Straight talk on being bi

[ChasBozwell30]

Yes you find out pretty quick once you take the plunge

Yeah, there's always more to discover about yourself. my wants, desires, needs, have become less complicated, and more nuanced over time...

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Same.

I remember her words, her fingers in my hair, wondering just how much more intense this could be....!

 

[sweettalk4u]

I found out. Definitely BI. and thanks to SilverDaddies, Literotica and the folks I have chatted with, I am OK with being BI.

Fantastic! So happy for you! Welcome!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yeah, there's always more to discover about yourself. my wants, desires, needs, have become less complicated, and more nuanced over time...

Yes getting that settled in my mind opened the door for bdsm and my dominant submissive journey began and continues to this day!

 

[OpenMouth]

Hi! I dress as a girl and do dirty things with men - I guess I'm technically bi for that reason although I'm not attracted to men, and could never kiss, date or sleep with one.

I'm happy to admit I love cocks, the bigger the better, and swallowing or wearing cum, I love riding dildos or big cocks, and I love to wear lingerie, heels and makeup.

Still don't know if I'm bi, though!

 

[sweettalk4u]

I remember her words, her fingers in my hair, wondering just how much more intense this could be....!

https://www.literotica.com/s/seduce-me-2
I just read Seduce Me and was throbbing hard from start to finish. Now I want to finish!

 

[BradG2365]

I don't know if i'm really bisexual or not. I do have a lot of fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked that i get off to, but I know I'm not attracted to men , i have no desire to kiss a man or be in a romantic relationship with a man. And I honestly don't know if i would really act on my bisexual fantasies.

But again, like i said, i do have fantasies of sucking cock and being fucked, i love looking at pics of big hard cocks , and it makes me hard and i always cum hard when i have fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I don't know if i'm really bisexual or not. I do have a lot of fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked that i get off to, but I know I'm not attracted to men , i have no desire to kiss a man or be in a romantic relationship with a man. And I honestly don't know if i would really act on my bisexual fantasies.

But again, like i said, i do have fantasies of sucking cock and being fucked, i love looking at pics of big hard cocks , and it makes me hard and i always cum hard when i have fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked.

Just relax, have fun, be respectful and be yourself Brad. The rest will sort itself out.

 

[OnaTangent]

I don't know if i'm really bisexual or not. I do have a lot of fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked that i get off to, but I know I'm not attracted to men , i have no desire to kiss a man or be in a romantic relationship with a man. And I honestly don't know if i would really act on my bisexual fantasies.

But again, like i said, i do have fantasies of sucking cock and being fucked, i love looking at pics of big hard cocks , and it makes me hard and i always cum hard when i have fantasies about sucking cock and being fucked.

I am much the same, fantasizing about sex with another guy a lot although not interested in romantic relationships. Although my real life experience is limited I have come to grow much more comfortable with the idea that, yeah, I am into guys physically at least. So that makes me bi I guess. Of course labels are just what we make them.

 

[OnaTangent]

I don’t think of myself as “bisexual”, but I have been in relationships, both purely sexual and romantic with other women. Currently I am happily married, a mother, a professional business woman, etc. If I occasionally fantasize or desire to share a bed with another woman, does that make me bisexual or just hetroflexable?
Thoughts?

Dee

It's a matter of degrees... obviously why they came up with the concept of a spectrum.

 

[nostuff]

I believe that if you are experiencing bisexual thoughts you ARE bisexual.

I don't believe it's that straightforward (a pun?), unless you think everybody is bisexual. It strikes me as closer to the truth when you say there's a spectrum. And based on my own experience, I would say it's an evolving spectrum.

There was a time when I would have told you I'm totally straight, and the mere thought of sex with another man struck me as disgusting. For example, I bought one of Ann Rice's Sleeping Beauty novels, because I'd been told it was wonderfully erotic. But when I started reading, I found it horrible, because of all the gay sex.

Several years later, something in me changed. Not a lot, mind you, but enough that I dug out that book. Much of it was still a bit hard to read, but I found my attitude shifting. Though I still couldn't imagine engaging in gay sex, I started wondering what it would be like sucking cock and taking a cock up my ass. It was never going to happen, so I still considered myself quite straight.

I'll spare you the blow-by-blow account (another pun?), but one day, I began to develop gay fantasies. I didn't think those fantasies would ever come true; I knew my wife would never accept me with another man, but that caused me to reassess. The debate was over. I realized I was bi, maybe even gay, even if I never acted on my desires.

Then last fall, I had an opportunity, and I went to a bathhouse. I had oral sex with three me and fucked one of them. I found I don't care about fucking other men, but I love sucking cock. At the same time, I still love women, and I'll never give them up.

By my definition, that makes me bisexual. At least, for now. But who the hell knows? My thinking could change again tomorrow, making me conclude I'm totally gay. Or I might wake up in the morning and decide it was all a mistake, that I'm really straight.

Frankly, I think I'm bi for the duration. And I'm content with that, though it certainly complicates my life. Figuring out how to satisfy my desire for cock without wrecking my marriage is a problem. The problem might be so complicated that I never again have gay sex. I hope not.

