Slightly strange turn ons

[DarkLover]

Ankle bracelet on a woman. It shows that she knows her feet/legs are for more than just walking on. Very suggestive.

 

[ShyGuy68]

Hot damn, I love a nerd. Give me glasses and some blue eyes looking at me over the top of a book and I go weak in the knees. Even better if those eyes have tiny wrinkles around them from laughing. A sense of humor is just plain hot. Strong hands are a big turn on, too.

How does this look to you? I don't have any picture of my eyes over the edge of a book, but might take that when I get my harry potter book on Saturday!

 

[artsmom]

A guy with his hat turned around backwards...

 

[only_more_so]

A guy with his hat turned around backwards...

Great... You just gave all those morons who wear hats backwards an excuse. Thanks.

 

[Miss_B_Haven]

A guy with a nice back/shoulders. I love running my hands up and down a man's spine.

 

[AllWeWant]

I admit to reading only half the thread but I'm on board with a lot of the things some of the others have mentioned. (I'm a straight chick, btw...so all this applies to men.)

Turn-Ons:

~ Cowboy hats, boots, semi-tight jeans. Doesn't matter who he is or what he looks like, if he's got the hat or the boots, I'm lookin' twice. The jeans are a bonus.

~ Crisp, perfectly clean white button down shirts with at least the top two buttons undone. :::swoon:::

~ Work boots, black, tan, no matter.

~ The smell of woodsmoke. Makes me crazy horny, particularly if the weather is cold.

~ Rubber/latex gloves.

~ The sound of a man taking off his belt, the hiss/snap at every belt loop.

~ Men who drink scotch or whisky and the way they taste of it when you kiss them.

Turn Offs:

~ The whole shower, sauna, hot tub, pool thing...I'm glad I'm not the only one. The shower is MY time, get the hell outta my bathroom.

~ Long fingernails on a guy, HATE 'em. Dirty ones too, unless you're actually a mechanic; then it is forgivable.

~ Lingerie. Yeah, I know... I'm all for a pretty bra and cute panties but the rest of it just seems so trite & overdone. I'd much rather grab one of his shirts and a pair of white socks and be COMFORTABLE enough to get freaky.

 

[MaydayUK]

Slightly battered looking men, guys that look like they've been through the wars a bit. Fit and strong, but not completely perfect . . . that well-used look. (Hockey players with a bit of facial scarring are top of the list.)

Really slick hockey in general. Even sometimes when a goal is scored on me (I'm a female goalie, but play for a men's team), if it's done just right and it's sexy hockey I enjoy it, heh.

Hockey tournaments where half the players are wandering around half naked or just in their Under Armour, and we're all showing off our athletic figures, and I'm one of the few girls there

Think all my other turn ons are pretty normal!

 

[Muirin]

My biggest turn on is big scars bellow the head and above the waist. it's the hottest thing ever!!!!

 

[wordofvirtue]

Thick dark hair, the longer the better, is a big one for me -- I'm ever so unhappy about my hubby's "summer hair cut". It's absolutely horrible!!! He had better mean it when he says he'll let it grow out in the fall.

The other one is a man who has just a faint whiff of a body odor about him. Now, I don't mean sour funk that hasn't seen soap and water for weeks. But if he's not been in the shower for a day or two ... mmmmmmm ........

 

[imalonenow10]

A nice ass in Wranglers....mmmmmmmm

 

[dcraz]

Love the look of a woman's ass when she is lying on her stomach...

She can be naked, in shorts, in jeans, in a dress. On the bed, on the couch, on the floor. Doesn't matter. The dip of her lower back, the rise of her ass then back down again to her legs. Very enticing and gets the mind a wandering. Yes it does...

 

[Miss_B_Haven]

I've been told this is definitely a bit odd...

When I'm going down on a guy...
...And he's lying on his back...
...And he puts both hands back behind/underneath his head...
...And he props his head up to watch me...
...And he smiles in admiration...

That's hot.

 

[dcraz]

I've been told this is definitely a bit odd...

When I'm going down on a guy...
...And he's lying on his back...
...And he puts both hands back behind/underneath his head...
...And he props his head up to watch me...
...And he smiles in admiration...

That's hot.

Huh?

What??

I'm sorry. Is there any other way???

 

[Miss_B_Haven]

Huh?

What??

I'm sorry. Is there any other way???

Oh, there are other ways.

I prefer to let a man just lie back and enjoy it...
While others want to be an active participant.
I know what I'm doing, no need to forcibly guide me.
Some just lay there, eyes closed... Unresponsive.
Boring.

And I hate that.

A girl needs positive feedback and encouragement!

 

[BradBigBrain]

Oh, there are other ways.

I prefer to let a man just lie back and enjoy it...
While others want to be an active participant.
I know what I'm doing, no need to forcibly guide me.
Some just lay there, eyes closed... Unresponsive.
Boring.

And I hate that.

A girl needs positive feedback and encouragement!

