Spouse comes home early, catches you in bed with same sex partner....what happens next?

[eigenschwarz]

It would have to be the other guy's wife coming home early, because if I ever decided to cheat on my wife I'd have enough sense to not bring my side piece home. Instead, I'd have to "travel for work".

 

[Stromer]

He joins in. (But we've done it all before, tehe)

Us too. Never walked in on her having sex with another woman, but MrsS has enjoyed the taste of a woman while I fucked her from behind a few times.

 

[lily_wall_]

I'm not sure how my husband will react. He knows I've been with women in the past, before we started dating. He doesn't probe too much and avoids/changes topic so I think he's not very keen on the idea. We have watched threesome porn with two women involved, so I know he gets excited by it. Not lesbian porn tho.
So my husband walking into me with another woman is really make or break kinda situation

 

[JusticeGrey]

I'm not sure how my husband will react. He knows I've been with women in the past, before we started dating. He doesn't probe too much and avoids/changes topic so I think he's not very keen on the idea. We have watched threesome porn with two women involved, so I know he gets excited by it. Not lesbian porn tho.
So my husband walking into me with another woman is really make or break kinda situation

Make a deal with him: same sex partners are okay. I'd certainly be happy with that arrangement

 

[SmokingFap]

Make a deal with him: same sex partners are okay. I'd certainly be happy with that arrangement

What if HE isn't okay with fucking other guys?

 

[JusticeGrey]

What if HE isn't okay with fucking other guys?

It's not a REQUIREMENT that anyone fucks anyone outside of the marriage...but if they DO...

 

[SmokingFap]

It's not a REQUIREMENT that anyone fucks anyone outside of the marriage...but if they DO...

If they DO... THEN he has to fuck other guys. So if she scissors her brains out with another woman, he has to bend over and cough. Got it.

 

[SmokingFap]

I guess I haven't answered the initial question myself, mainly because I haven't been married in 20 years. But looking back, I honestly think my ex-wife's initial reaction would have been shock and anger. Both because I didn't even have bisexual urges back then, and cheating on her would have been devastating. BUT... if she caught me in bed with another MAN, like really going at each other... I think it's a 50/50 chance that she would be into it.

The wrong side of the coin means she would have cut my dick off. While it was in the guy's ass.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Make a deal with him: same sex partners are okay. I'd certainly be happy with that arrangement

I'm sorry but this response is about as dumb as it gets. Just because she catches her husband with another man doesn't mean she wants to go muff diving. Maybe she wants to get fucked by another man. And if so, so what? If there was no agreement before this occurred about extracurricular sex then whoever got caught was cheating and have no right to demand anything.

The smarter move is to have an agreement in place, with agreed upon rules and conditions, about sexual partners outside the marriage before something like this happens. My wife and I have an open marriage. She can have playmates and so can I. She chooses to play only with men, I choose to keep my options open. We do have one hard and fast rule and that is no outside partners in our home.

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm sorry but this response is about as dumb as it gets. Just because she catches her husband with another man doesn't mean she wants to go muff diving. Maybe she wants to get fucked by another man. And if so, so what? If there was no agreement before this occurred about extracurricular sex then whoever got caught was cheating and have no right to demand anything.

The smarter move is to have an agreement in place, with agreed upon rules and conditions, about sexual partners outside the marriage before something like this happens. My wife and I have an open marriage. She can have playmates and so can I. She chooses to play only with men, I choose to keep my options open. We do have one hard and fast rule and that is no outside partners in our home.

I think you should have read more of the actual situation in question before you posted this rant...

 

[TrailerHitch]

I think you should have read more of the actual situation in question before you posted this rant...

I think you should go back and read my first response to this topic.

This response was directed at JusticeGrey's post.

Further, if you don't like my just posts pass me by.

 

[SmokingFap]

I think you should go back and read my first response to this topic.

This response was directed at JusticeGrey's post.

Further, if you don't like my just posts pass me by.