 

[Friendly2good_people]

I love a hot cock, but I am a breast man...SO my ideal would be a shemale...sucking and being sucked with a gorgeous set I can touch and tease..and feel that cock orgasm while I'm on her chest...

 

[Friendly2good_people]

Maybe a 3some? You, your wife and a guy... I've liked every kind of threesome there is....

 

[irishblade]

I have penis envy and definitely admire most cocks (since most are bigger than mine) and if my girl wanted me to suck a cock I would to pleasure her however I don’t see a scenario where I’d ever kiss a guy, date one or fuck one. But sucking a cock for a woman? Sure. I don’t think that makes me bisexual though. Could be wrong. Lol

 

[BBCfan]

I have penis envy and definitely admire most cocks (since most are bigger than mine) and if my girl wanted me to suck a cock I would to pleasure her however I don’t see a scenario where I’d ever kiss a guy, date one or fuck one. But sucking a cock for a woman? Sure. I don’t think that makes me bisexual though. Could be wrong. Lol

Yeah, like you I think my bi desires originated from penis envy. In acting out my fantasies over the years and researching sexuality to better understand my urges I believe I fall more into fetish category than true bisexuality

 

[irishblade]

Yeah, like you I think my bi desires originated from penis envy. In acting out my fantasies over the years and researching sexuality to better understand my urges I believe I fall more into fetish category than true bisexuality

Agreed. Also, our profile pics, comparatively, are almost humiliating. Lol

 

[sweettalk4u]

Hi! I dress as a girl and do dirty things with men - I guess I'm technically bi for that reason although I'm not attracted to men, and could never kiss, date or sleep with one.

I'm happy to admit I love cocks, the bigger the better, and swallowing or wearing cum, I love riding dildos or big cocks, and I love to wear lingerie, heels and makeup.

Still don't know if I'm bi, though!

I think your bisexuality is just the launching pad for your awesome kinky self. Look forward to visiting your fetlife profile

 

[sweettalk4u]

I don’t think of myself as “bisexual”, but I have been in relationships, both purely sexual and romantic with other women. Currently I am happily married, a mother, a professional business woman, etc. If I occasionally fantasize or desire to share a bed with another woman, does that make me bisexual or just hetroflexable?
Thoughts?

Dee

It makes you bisexual. To me heteroflexible is a term of accommodation or a generalizing term that includes bisexuality. You are a wonderful woman, an iron woman, and a mother who is bi. Sounds like an awesome package!

 

[sweettalk4u]

It’s a dilemma that many bi men face. Being bi offers a greater variety of sexual fulfillment. I have had some great encounters and would love more but I don’t want to risk my marriage either. I manage to keep my desires in check with online relationships of various kinds. You know what it’s like now and that makes it much harder for you (pun back)

 

[sweettalk4u]

I love a hot cock, but I am a breast man...SO my ideal would be a shemale...sucking and being sucked with a gorgeous set I can touch and tease..and feel that cock orgasm while I'm on her chest...

One of my fav fantasies too. They are sweet beautiful people who need love like all of us do and they are sooo sexy!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yeah, like you I think my bi desires originated from penis envy. In acting out my fantasies over the years and researching sexuality to better understand my urges I believe I fall more into fetish category than true bisexuality

Interesting take! Look forward to reading your stories

 

[Hitchiker69]

My thinking exactly. And speaking as an experienced Bisexual man, I feel 'whole' since I've acted on my desires, satisfying both my needs and my partner's desires

I'd be lacking something primal if I'd never had sex with another man.

I'm OK surrendering to a man who wants me ,though I don't always play the submissive role, I can, I will and I enjoy it.

It fulfills a need, makes me feel whole and complete as a sexual human

Something would be seriously lacking if I'd never had a cock in my mouth or ass, and had never kissed a man

 

[sweettalk4u]

My thinking exactly. And speaking as an experienced Bisexual man, I feel 'whole' since I've acted on my desires, satisfying both my needs and my partner's desires

I'd be lacking something primal if I'd never had sex with another man.

I'm OK surrendering to a man who wants me ,though I don't always play the submissive role, I can, I will and I enjoy it.

It fulfills a need, makes me feel whole and complete as a sexual human

Something would be seriously lacking if I'd never had a cock in my mouth or ass, and had never kissed a man

Life is too short. It’s meant to be explored!

 

[rncforthree]

Yeah, like you I think my bi desires originated from penis envy. In acting out my fantasies over the years and researching sexuality to better understand my urges I believe I fall more into fetish category than true bisexuality

Sounds like you're on the right track. I think most of the guys on here probably fall into that category. I personally do not see a desire to suck a strangers cock as having anything at all to do with a sexual attraction to that person they've never met, or in some cases never even see.

 

[SuperSissy]

I’ve been having sex with men and women for over 40 years. I don’t really identify internally as straight, gay or bi – I have no label for myself (except maybe “slut,” I like that term). There are so many wonderful and differing things about sex with a woman or a man, who wouldn't want to experience it all?