Straight talk on being bi

[BBCfan]

Interesting take! Look forward to reading your stories

Thanks! Feel free to give some feedback if you read them. Cheers

 

[klippert]

I’ve been having sex with men and women for over 40 years. I don’t really identify internally as straight, gay or bi – I have no label for myself (except maybe “slut,” I like that term). There are so many wonderful and differing things about sex with a woman or a man, who wouldn't want to experience it all?

Don't really Identify...that to me is a huge key. 467 different pronouns. That is;paralyses by pronoun. I've nearly lost interest in the opportunities like I use to have in College... Much of my sex, I were with people willing to experiment.
it really is not that difficult; erase the Pop-psychology... and just get on with what Adults can do. Or just use your fingers and the internet; keep it a fantasy

 

[Pkbnewbie16]

Over the past couple of years, I have gone from being curious to having sex with a few guys. I like to be with men and women, but dont care much for labels. I am a sexual man!

 

[klippert]

Over the past couple of years, I have gone from being curious to having sex with a few guys. I like to be with men and women, but dont care much for labels. I am a sexual man!

Nailed it. Once someone asks me or tries to tell me they are Panoramic/Abstract/ Resto Mod sexual...I'm gone before they finish the sentence

I'm turned on by hot cocks and fine women. Don't need all the baggage

 

[Wanking_Frank]

I don't believe it's that straightforward (a pun?), unless you think everybody is bisexual. It strikes me as closer to the truth when you say there's a spectrum. And based on my own experience, I would say it's an evolving spectrum.

There was a time when I would have told you I'm totally straight, and the mere thought of sex with another man struck me as disgusting. For example, I bought one of Ann Rice's Sleeping Beauty novels, because I'd been told it was wonderfully erotic. But when I started reading, I found it horrible, because of all the gay sex.

Several years later, something in me changed. Not a lot, mind you, but enough that I dug out that book. Much of it was still a bit hard to read, but I found my attitude shifting. Though I still couldn't imagine engaging in gay sex, I started wondering what it would be like sucking cock and taking a cock up my ass. It was never going to happen, so I still considered myself quite straight.

I'll spare you the blow-by-blow account (another pun?), but one day, I began to develop gay fantasies. I didn't think those fantasies would ever come true; I knew my wife would never accept me with another man, but that caused me to reassess. The debate was over. I realized I was bi, maybe even gay, even if I never acted on my desires.

Then last fall, I had an opportunity, and I went to a bathhouse. I had oral sex with three me and fucked one of them. I found I don't care about fucking other men, but I love sucking cock. At the same time, I still love women, and I'll never give them up.

By my definition, that makes me bisexual. At least, for now. But who the hell knows? My thinking could change again tomorrow, making me conclude I'm totally gay. Or I might wake up in the morning and decide it was all a mistake, that I'm really straight.

Frankly, I think I'm bi for the duration. And I'm content with that, though it certainly complicates my life. Figuring out how to satisfy my desire for cock without wrecking my marriage is a problem. The problem might be so complicated that I never again have gay sex. I hope not.

I think something in our brain changes as we get older - maybe 10 or 15 years ago I didn’t give much thought to it - then 5 years ago the urge kept increasing to the point where I could not resist it. Now I’ve experimented a bit and know this is part of who I am and there’s no going back.

 

[Downfor]

I think something in our brain changes as we get older - maybe 10 or 15 years ago I didn’t give much thought to it - then 5 years ago the urge kept increasing to the point where I could not resist it. Now I’ve experimented a bit and know this is part of who I am and there’s no going back.

The same thing happened with me and enjoy men now also!

 

[ChasBozwell30]

https://www.literotica.com/s/seduce-me-2
I just read Seduce Me and was throbbing hard from start to finish. Now I want to finish!

Thanks, love using this site with my writing, to explore fantasies, diferent parts of myself, glad it has the desired effect

 

[yukonnights]

When I see a thread like this I always wonder what is bi? Obviously sex with a man. What about sex with a transgender woman? Bi or not bi?

I think that for a truly transgender woman, she is a woman in body, mind and soul. I wouldn't consider that bisexual. Look at it this way; If you didn't know anything about her history, would it be a bisexual experience? She would just be another woman.

 

[sweettalk4u]

I guess there are different interpretations of bi and that’s good. It can be a big tent or a small tent. I know when I’m in bed thinking bi thoughts about you guys i definitely make a tent!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Has your journey been self guided? If so you have taught yourself very well sissy!

 

[sweettalk4u]

Love the sexual liberation that we are going through!

 

[sweettalk4u]

It happened to me in my 30’s Frank. Maybe circumstances in life change in just the right way to allow that sexual side in us to reveal itself?

