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Sex in to our 50's and 60's? You bet! :)

KentLondon said:
I hope you ate that banana after putting on such a wonderful show with it. You need to keep up your energy to perform like that!
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Actually anything I use under the rubric of Fruits and Veggies always get served to unsuspecting dinner guests in baked dishes or salads. This very girthy zucchini was one of them... :) :devilish: 🍆😉👄👅💦💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/17f3cb42b26605b9ae8e/
 
NightBirdNYC said:
Actually anything I use under the rubric of Fruits and Veggies always get served to unsuspecting dinner guests in baked dishes or salads. This very girthy zucchini was one of them... :) :devilish: 🍆😉👄👅💦💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/17f3cb42b26605b9ae8e/
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Haha. I use cucumbers the same way. After using them for my own private purposes I wash, peel and slice them for salads. No-one is the wiser. Just thought a psychiatrist might have a field day with me slicing and dicing a freshly inserted penis substitute. 💋💋
 
Travel for work do most of ours is centered around the weekends. Both wish it was more often but satisfied with each other after 30 plus years.
 
paulapossiter said:
Haha. I use cucumbers the same way. After using them for my own private purposes I wash, peel and slice them for salads. No-one is the wiser. Just thought a psychiatrist might have a field day with me slicing and dicing a freshly inserted penis substitute. 💋💋
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Good one! And our culinary talents seem to mesh well! :) I don't wash them though :devilish: 🍌🍆
https://vlix.io/video/cb2651801455c86d78f2/
 
NightBirdNYC said:
Actually anything I use under the rubric of Fruits and Veggies always get served to unsuspecting dinner guests in baked dishes or salads. This very girthy zucchini was one of them... :) :devilish: 🍆😉👄👅💦💦💦
https://vlix.io/video/17f3cb42b26605b9ae8e/
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I love the home-made marinade you are soaking it in!
I love it when my wife sucks me off and gently slides a medium-sized, well lubricated carrot you know where until I come in her mouth!
Like you we don't like seeing good food go to waste so she will usually wash it, peel it and make a carrot and coriander soup, then serve it up to guests!
 
I’m far kinkier than her but she is adventurous wearing more lingerie, using toys and mutual masturbating.
Next step is to show her my anal prostate toy and asking her to use it while sucking my cock.
 
Have any of you tried swinging? I'm trying to get my wife interested...just wondering if anyone else has tried it. Our sex life has become non-existent post menopause due to her lack of interest, dryness, a little extra weight. I just want her to realize that she's still hot... hoping that going to a club when they have sexy silver night's might get her interested again.
 
we have found out the key to good sex at this point in our life is male orgasm control.

I’ve always been able to fuck for a long time anyway, but not cumming and long term edging makes me ridiculously horny and super attentive to my wife’s needs.

At this stage in our life (she is 67, and I am 57), her pleasure is my pleasure.

Like the poster above, we have talked about swinging, but it’s a no go from my wife’s perspective. We are nudists, however, and have a pretty active sex life.
 
To those who think it's inevitable that women eventually lose all interest in sex because of menopause - think again.

Talk to people who live or work in retirement communities and you'll learn a fascinating fact; many of the women in their 60's & 70's, who begin dating after losing their husbands, experience a renewed interest in sex - an interest they didn't have with their husband.

Why does this happen?

Perhaps it's because their libido is re-ignited by being courted by men who are determined to impress them; men who are nicely dressed and groomed, who attend to their hygiene and mind their manners. Men who won't pick their teeth or their nose in front of them, and who brush their teeth before kissing them, etc.. And men who don't talk about their daily bowel movements, or sit on the toilet with the bathroom door wide open.

It's not that these women didn't deeply love their deceased husbands - of course they did! But maybe their husbands became complacent long ago and took their wive's attraction toward them for granted - resulting in lapses in personal care that, bit by bit, eroded their wives sexual interest in them.

As I see it, if you want sex to be "like it used to be" then treat your wife "like it used to be" when you were trying to impress her with good manners, personal appearance, and conversation. And tell her she's beautiful every day of your life and fucking mean it.
 
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LMWM321 said:
Totally agree. ..Indeed, our sex life has never been better. Why? Because the challenges of my wife's menopause - e.g., decreased libido (at least initially), vaginal dryness, hot flashes, body-image issues, etc.. - eventually led us to a Sex Therapist who helped us to be more intentional about the kind of sex we were having...

Our most important adjustment has been to understand that while orgasms are nice, they are NOT the goal of sex - especially as you get older. If you make orgasms the goal, you'll often be disappointed and that will add a sense of anxiety and apprehension to the next time you have sex - which is not conducive to enjoying intimacy. However, if you make it your goal to simply enjoy being naked, close, and tender with one another, you'll NEVER fail. These days our "Orgasm" success rate is a lowly 20%. But our "Enjoyed that we fucked!" success rate is a staggering 100%.

