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eroticbum said:
I wouldn't say my marriage is sexless, but very close. Wife's interest in sex has been slowly declining over the years, She admitted to me that she could live without sex. Intercourse for her has become painful, but she has taken care of me but that too has become less frequent.
She used to give me fantastic BJ's weekly, then every 2 weeks, now were at every 3 to 4 weeks. Intercourse in the conventional sense was last year around x-mas time. She does let me screw here analy, but only every 3 or 4 months.
When she's stressing it's near impossible to get intimate with her, and she's stressing over upcoming election.
Guess when next intimate fun might happen
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PM me. I'd love to help you, & I'd especially like to help her. I hope its not too late. (I'm not a professional sexologist, but I'm an experienced woman, & my advice is free.)
 
jamiesixtynine2 said:
It’s nice to know some people care. I’m stuck after 8yrs and some kids then the faucet turned off and shed rather just watch tv to relax
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8 years is a long time, but it doesn't mean its impossible to bring the fire back to life. A healthy sex life is very important to overall health, & I'm convinced the world would be a better place if everyone could just get regular satisfaction 😊. Let's pledge together to help make more & better O's! (But doesn't mean I'll go on camera with/for you. Girls get paid for that.)
 
novice68writer123 said:
Exactly and there are a lot of people that will say you should talk about it or maybe if i bought her flowers or took her
to the movies Then she would love me. Forget that, I should not have to "Do" anything for my wife to treat me with
respect. The problem is she don't have a sexual bone in her. But of course my a__ would be grass if she found out
i was here on Literotica.
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What did you and your wife do before marriage? What did you do before marriage that made her fall in love with you and want to have sex with you?
 
I'm married to my third wife. We've been together for 13 years. She's about 5 years older than I am im 61 years young I stay in good shape. I have been told I'm handsome. Easy to talk to great personality and very open minded. The first 11 years was great, but now she has no interest. Her first husband passed away. And when we first got together, she wasn't too sure about my endowment. I'm not p**** actors size, but I'm right at 8 inches and really thick. She use to want it all the time,but the last couple years,She's always saying no, but she never wants to talk about it. sighned confused and horny
 
Stacysmith287 said:
I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x
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Frustrating is an understatement. It really does affect how you feel about everything else. I've tried explaining that to her, but I don't think she truly understands.
 
TomnDiane said:
My wife ended our physical relationship more than 15 years ago. Said "It hurts too much, I can't do this anymore." So, we became room mates. Divorce wasn't an option. It's been quite an experience. Our sex life was very good before. Now, she's very sick (cancer). Just remember two things: 1) Life isn't fair, and 2) You're not in control of anything. BTW, I would never marry again (I'm 64).
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Last time I had sex with my wife was JAN 2013, right before the cancer came back. Treatment had begun the summer of 2010, incredibly disfiguring surgery at Christmastime. Not a lot of sexy left. I think she knew it had come back and UT was "one last."

She died that NOV. Yeah, it's been near 15 years for me, though 11 of them have been without her. I turn 64 in two weeks. There's not gonna be another for me, either.
 
Stacysmith287 said:
I feel for people..men and women in sexless marriages..must be frustrating x
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I am one such person who has had a sexless marriage for far too long. It has been 3 years since I married the love of my life. I provided for her and uplifted her living standards far beyond her imagination. 2 years ago, I was laid off and am having a lot of trouble finding a new job. So I started authoring a novel and will be publishing it within the next month. But she has used my unemployment as an excuse to obliterate my life, my self-respect, my self-worth and physical intimacy has been reduced to zero. I have my own saving with which I not only take care of my expenses, but also repay the installments for the loan I took to buy my house and the loan I took to purchase my laptop. I never asked for a dime. But I am being gaslit, harassed and driven to the point of desperation. I have called su1c1de helplines, counsellors and healers looking for some relief. My life has been reduced to a home-bound, lonely and grief-struck existence. But I will never give up. I will make something of my life. And yes, I will find sex.
 