Would a positive response be to have him [me] cum all over your face? with a big huge smile on his [my] face?

 

[Stegral]

Thick dark hair, the longer the better, is a big one for me -- I'm ever so unhappy about my hubby's "summer hair cut". It's absolutely horrible!!! He had better mean it when he says he'll let it grow out in the fall.

The other one is a man who has just a faint whiff of a body odor about him. Now, I don't mean sour funk that hasn't seen soap and water for weeks. But if he's not been in the shower for a day or two ... mmmmmmm ........

OMFG !!!!! I have a TWIN !!!!!

KEWL !!!

long hair & that musky scent are definite turn ons....

(I have been caught licking a fella as well... I like the salty taste too )

 

[dcraz]

Oh, there are other ways.

I prefer to let a man just lie back and enjoy it...
While others want to be an active participant.
I know what I'm doing, no need to forcibly guide me.
Some just lay there, eyes closed... Unresponsive.
Boring.

And I hate that.

A girl needs positive feedback and encouragement!

At the risk of sounding all mushy and sappy and shit...

To be 'serviced' by a woman is a gift. It is something I want to enjoy and treasure and share that enjoyment with her. I don't want her to feel ignored. Even when receiving, I can participate. Give feedback and appreciation. I want to encourage her so she will want to do it again. I want her to know she is doing a wonderful job. Reinforce what feels really good, guide her with encouragement. Stuff like that.

Likewise, when I am given the opportunity to return the favor, I want to know she is enjoying it. I want to feel connected to her. I want to be able to 'read' her breathing, her movements, her sounds, her reactions. Because I want to please her, I need to know what works well and what does not since everyone is different.

In short, it is the true intimacy and connection that is the turn on for me. And for there to be intimacy, there has to be communication and feedback. Verbal or otherwise.

Just a dorks 2 cents...

 

[Miss_B_Haven]

At the risk of sounding all mushy and sappy and shit...

To be 'serviced' by a woman is a gift. It is something I want to enjoy and treasure and share that enjoyment with her. I don't want her to feel ignored. Even when receiving, I can participate. Give feedback and appreciation. I want to encourage her so she will want to do it again. I want her to know she is doing a wonderful job. Reinforce what feels really good, guide her with encouragement. Stuff like that.

Likewise, when I am given the opportunity to return the favor, I want to know she is enjoying it. I want to feel connected to her. I want to be able to 'read' her breathing, her movements, her sounds, her reactions. Because I want to please her, I need to know what works well and what does not since everyone is different.

In short, it is the true intimacy and connection that is the turn on for me. And for there to be intimacy, there has to be communication and feedback. Verbal or otherwise.

Just a dorks 2 cents...

Aw, you're not a dork for that!

I tend to be a very vocal person... If it feels good, there's a very good chance that I'll tell you so... Though not always with words. So I guess I expect that from a partner... If it feels good, I want to know damnit! lol At least an approving grunt or groan is better than nothing.

I'm happy to provide my services (often without expecting reciprocation)... If my partner is willing to provide ample encouragement. The best sex I've ever had was with someone who had no problem vocalizing his desires... Both in words and moans. He was also big on eye contact and kisses, which just made my night.

Miss that guy.

 

[jayce1066]

The voice of Fiona Ritchie. If I ever get amazingly wealthy, I'll hire her to call me once a day & talk for an hour. She can read the phone book, recite the multiplication tables, whatever. It won't really matter. (sigh)

 

[kajira311]

Guys with rough hands

Hope that hasn't been mentioned before, I was too lazy to read the whole thread. In this computer age so few men do manual work with their hands, and I love finding a guy who has some roughness, callouses, etc. to his fingers. I can cope with a guy whose hands are as soft as mine, but I heave this tiny sigh inside.

 

[DarkLover]

A woman eating red meat.

It's so annoying for a guy to take a woman out for a nice dinner and then watch her eat a salad because she's afraid she might gain half a pound.

There's something inherently animalistic and primal about eating a thick, juicy steak with a little blood left on the plate. This sends a sumliminal message to a guy that says, "Go ahead, big boy, I can keep up with you." It shows a potentially aggressive side of a woman.

 

[Not Normal]

I just remembered another one. A woman in a cotton print dress with a denim jacket. Yum!

 

[NippleMuncher]

A woman in a business suit, skirt not pants. I don't know what it is, but DAYUM!! that gets my motor running.

And what is it about the nape of the neck? Strangely, it isn't all women that have this affect on me, only some, and "beauty" has nothing to do with whether their nape is a turn on or not.

 

[DimplesCharlie]

White pleated skirts in spring ,high heels with hair in "french twist". In fall, cowel neck sweaters, again with hair in French twist or arranged so neck is showing. These will get my blood flowing

~C~

 

[MaydayUK]

A woman eating red meat.

Excellent, my absolute favourite meal is a large, thick, medium rare steak. Fillet or rump for preference. It must be bloody. I make happy sounds when I bite into it and the juices squeeze out, mmmmm.