Sph / tiny penis fetish

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I suppose all fetishes seem weird and hard to understand from the perspective of those who do not have them. Experiencing gentle subtle erotic humiliation from a woman who I know loves and respects me, and who I am extremely sexually attracted to, is an act of love on her part. I think it is truly an art form to do it well. She plays me like a fiddle. She can make me ejaculate against my will, then sympathize with how weak I am and remind me that my inability to control myself is one of the reasons that she can’t let me fuck her. (“You know how frustrating that is for me, baby. It’s so much better when you just eat me.”)

There is no way that I ever feel, as @Shaglus_Ziegler suggests, that it is like a bad drug. “Needy?” Yes, I need it. It is a powerful aphrodisiac for me like any fetish is for the person who has that particular trigger (or triggers).

But, I don’t expect you to understand, or care if you do. My wife doesn’t understand why either, but she has seen the power of it (many times)!

Whatever works! I do enjoy being dominated and some of the needy elements of sexuality. Cheers

 

[NancyPan]

This thread has been dormant for quite some time. Perhaps all there is to be said about sph has already been said (doubt it), but I do enjoy seeing this reality of my anatomy and particularly erotically sensitive area of my psyche discussed.

Any thoughts from anyone? Gals? Fellow smallies? Recent or memorable humiliating sph experiences?

 

[bjlatx]

My wife regularly talks about my small penis while I masturbate. We love it.

 

[shemyezza]

oh no problem there then

 

[Giftboy]

oh no problem there then

Oh! How I adore your obedience.

 

[Giftboy]

I love it when I am standing in front of a man in my underpants and he pulls them down, to reveal my man-clit. I like to see his expression as he looks down at it, my anus contracts. I remember one Master’s response was: “Well, well, what have we got here? I am very pleased to see your little clitty-cock. Our time together will be all the more anal. How does it feel to be clitty-slut, who is only good for taking cock? I going to stretch you until you scream!” Well that put me in my place. I knew what it meant to be a clitty-cock slut that night. He pummelled, planted, plough his cock ever so deep inside me.

 

[shemyezza]

Oh! How I adore your obedience.

A good gurl tries to please but a really bad gurl tries really hard in every way

 

[lorrinlace]

The good ol days.... they kept getting smaller *giggles;*
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[Giftboy]

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You and I would look a right pair of Sluts, down in “The Old Anchor and Tug”. We’d get cock by the dozen.

 

[Easyvirtue]

Have got this evening all planned out. I’m tiny, by an average man’s size for sure, my wife’s never said anything and I do please her quite well but tonight I will initiate a hand job and am going to whisper in her ear as she’s jerking me…
“Do it baby mmmmm jerk my tiny cock, feel how small it is in your hand baby, are you gonna make my tiny penis shoot a big load all over your hand baby!”

 

[Giftboy]

Have got this evening all planned out. I’m tiny, by an average man’s size for sure, my wife’s never said anything and I do please her quite well but tonight I will initiate a hand job and am going to whisper in her ear as she’s jerking me…
“Do it baby mmmmm jerk my tiny cock, feel how small it is in your hand baby, are you gonna make my tiny penis shoot a big load all over your hand baby!”

Is that all. Be outrageous and tell her to sound your urethra just after you’ve ejaculated, because this is quite humiliating and degrading, which I think is what your after. I’ve had done to mine and it is exquisitely exotic and dominating.

 

[BenHoping]

Speaking as a male who is "modestly endowed" (3 inches, fully erect) I have accepted that the overwhelming majority of men have penises larger than mine and are able to satisfy a woman in ways that I cannot. I have striven to overcome this deficiency by perfecting my oral abilities. I have been married twice and both of my wives have praised my tongue technique and my wife says that the orgasms I provide her using my mouth and tongue, are the strongest and the best she has ever experienced. I recognize my place in the penile pecking order and consider my mouth and my throat to be my primary sex organ for the use of both women and men. Do you find that your preference for larger cocks is shared by most women but who are are reluctant to express this preference for fear of offending their partners?

I think the "bigger is better" mindset is so ubiquitous that even in gracious women it's lurking somewhere in the background. I've got a well-developed tongue and educated fingers, and could make my wife (and since her death an FWB) quiver and shake. But both betray their deeper responses with widened eyes and subtle gasps at the sight of bigger cocks. I'm grateful for their compromise.