UtilityCurve said:
Last time I had sex with my wife was JAN 2013, right before the cancer came back. Treatment had begun the summer of 2010, incredibly disfiguring surgery at Christmastime. Not a lot of sexy left. I think she knew it had come back and UT was "one last."

She died that NOV. Yeah, it's been near 15 years for me, though 11 of them have been without her. I turn 64 in two weeks. There's not gonna be another for me, either.
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Sorry you went through that. You know, we recite the marriage vows "for better or worse, for richer or poorer, in sckness and in health, till death do you part", never appreciating what that really means. Time cures that.
 
MaritalHell_36M said:
I am one such person who has had a sexless marriage for far too long. It has been 3 years since I married the love of my life. I provided for her and uplifted her living standards far beyond her imagination. 2 years ago, I was laid off and am having a lot of trouble finding a new job. So I started authoring a novel and will be publishing it within the next month. But she has used my unemployment as an excuse to obliterate my life, my self-respect, my self-worth and physical intimacy has been reduced to zero. I have my own saving with which I not only take care of my expenses, but also repay the installments for the loan I took to buy my house and the loan I took to purchase my laptop. I never asked for a dime. But I am being gaslit, harassed and driven to the point of desperation. I have called su1c1de helplines, counsellors and healers looking for some relief. My life has been reduced to a home-bound, lonely and grief-struck existence. But I will never give up. I will make something of my life. And yes, I will find sex.
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I really don't think sex should be your priority if what your saying is true..and I certainly wouldn't be posting this on a platform like litorica you need help mate...not sex
 
hi guys hope all are well. i have been away for a few weeks, was sick for a solid 2 weeks then just away for another
week or so. but i'm back now.
feel free to PM me.
mwm, 56, bi curious though i went down on my friend when i was young.
married 23 years havn't had sex in 15 years.
you guys know the drill. Grin.
can't afford to hook up with a stranger via an app, but wish I had a trusted friend / neighbor to play with.
until that happens in real life i enjoy chatting on lit and if interested enjoy emailing on the outside.
so if your interested drop me a note.
:)
 
I am quite shocked by how many guys are in sexless marriages. My wife and I are not sexless but it is very infrequent compared to ten years ago. We’re in our fifties, she’s in perimenopause and one of her many symptoms is painful intercourse. And no, no amount of lube cures it.

For the longest time, she wouldn’t turn me down but it was less enjoyable for me seeing discomfort etched on her face. Recently, she started hormone replacement therapy which I recommend all women look into. It’s helped all her symptoms and made her happier overall.

I consider myself fortunate that my wife is willing to still give it up for me despite the pain. I hope the therapy eventually gets dialed in to the point where she has none at all. It’s getting better but there’s a ways to go.
 
That is good that you two are working together. And sorry she suffers through the pain.
Sadly with me and my wife there simply is no discussion. I gave up nearly begging for it once a month at the
end of the month just before her period. And that's been 15 years now.
I just with i could find a married guy in a similar situation and have some play time with him. grin
 
I’m quite sure you can. Not new to Lit but I am new to this forum and it seems dominated by horny men, both bi and straight. I think it’s a matter of getting those feelers out there.

For me personally, I miss the thrill of getting to know a new woman. I’m not necessarily looking for action but I have started trying to find ladies to chat with.
 
Iwould love to c hat with the ladies, they must be out there, bored at home with husbands that are off golfing
all the time. But the ratio is like 1 lady for 1,000 horny men.
So i focus on the bi curious side of me and look for married guys that are bi curious and can't ever meet someone
in person but in the land of Lit and email willing to explore some.
 
There are willing guys out there too. I think I saw a couple in this post alone and being guys, they don’t get freaked out when their inbox explodes!
 
Exactly. I'm sure even in my neighborhood there are LOTS of guys that would Like to hook up with another married
horny guy. But that actually happening is near impossible.
I dont plan on going to an app and hooking up with a stranger. But I can retire in 5 months and I just hope to be
out there so to speak. I enjoy walking and hiking and I want to check out some local museums. Plus there are
groups on facebook that go for walks. I just want to meet people and not bring the wife and see if it eventually
leads to something. A guy can dream can't he. Grin
 
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