenty of lube for anal and still do. What I do notice is that my lovers, who have aged out with me, do not have the stamina that they used to. Most of my partners are my age. or older and they are definitely "one and done" sort of guys. Nothing wrong or strange about that but if you are both to enjoy yourselves then you need to change things up a bit. I can still orgasm 3 times or so over an evening but if we are both to remain interested there can be no early evening orgasms for my partner. 10 years ago it never occurred to me that an early evening orgasm meant there was nothing to follow-now I definitely have to think about that. Solution? Early evening puss licking followed by more serious fucking to end the evening-that way we both enjoy the whole evening. Lots of tales to tell on this subject but this will do for now:)
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Thank YOU for the thoughtful and frank post! I agree with you! My hubby thankfully hasn’t changed too much over the years, yet! If anything his tongue has become more attuned to what makes me cum, which is lovely 🥰 🫦👅💦💦💦
 
paulapossiter said:
Thanks Nightbirdnyc, as I followed your posts to a new seam of fascinating fellow travellers here on Lit. I am now 52 and although things are definitely getting irregular I certainly have not (yet?) noticed any decline in my libido. Being determinedly single, sex with partners is not an assured thing. 50 and 60 are not magical numbers. I feel no less enthusiastic or adventurous about sex than I did 10 years ago. Oral, vaginal and anal all offer the pleasures that they did in the past-I still get as wet as always when turned on although I have always needed plenty of lube for anal and still do. What I do notice is that my lovers, who have aged out with me, do not have the stamina that they used to. Most of my partners are my age. or older and they are definitely "one and done" sort of guys. Nothing wrong or strange about that but if you are both to enjoy yourselves then you need to change things up a bit. I can still orgasm 3 times or so over an evening but if we are both to remain interested there can be no early evening orgasms for my partner. 10 years ago it never occurred to me that an early evening orgasm meant there was nothing to follow-now I definitely have to think about that. Solution? Early evening puss licking followed by more serious fucking to end the evening-that way we both enjoy the whole evening. Lots of tales to tell on this subject but this will do for now:)
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…and of course masturbation is still a lovely pastime 😍😈🍆💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/bdcad8e7300e202e7caa/
 
I am at work but this thread is distracting me. Maybe another post will stop the itch. It has made me contemplate on how my tastes have changed over the years, what I love about being more mature and if there is anything I miss. So here are a couple of thoughts:

-I no longer seek out new lovers preferring to get my enjoyment with people I know and know me. No awkwardness, you know what you each like right down to the where, when how of good sex. Knowing what sort of fuck-talk will send him over the edge I particularly cherish.

-At this time in my life sex is like a game of tennis with a good friend you know how it will play out and know how to respond to each others moves but that does not detract from the mutual enjoyment in fact it makes it more fun.

-There is one thing I miss if I think back to my thirties. It is the volume and power of cum I can generate. I was and still am a bit of a cum queen. I love the stuff, inside me, all over my body, trickling down my thighs as it leaks from my cunt, or rolling my tongue in it after sucking him off. The whole thing. Maybe it's me or maybe it is just age, lovers can’t shoot a load like they used to.

-However, I see a lot more patience and obvious enjoyment from my lovers from eating me out. A lot more attention to me, and less on self-satisfaction. That is a definite bonus. My orgasms ( which I have always mostly had from oral or frigging myself) are longer lasting and more intense than 20 years ago.

PS don't get me wrong here-lovers I do have; lots? Not really.
 
NightBirdNYC said:
As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .:)
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Absolutely has gotten caught as we’ve gotten older and of course we want more spice so that includes threesome, bisexuality and interracial along with other other things
 
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