Thank you so much for your kind words. I've never been big in that department and since my spinal injury last year, it seems to have shrunk even more
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I am reminded of the joke about a man that walks into a house of pleasure and the madam has him undress. He has a very small penis and she says to him, "Who are you going to please with that." He smiles and says, "Me!"
To be honest, you probably do and don't realise it.
Frank and cheeky is much better than mean. Give me that any day.
Aww, that's very sweet of you, thank you.Frank and cheeky is much better than mean. Give me that any day.
Thats awful you end up crying in arguments or high stress situations. If I saw you crying I would come over and give you a big hug
So very true. I have met very few if not no woman that would have preferred the big dick dude over the good guy so far.
I've not come across many women that want a big dick over a nice guy. Its not all about the dick
That's really hot to think about.. I'd love/hate if I took a girl home and she laughed or told me she was disappointed straight away..if obviously try make up for it with my tongue, fingers toys anything to please but that initial disappointment would send me through the roof and hard as anything,
Yeah, but once they have the nice locked down they start thinking about big dicks.
amen to that
In my (admittedly limited) experience there isn't really a relationship between the size of a man's penis and whether they are into SPH or not. The only other man I have met in person who admitted to this fetish was actually on the larger side of normal. It is like so many other things in that what arouses us is not necessarily tired to reality
Now I wonder how many men who have experienced cock worship would choose SPH instead or too?
Outside the name of this thread SPH, if you have a large penis and are aroused by being humiliated as though it is small, then aren't you really more aroused by being lied to? ;P
What is the line between a lie and a fantasy? This site wouldn't be very interesting without fiction
Which, sadly, describes the attitude of about 90% of men.
I agree with everything you're saying, here. But the reason some men get off on this, I think, is not that—
—but rather—
In other words, humiliation is the core kink. A small penis, or a mind game that makes him feel small, is just a vehicle for that humiliation. It's a particularly potent vehicle precisely because:
I couldn't agree with this more, and as a general rule, I rail against these superficial and mendacious methods of putting others down. And that's what they all are, at their heart, isn't it? Ways to demonstrate social power, real or imagined, over someone else.
No, no, it's simply a fantasy, a “suspension of disbelief,” to evoke that same humiliation.
Thank you for the response. I do not think that men are deserving of humiliation. That is what I should have said first. My humiliation fantasies toward others revolve around knocking down phony-beauty and showy-beauty types who look down on those they consider undesirable. Nobody can help what they were born having but an ugly mindset from people who think they are better based on what they were born with or looks they've altered are the ones I would prefer to see humiliated and degraded. People deserve better than to be the targets of those kinds of ppl. Ruin some narcissists and break some beauty queens by all means but penises and body shapes are easy targets. I don't want to change why poeple like what they like but I like that we can talk about it together and learn or get more certain about our pov.
Again, I complete agree with this sentiment
—unless they want it. Please don't confuse humiliation that's inflicted on someone without their consent with humiliation that's part of a consensual kinky fantasy.
Although you aren't responsible for your genetically determined characteristics, nature isn't fair. Men with small penises suffer the onus of having to function in a society that favors men with large cocks. One bonus is enjoying the notoriety of being well known for your deficiency.
Well said. i go to a nudist camp a few times a year, and i've yet to see anyone with a perfect body...far from it. Which is one of the reasons i'm okay with having a tiny penis. And, those "imperfections" we all have is what makes us human. Besides, judging a person based on breast or penis size seems a bit shallow. As i've said before, i can't be humiliated for having a tiny penis, because i've accepted the fact that i have one and am okay with it.