I'm not into sph, even a little. Pretty much a dick-wilter, in fact. But I get it--and if folks find their way to sph as an erotic thrill, go for it!

 

[bjlatx]

My wife is getting really good at SPH. She has really enjoyed calling mine a micro dick (technically it is not). She likes to show me her pussy while I masturbate. She says her pussy is reserved for her bulls! It’s very hot.

 

[NancyPan]

Mostly, I think it is important that we (males with small penises) accept that, since we have small penises, our capacity to provide pleasure to women is not going to come from fucking. We need to develop other aspects of our lovemaking as well as our personalities and service. My wife has made it clear that she has no use for my little thing other than to reward me (and as a measure of my arousal), but she has trained me very well how to provide her orgasms through oral worship. She also enjoys my service to her and w are good friends and companions.

As far as sph, yes, I enjoy it. I need it. It reinforces my submission.

 

[irishblade]

Mostly, I think it is important that we (males with small penises) accept that, since we have small penises, our capacity to provide pleasure to women is not going to come from fucking. We need to develop other aspects of our lovemaking as well as our personalities and service. My wife has made it clear that she has no use for my little thing other than to reward me (and as a measure of my arousal), but she has trained me very well how to provide her orgasms through oral worship. She also enjoys my service to her and w are good friends and companions.

As far as sph, yes, I enjoy it. I need it. It reinforces my submission.

Well put, NP. I’m not sure why someone (even with a larger penis) wouldn’t be open to learning even more ways to pleasure their partner.

 

[artgorden]

Well put, NP. I’m not sure why someone (even with a larger penis) wouldn’t be open to learning even more ways to pleasure their partner.

My little dick has never brought MRS Gorden to orgasm, but I have had the pleasure of sucking the dicks of several real men who are happy to please her and humiliate me.

 

[NancyPan]

My little dick has never brought MRS Gorden to orgasm, but I have had the pleasure of sucking the dicks of several real men who are happy to please her and humiliate me.

I realize that some males who are inadequate sexually and/or are in FLRs (as I am) are cuckolded. However, I am not. My Wife chooses to remain monogamous. When she wants something inside of her, she has me use her “toy cock.” No worries about PE with that, and of course it is much larger (nearly twice my size) and stays rigid.

 

[BenHoping]

I think the "bigger is better" mindset is so ubiquitous that even in gracious women it's lurking somewhere in the background. I've got a well-developed tongue and educated fingers, and could make my wife (and since her death an FWB) quiver and shake. But both betray their deeper responses with widened eyes and subtle gasps at the sight of bigger cocks. I'm grateful for their compromise.

I'm not into sph, even a little. Pretty much a dick-wilter, in fact. But I get it--and if folks find their way to sph as an erotic thrill, go for it!

Took me a while to find it, but I liked this story. It dips into sph--more romance than bdsm. https://literotica.com/s/meabh-queen-of-connaught-and-evan

 

[nutoseen]

yesterday my woman asked me if i wanted to be dropped off at naturist resort i last experienced some sph at. she said she would drive in, drop me off, i would strip and leave me clothes with her. she would bring my clothes back after she went and did some things for a couple of hours. i got so horny, but i had just finished a brutal high heat hike with her and could not imagine walking through the trails at that place right then. she smiled when i said "no thank you"... "maybe next week" and she said "okay, that works".

 

[bala7400]

My wife is getting really good at SPH. She has really enjoyed calling mine a micro dick (technically it is not). She likes to show me her pussy while I masturbate. She says her pussy is reserved for her bulls! It’s very hot.

Bulls with wife its very hot

 

[KR22]

I don’t think I’ve ever been with anyone I’d consider small. Or maybe I’m just not picky

Haven’t seen some of us then

 

[Biguy934]

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[TomSenior2021]

This is a newer fetish of mine. I am small and have been embarrassed of it most of my life. I had an experience not that long ago that opened my eyes to SPH. I would say I enjoy more teasing than humiliation, nothing overly mean. It is so hot to hear comments from people after they see it, especially when I'm soft. I get so nervous and excited at the same time, very hot.