Sex & Shenanigans

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Have you ever done fire play in a BDSM scene? It can be quite the thrill, at least for me. Of course I was the one tied down and set on fire.
You know I am very interested in BDSM, but have never found someone to play with (most likely because I hate people and going to social events and God hasn't sent a trustworthy Dom to knock on my front door). But...that doesn't sound terrible, just slightly terrifying. You are braver than me, I don't think I could do it.
 
This is why my tag line was "Dork with nice boobs" for so long. People are blinded by hair, makeup & boobs, and are always surprised at my Lego/Construction/Pyro-Paramedic/ADHD AF tendencies 😂. Don't let the cleavage fool you. Beneath the frosting is a complete nerd that has serious opinions on the Star Trek reboot, and can start a fire with a gum wrapper 😂
Seriously, one of my nicknames for this girl is Pop-up Tig (or MYB now). From the old VH1 show pop-up video. Where they have random facts that pop up throughout the MV. This is how she is in real life. Any conversation you could possibly think of she can chime in with little tid bits of pertinent information. Never a dull moment with this one. 🖤
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
Thank you for making this place a little bit better. 💖

🎵🎶You can check out any time you like, but you can never leave🎵🎶
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
Oops…been so preoccupied with other stuff, I didn’t realize my (re)join date passed 3 days ago too!
 
You know I am very interested in BDSM, but have never found someone to play with (most likely because I hate people and going to social events and God hasn't sent a trustworthy Dom to knock on my front door). But...that doesn't sound terrible, just slightly terrifying. You are braver than me, I don't think I could do it.
This is why I get so irritated at the people who make out like they're Dom's but clearly aren't as they have no patience or interest in providing a good experience for the sub. Good BDSM comes from lots of getting to know a sub, finding out what they do and don't want to experience. What are their soft and hard limits, establishing safe words, it's a collaborative process.

Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
 
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Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
Lit is full of these - especially in the erotic chat rooms.
And you know what?
Everyone of them is really insecure and they throw tantrums and flounce at the slightest bit of mockery.
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
You and I have the same join date 😱

Happy Lit Day, gorgeous 😍💛 I’m happy to know you
 
This is why I get so irritated at the people who make out like they're Dom's but clearly aren't as they have no patience or interest in providing a good experience for the sub. Good BDSM comes from lots of getting to know a sub, finding out what they do and don't want to experience. What are their soft and hard limits, establishing safe words, it's a collaborative process.

Faux Dom's don't want to do the work and just leap into whatever cutlery gets them off. They see being a Dom as a golden ticket to be an abusive arsehole and call it BDSM.
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Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
Happy One Year Anniversary!
 
Been a year today since I joined the forums. Time flies, doesn't it. Started out just trying to nab some friendly advice on my writing, but I've gone on to make, and lose, some real friends here.

A little life beside the worldly one. A tiny cosmos of people I've come to adore.

Thanks for all the laughs 💕
I wasn't paying attention to that... but mine was 3 years ago on the 16th. What fun!
 
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