Menopause is an asshole, there's no doubting that. ..But older years bring some positives too.. ..Not stressing over careers, not stressing about the kids' grades/activities/ sports, our own parents, etc.. With all that behind us we now have the head space and bandwidth to focus more on sex. ..And since new health challenges are always just around the corner at our age, we are determined to wring all the sex we can from our current good health. ...We're back to doing it 2-3x / week or more. And wayyy kinkier stuff too. ..Back in my 30's or 40's I would have NEVER imagined we'd be so sexually active in our late 50's and early 60's.
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Have to agree with you menopause was tough , he did remind me of our vows and the marriage contract we sign on our wedding day . I if one of us can’t provide fisical relief, no matter the reasons, then other arrangements had to be made . He bought it up at the end of my worst 3 years,Telling me it was 18 months since we had sex and 7 months since I had done more than kiss him on the way out the door . So I went to the doctor , and things improved but I wasn’t into it and he could tell , so we agreed that he could use professional services, the girl would be my choice and I would hand her the money. This was his requested. Over the next year my body started coming back to life and my drive increased.We learned how to manage my and our discomfort ,about 18 months after I got him a hooker we were invited to a party . And I found myself looking forward to it . Getting waxed and my hair done , I couldn’t do what I used to yet but I was going to look good lol . That’s when I realised how much I liked sex and how much I missed it . Now my sex drive is hire than ever and I may be even kinkyer lol , other women I talk to about this say their sex drive has grown too , and we share notes on the best lubricants .
 
Kimlikes said:
Have to agree with you menopause was tough , he did remind me of our vows and the marriage contract we sign on our wedding day . I if one of us can’t provide fisical relief, no matter the reasons, then other arrangements had to be made . He bought it up at the end of my worst 3 years,Telling me it was 18 months since we had sex and 7 months since I had done more than kiss him on the way out the door . So I went to the doctor , and things improved but I wasn’t into it and he could tell , so we agreed that he could use professional services, the girl would be my choice and I would hand her the money. This was his requested. Over the next year my body started coming back to life and my drive increased.We learned how to manage my and our discomfort ,about 18 months after I got him a hooker we were invited to a party . And I found myself looking forward to it . Getting waxed and my hair done , I couldn’t do what I used to yet but I was going to look good lol . That’s when I realised how much I liked sex and how much I missed it . Now my sex drive is hire than ever and I may be even kinkyer lol , other women I talk to about this say their sex drive has grown too , and we share notes on the best lubricants .
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I am really happy this turned around for you. I can only imagine how tricky it must be once menopause hits and it’s probably trial and error to see what works and what doesn’t.

I am glad you found it again.

Sex between couples keeps us close and also is a helluva lot of fun.
 
Kimlikes said:
We’re back to best friends and business partners as well as partners in naughty crime
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Love that! My wife and I are also business partners too.

Also great friends.

And of course… sex partners.

(i’m trying to get her to find a pair of sexy boots that she can wear while we have sex this morning… )
 
Kimlikes said:
Now my sex drive is hire than ever and I may be even kinkyer lol , other women I talk to about this say their sex drive has grown too , and we share notes on the best lubricants .
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So glad it worked out for you. Communication and having a different set of expectations are the key.

And yes, choosing the right lubricant is essential. My wife must have tried a dozen. Some under-lubricated, some didn't last long enough and others caused irritation. And we use 1/3 of a tube every time we do PIV. ...Yeah, a lot. But otherwise, sex can be painful for her. And if it starts to hurt, I stop. I'd rather not cum than see one single wince of discomfort on her face.

Good luck!
 
NightBirdNYC said:
As a couple in our 50's (me) and 60's (my hubby), I'd like to take the opportunity to say to those who are younger and wondering if their ages will end up depriving them of the wonderful pleasures of sex, "not at all!" as long as you keep your curiosity and affection for one another. Please feel free to add your own experiences, fears etc! But keep these traits alive, and you're on your way to a deliciously erotic twilight .:)
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The other crucially important thing is to keep yourselves healthy. Prostate problems and heart trouble are the big ones for men, and weight gain, breast lumps seem to be problems for women. I'm in my 50s and can still fuck for 30 minutes to an hour. Sex can be great aerobic exercise. :)
 
LMWM321 said:
So glad it worked out for you. Communication and having a different set of expectations are the key.

And yes, choosing the right lubricant is essential. My wife must have tried a dozen. Some under-lubricated, some didn't last long enough and others caused irritation. And we use 1/3 of a tube every time we do PIV. ...Yeah, a lot. But otherwise, sex can be painful for her. And if it starts to hurt, I stop. I'd rather not cum than see one single wince of discomfort on her face.

Good luck!
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I had a girlfriend who got dry and sore, and even a lot of lube didn't help. When that happened she would do one of two things. Either suck me off or turn over and tell me to fuck her ass. I never insisted, she offered. She like cum and loved getting it however she could.
 
lc69hunter said:
I am 74, and lost my wife 3.5 years ago. I figured my sex life was over, and because of her illness, hadn't had sex for years before that. I had a large body count before that marriage, and figured it was over, with just memories left. Well, six months after my wife's death, one of her younger married friends came over, dragged me to bed just to make sure, (in her words) that I remembered to know how to get into and out the saddle. She said my wife had made her promise to do it.
I will always be thankful for what she did, as she brought me back to life.

I am currently having sexual relations with two women, one in her late 40's, and the other in her mid 50's. Is it the same? Fuck no. I will never as hard as I once was. I can't cum as much (thanks to bladder reaming), but my tongue and my mouth still work(maybe even better as I have had to compensate for the other parts), and when I go down and eat her creampie, even though as limited as I was able to give her, it is always good for another couple of orgasms for her.

So yes, sex is still there if you want it. It is just different than it was when you were still someone's stud muffin.
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First, I am truly sorry for your loss, it is clear from your story she was an amazing wife. Thank you for posting, it is a bittersweet but wholly beautiful story.
 
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