FriskySeaDevil
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This is a GREAT thread!!!
This has helped me get a few great ideas to try as I was having this very same problem & even asked the same/similar question ... I think it's a great idea to bump up this thread once in a while as I have personally known of the slow & steady mixed in with Lots of talk/listen time with my ex Provider. That was the best relationsip sexually, but the rest was sorely lacking after 2 years. But alas ... I am missing & needing to have that D/s relationship going again, even if it's only in the bedroom for starters.
But as for taking it slow & allowing your SO to come into their own ... I fully agree!
My hubby now is the best man I ever met in my life, & very sweet and a bit of a big pushover. I never thought that I would even remotely have my D/s relationship with my hubby because of that.... but low & behold... after Hours of talking, he has decided that he is interested in my pleasure as well as his. I started out by telling him to squeeze my breasts tight as we were having sex one night ... he didn't, said he was too scared he would hurt me.
A few days later, I tried a dif approach. I walked right up to him with a very wanton & horny look in my eyes, grabbed firmly ahold of his crotch then dragged him to the bedroom by it. He was very hard in my hand, but livid that I did that to him & caused him pain... he grabbed firmly ahold of both my breasts squeezing till I let him go & fell to my knees... prefect position to display my apologies for hurting him, that turned out to be the best sex night we have had yet... or since... but he is slowly working up to doing that again as it scared the hell out of him when I got upwith bruised boobs...
But I totally luved it.
Hope this helped others as much as the other posts have helped me with ideas to get my hubby to the next level.
This has helped me get a few great ideas to try as I was having this very same problem & even asked the same/similar question ... I think it's a great idea to bump up this thread once in a while as I have personally known of the slow & steady mixed in with Lots of talk/listen time with my ex Provider. That was the best relationsip sexually, but the rest was sorely lacking after 2 years. But alas ... I am missing & needing to have that D/s relationship going again, even if it's only in the bedroom for starters.
But as for taking it slow & allowing your SO to come into their own ... I fully agree!
My hubby now is the best man I ever met in my life, & very sweet and a bit of a big pushover. I never thought that I would even remotely have my D/s relationship with my hubby because of that.... but low & behold... after Hours of talking, he has decided that he is interested in my pleasure as well as his. I started out by telling him to squeeze my breasts tight as we were having sex one night ... he didn't, said he was too scared he would hurt me.
A few days later, I tried a dif approach. I walked right up to him with a very wanton & horny look in my eyes, grabbed firmly ahold of his crotch then dragged him to the bedroom by it. He was very hard in my hand, but livid that I did that to him & caused him pain... he grabbed firmly ahold of both my breasts squeezing till I let him go & fell to my knees... prefect position to display my apologies for hurting him, that turned out to be the best sex night we have had yet... or since... but he is slowly working up to doing that again as it scared the hell out of him when I got upwith bruised boobs...
But I totally luved it.
Hope this helped others as much as the other posts have helped me with ideas to get my hubby to the next level.
