Sexually aggressive women

[Leigh81]

I'm aggressive with my husband because he loves it and l love playing that part. With my lover we are on the same level with him slightly more dominate.

L

 

[Daniel_Hart]

I'm aggressive with my husband because he loves it and l love playing that part. With my lover we are on the same level with him slightly more dominate.

L

Sounds like you are a very busy girl! How do you find the time

 

[Leigh81]

Sounds like you are a very busy girl! How do you find the time

Once or twice a week for a lover. There is always time.

L

 

[Daniel_Hart]

Once or twice a week for a lover. There is always time.

L

You must be very good at being bad

 

[LadyVer]

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

I tend to be sexually aggressive. There's no way I could be a sub. It's been my experience that the men I've chosen to have sex with don't like sexually aggressive women. They say they do, but they didn't seem to handle it too well. That doesn't mean though I want pm's telling me about a hard cock.

 

[Leigh81]

You must be very good at being bad

My husbands idea. I'd never been with another guy before him sexually. I never even seen a nude pictures or a porn movie till university.
I've come along way.

L

 

[LoveHerNow]

My husbands idea. I'd never been with another guy before him sexually. I never even seen a nude pictures or a porn movie till university.
I've come along way.

L

Welcome to the fun side, darlin'.

 

[HoldYouDown]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Within the context of a relationship - i.e. we've already had sex - then yes.

Otherwise - no.

 

[Leigh81]

Welcome to the fun side, darlin'.

Or the dark side.
If my family only knew.

L

 

[knottygirl]

I want to convey the message that I'm ready to be fucked, but in a classy way.

In my experience, crass is more sure to convey this message than classy.

 

[johnnieblue44]

In my experience, crass is more sure to convey this message than classy.

Not necessarily. There is an art form to being a classy slut. It's quite a powerful skill.....

 

[LoveHerNow]

Or the dark side.
If my family only knew.

L

lol
Or that. It's kinda fun living out your fantasies in "public" on here when you can't always share with everyone...

 

[Edensgarden]

I'm very flirtatious and suggestive, but don't generally consider myself aggressive unless I know there is a mutual interest.

In bed, i can go either way. I enjoy both.

 

[johnnieblue44]

I'm very flirtatious and suggestive, but don't generally consider myself aggressive unless I know there is a mutual interest.

In bed, i can go either way. I enjoy both.

Flexibility and adaptability is such a useful virtue.....

 

[emma_the_librarian]

I've gone from one extreme to the other.. when I was younger, I was a timid thing and never initiated... then I moved to 'suggestive' language and touches...today, I am one to start things with dirty discussions or just plain "I really want to fuck you right now" ...or I am one to start playing with myself and he is eager to join in...

 

[Spenser41]

Expecting a guy to read your mind, well I hate to say it, but we are clueless when it comes to that. We need to know. I like what you said about being a bit more flirty, dropping physical hints ie, the tits rubbing on the arm, hand on the leg...
As much as women like men to be the aggressor, it is also nice for the men to know that you desire it. As far a woman being aggressive, not really, maybe when she is really horny maybe, but normally, it is nice to know the woman is thinking and wanting sex and I see no problem in her telling him so. But I also agree, it gets old having to be the main one to always make the first move. We want to be desired too.

 

[amyforfun]

I've gone from one extreme to the other.. when I was younger, I was a timid thing and never initiated... then I moved to 'suggestive' language and touches...today, I am one to start things with dirty discussions or just plain "I really want to fuck you right now" ...or I am one to start playing with myself and he is eager to join in...

What she said

 

[smallgirl]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

Ladies, how do you feel about being sexually aggressive? Do you like being the one to initiate sex? Will you approach a man you don't know? Would you ask him out? And if it's a man you know and have never gone to bed with, but now you want to, will you make the first move to get him into bed?

I have found most men like a woman who is aggressive about what she wants/needs sexually. That she puts it out there..."I need to be fucked" or "I need to cum".
That's been my experience anyway.

 

[johnnieblue44]

I have found most men like a woman who is aggressive about what she wants/needs sexually. That she puts it out there..."I need to be fucked" or "I need to cum".
That's been my experience anyway.

The verbal aggression is indeed a turn-on.

Especially in that sexy Kentucky accent, too. That helps.

As in, "Ah neeeeed to cum-umm...."

 

[Yachtsman69]

I can go either way. I enjoy dominant - aggressive women and submissive women. I just adapt to the situation.

I had a friend a couple years ago who was the same way and we would switch roles back and forth (dom - sub) multiple times in the same evening. Fun !

 

[GBPFan1975]

How do you men feel about women who are sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex? Do you like it? Or do you prefer to be the one to make the first move?

I personally like it when a woman is sexually aggressive and openly express their desire for sex. I like to know that woman has a kinky side and loves sex. I also like to know that she is game for anything! If she makes the first move that lets me know that it's "Game On"! It kind of makes me excited even a little more knowing that she is open about sex.

It's kind of hard to explain, but basically if the woman express their desire for sex or even start out the flirting that gets be excited even more. Maybe it's because I know she is receptive of it and/or maybe she will be more into it.

There's something sexy to me about a woman that is sexually open and openly expresses her desire for sex. Maybe it's because I know we both have the same thing on our minds!

 

[sereneone4u]

I am assertive sexually and I a certainly direct.

However I won't be dominant sexually with a man.

I would say I am a sexually assertive woman.

 

[johnnieblue44]

I am assertive sexually and I a certainly direct.

However I won't be dominant sexually with a man.

I would say I am a sexually assertive woman.

That's a pleasantly surprising assertion

 

[MILFSauce]

I am assertive sexually and I a certainly direct.

However I won't be dominant sexually with a man.

That's a very good distinction to make. I don't think being sexually assertive has much if anything to do with dominance or submission.

I'm sexually submissive, too. But you'll never know that until we're in the bedroom, because it's not an outward part of my personality.

 

[bill3901]

That's a very good distinction to make. I don't think being sexually assertive has much if anything to do with dominance or submission.

I'm sexually submissive, too. But you'll never know that until we're in the bedroom, because it's not an outward part of my personality.

I think the dom/sub thing is hotter when you act out the opposite of your normal personality