Justice was discussing a situation where the wife was the one having an affair with another woman.

I'm not sure how my husband will react. He knows I've been with women in the past, before we started dating. He doesn't probe too much and avoids/changes topic so I think he's not very keen on the idea. We have watched threesome porn with two women involved, so I know he gets excited by it. Not lesbian porn tho.
So my husband walking into me with another woman is really make or break kinda situation

You went off on a rant about her catching her husband with another man, and why should the woman have to go muff-diving because of that?

I'm sorry but this response is about as dumb as it gets. Just because she catches her husband with another man doesn't mean she wants to go muff diving.

I didn't call you out because I disagree with your philosophy. I called you out because you had the situation back-asswards. So don't post if you can't handle any corrections or criticism.

 

[TrailerHitch]

Justice was discussing a situation where the wife was the one having an affair with another woman.

You went off on a rant about her catching her husband with another man, and why should the woman have to go muff-diving because of that?

I didn't call you out because I disagree with your philosophy. I called you out because you had the situation back-asswards. So don't post if you can't handle any corrections or criticism.

Gee thanks Dad. Now fuck off.

 

[PFWilly]

She’s always wanted to see it, but initially would be a little surprised. Then, I think she’d get a glass of wine and just watch. For awhile…

 

[Travler99921]

There are two possibilities. My wife is ok with me having gay sex, but I agreed not to bring a man home with me. On the other hand when I come home after having gay sex she wants to know what I did and how I liked it. I think she has a secret desire to watch me with another man.

What happens next depends on which of there two is the stronger motivator. I hope it is the latter. It would open an entirely new sexual world for us. If it is the former I could be the spare bedroom for some time.

 

[yowser]

Here's a new story about a married bi-guy getting caught and the aftermath.

 

[Ksgirl11]

My spouse would probably sit and watch for a bit and once his dick was rock hard he would join us. He would be in heaven

 

[wizzard426]

I know of 4 guys that have been caught, none of them went well, the best though was my now ex brother in law.

Poor dude, I'm not glad he was caught but he was careless and i can't help that.

I did get to see the pics of him sitting there freshly cummy crying over his ruined life

 

[haventdonethat]

First wife:
You guys are early, you were supposed to wait for me. Don't cum yet, I want some cock too!

Second wife:
You guys are early, you were supposed to wait for me. Don't cum yet, I want some cock too!

 

[TrailerHitch]

My wife has expressed 2 interests that might make getting found fun. She has said she might want to watch and she has expressed guarded interest in a MFM threesome.

 

[haventdonethat]

My wife has expressed 2 interests that might make getting found fun. She has said she might want to watch and she has expressed guarded interest in a MFM threesome.

My first wife was the one who expressed an interest, fantasy, that could only involve 3 people, she repressed the thoughts of watching two guys until the first scenario was fulfilled.
If you are able, convince your wife to try either one of her interests. She will love it! Promise!

 

[TrailerHitch]

My first wife was the one who expressed an interest, fantasy, that could only involve 3 people, she repressed the thoughts of watching two guys until the first scenario was fulfilled.
If you are able, convince your wife to try either one of her interests. She will love it! Promise!

I don't try to convince my wife of anything sexual. I know how her mind works. I may toss out an idea and then leave it alone for her to ponder or be receptive to an idea she has. But trying to push something is a sure fire way to no street.

 

[Yesok1]

Errm.

She'd be mad at me cheating!

 

[Noor]

First Non spouse would be asked to leave. Then when they’ve cleared the house. Anger, flying objects? Change locks, clothes out the window, filing for Divorce?
Relationships are built on trust and betrayal is betrayal. it doesn’t matter if they are the same sex or not. Just because your wife knew you were bisexual in the past doesn’t matter. If you have an exclusive agreement, that is what matters.

 

[Rob_Royale]

I asked my wife this question and she busted out laughing. She said she'd look under the house for a body-snatcher pod.