 

[sweettalk4u]

Very true Yukon ! I consider my sissy that way personally but all should consider a trans that way because she is! Look forward to reading your stories!

 

[Escierto]

I think that for a truly transgender woman, she is a woman in body, mind and soul. I wouldn't consider that bisexual. Look at it this way; If you didn't know anything about her history, would it be a bisexual experience? She would just be another woman.

I would agree with you but there are people who say if she has XY chromosomes, then you are having sex with a male and that makes you bisexual.

 

[yukonnights]

I would agree with you but there are people who say if she has XY chromosomes, then you are having sex with a male and that makes you bisexual.

What you think Escierto is all that matters. If you fall in love with the most perfect girl you ever met, it shouldn't matter if she is transgender. She views herself as female.

There's always going to be people who refuse to accept the reality of human diversity. People refuse the truth on many things, and I've found that it's hard to change their minds — because many of these people don't use their mind to parse the facts of a thing. They base their decisions on social opinion, group think and personal bias. The actual medical science on the subject is clear — gender identity has nothing to do with physical attributes.

 

[Escierto]

What you think Escierto is all that matters. If you fall in love with the most perfect girl you ever met, it shouldn't matter if she is transgender. She views herself as female.

There's always going to be people who refuse to accept the reality of human diversity. People refuse the truth on many things, and I've found that it's hard to change their minds — because many of these people don't use their mind to parse the facts of a thing. They base their decisions on social opinion, group think and personal bias. The actual medical science on the subject is clear — gender identity has nothing to do with physical attributes.

She has always viewed herself as female. So do I.

 

[yukonnights]

She has always viewed herself as female. So do I.

Good man! I'm sure she appreciates you and your understanding.

 

[Wonderer67]

I respect how other people identify, but I could care less abt labels. I don’t identify as anything but slutty and horny. I love pussy and I am attracted to cocks. I am happily married, in a FLR and it really works for us. I’ve recently told my wife about my desire to suck cock and maybe even get fucked by a man. We’ve talked about my desires and she is open to it.

Either being a sissy, fucking a sissy or being with a trans woman get me very hot.

One day I’d love to make it reality but it’ll have to be the right person and the right situation for us.

 

[AlexanderBly]

This is a rather simplistic view. Long before pressures from media and such there was discrimination which has been a theme for the GBLT community for centuries. That's important to not forget.

Man, you are opening up a big time can of worms...Your comment is spot on.

 

[sweettalk4u]

What you think Escierto is all that matters. If you fall in love with the most perfect girl you ever met, it shouldn't matter if she is transgender. She views herself as female.

There's always going to be people who refuse to accept the reality of human diversity. People refuse the truth on many things, and I've found that it's hard to change their minds — because many of these people don't use their mind to parse the facts of a thing. They base their decisions on social opinion, group think and personal bias. The actual medical science on the subject is clear — gender identity has nothing to do with physical attributes.

Well said! Maybe one day the truth will become more widespread. I hope so

 

[sweettalk4u]

I respect how other people identify, but I could care less abt labels. I don’t identify as anything but slutty and horny. I love pussy and I am attracted to cocks. I am happily married, in a FLR and it really works for us. I’ve recently told my wife about my desire to suck cock and maybe even get fucked by a man. We’ve talked about my desires and she is open to it.

Either being a sissy, fucking a sissy or being with a trans woman get me very hot.

One day I’d love to make it reality but it’ll have to be the right person and the right situation for us.

I envy you and your marriage and your kink!

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Love the sexual liberation that we are going through!

that's the best part, expanding your horizons, getting used to more aspects of yourself. this sites been a great help for that, and finding other people that feel the same. All so interesting to explore, i feel like i've barely scratched the surface

 

[AlexanderBly]

This is a rather simplistic view. Long before pressures from media and such there was discrimination which has been a theme for the GBLT community for centuries. That's important to not forget.

I know after being curious for some time I tried sex with a man I knew I had to do it again. I have other men tell me the same. There were a couple of guys who told me they decided they were gay.

I had come out to my wife before my first experience. She was very accepting and together we worked out how to accommodate my bisexuality in our marriage. My only regret was that I did not do it earlier.

How, specifically, did you and your wife work out an accommodation for your bisexuality? Just curious. Thanks

 

[sweettalk4u]

Sounds like you're on the right track. I think most of the guys on here probably fall into that category. I personally do not see a desire to suck a strangers cock as having anything at all to do with a sexual attraction to that person they've never met, or in some cases never even see.

Yes if I know he’s bi and we are getting to know each other then he’s not a stranger anymore

 

[sweettalk4u]

How, specifically, did you and your wife work out an accommodation for your bisexuality? Just curious. Thanks

That’s beautiful!