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September 6th - Words of Kajira Callista

Wow! :)

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Go read what caused this reaction!!! It is inspired and moving.

Esclava :rose:
 
September 7th - Words of catalina_Francisco

I remember I expected an adventurous journey, and I decided that life was too short to waste anymore time so aimed high and decided I was going to search for someone who would not be just another partner for a space in time, but someone who would share a similar vision and be there for the long haul. I figured I had guided and encouraged many on a similar vanilla path to find their bliss, it was time I applied the same process to my own life, with the added twist of D/s of course. I was fortunate.....I found that one (far away, but hey, not impossible)....we now share the bond we wanted both in D/s and love, marvel at the depth of our relationship in all areas, and cannot imagine life with another.

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What did YOU expect from your D/s or M/s experience?

Esclava :rose:
 
September 8th - Words of soapstar

Ive always found intellect to be the most exciting strength in a man.

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Interesting responses to a very basic question. Go find out why...

Esclava :rose:
 
September 9th - Words of AvaAdore

Walking with butt plugs

I've searched, but I can't find anything about this.

How do you keep a butt plug in when walking around in public?

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Esclava :rose:
 
September 10th - Words of Hajar

And while you can learn some online, the truth is in the actions, how can you say you have limits when they've never been tested, how can you be a pain slut, who's never tasted a flogger/cane, how can you teach when you never been taught ?

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Esclava :rose:
 
September 11th - Words of Esclava

Never forget the price we paid for the freedoms we have. Never forget those who were taken from us in the name of those freedoms. The practice of BDSM can only flourish with the tremendous freedoms we have here. I, for one, cherish the spirits of those who died so I can love whomever I desire and be taken to the heights of pleasure by them as well.

Celebrate the lives that were lost on this day in 2001!

In my heart, they did not die in vain.

Esclava :rose: :kiss: :rose:
 
September 12th - words of AnelizeDarkEyes

"In my world, at least, I don't want this crap. I don't want Mr. Nice Guy, as Justina and Cat said. Fuck that. I submit, and I am there to serve. That means that I am there for his pleasure, not for mine. It's all great and fine, if I get my groove on when he's beating my ass, or whatever he's doing to me, and believe me, I do *grin*; but the bottom line is, he is no service top.

If I ever even act like I might be thinking like I'm topping from the bottom, I'm snatched right back into reality. No Mr. Nice Guy--and I like it that way."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=276475

Catalina
:rose: thanks for all the hard work you have been doing on this thread Esclava....feel free to keep adding, and anyone else who wishes to place a quote they have seen and liked, feel free also.
 
September 13th - Words of incubus'_sub

It's probably best to realise early on that your own relationship with your Dom doesn't have to follow any rules but the ones that suit you both. Take into consideration your own views of safety and desire, discuss them with your Dom & come to an agreement about these things that works for you together.

Try not to get bogged down with specific structures & labels. They exist as worthy guides, not laws. You should, as you have, educate yourself about various practices & safety issues, but in the end it's simply between you & your Dom & what you choose to do within the relationship.

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A discussion of SSC and RACK. Very good information for subs to consider in discussions with their PYLs.

Esclava :rose:

P.S.: YQW, Catalina - it has been my pleasure. I did not want to see the thread die nor did I want you to have to try to make up ALL the daily entries alone. :kiss:
 
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September 14th - words of cymbidia

"I think of intense sensation play (aka, the consensual application of intense pain for erotic gratification) as something into which i immerse my *self*. I focus on it and concentrate on it. My present play partner knew immediately what others have known: it's a good thing to use words to focus me into the sensations, into the pain. Tell me to focus on it. Instruct me to process it. Use the words if i'm fighting the sensations. Use your dominance over me, the real power i've given you over my responses, to focus me into the pain, into the sensations, into the eroticism of the second by second intensity.

If i can find a way to *not* fight the pain, i am rewarded. If i can lose myself in it, if i can find a way to let it fill me so there's no room for coherency - only response - then i drop. And when i drop, the world changes and becomes something of crystalline immediacy and transcendant rapture."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=89152


Catalina
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September 15th - words of kitty4ever

"Lately, though, I can't find the strength to have hope or faith that I'll meet someone who won't just want to use me and toss me aside when he's done. I have a hard time not expecting the same from even those that approach me as a friend. I guess I look at anyone making an offer of friendship skeptically. I try not to reject, but I am standoffish when you first speak to me. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=275647&perpage=25&pagenumber=1


Catalina
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September 16th - words of Kajira Callista

"Here is a little of me, i love to be degraded, humiliated and all that wonderfully fun stuff. If a stranger or one who didnt give a rats ass about me did it i would kick some serious ass, and that would be an auto-reaction for me.
When a person does it because they know it is a need you have deep in your soul and it matches a need they have deep in their soul, is that not love in a way? So yeah, of course you can humiliate and degrade the one you love...if humilation and degradation are things you love to do."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=277483

Catalina :rose:
 
September 17th - words of shy slave

"I recently had a tattoo of a bound fairy on my thigh, this is my 3rd tattoo and the largest so far.

I focused on the initial pain of the needle, and once I realised how much it would hurt was able to make the pain 'background noise.'

I did not lose myself in it, but processed it to be the least significant part of that moment in time.

It was the least painful tattoo I have had and it healed very quickly."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=89152&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina
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September 20th - words of Esclava

"Submission is not found in or connected to a body part. It dwells within the spiritual heart of the one who desires to submit. Removal of a clitoris no more purifies a slave's service any more than the right "training" enhances a submissive heart. Training teaches a slave what things "please" Master/Mistress/Dom.

When Master/Mistress loves his/her slave and cares for her/him, THAT love and care is what enhances the submissiveness in the heart of a loving slave. THAT love and care is what brings out the obedient respect which allows one to serve without hesitation or question."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?postid=9813921#post9813921

Catalina
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September 21st - words of Red Menace

"For the past couple of years I have been desperately trying to fit myself into the mould of a "slave" and failing miserably. It was pretty obvious to me, and everyone who knows me, that I was not the least bit submissive, but a few held the opinion that I may be "slave-wired". (I'm not going to go off on a tangent here, but I think the two are completely separate animals and one is not necessarily inclusive of the other... basically, it's possible to be either one without the other.)

Honestly, I'm not really sure if I'm capable of charting the back-waters of slavery even though I can go through the mechanics if I have to. The desire and ability to find pleasure in releasing control and ego and offer "selfless" service and submission because I find fulfillment in it, is completely foreign to me. I know there is a huge draw towards the fantasy of that primal, raw and vulnerable place... but in the past, when it's come down to do-or-die, all-or-nothing, yes-and-anything, I find more terrifying than exciting and more horrific than satisfying. Yet, it's still the fodder of my fantasies."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=277483&perpage=25&pagenumber=1

Catalina :rose:
 
September 22nd - words of Zaudika

"This is actually something that we just recently tried out. It was an amazing experience.
Being that it was a new thing for to Him more than I, the first place he did the needles was in the top of my thigh. I was able to watch this way and become more comfortable.
After watching him do just a few I knew I could completely trust him. He did it like he had done it a thousand times before.
After a few in my leg he created a pattern on the upper swell of my breast. The pain, the adrenaline, every part of it was absolutely wonderful.
It's something I'd been waiting for and it was well worth the wait. I look forward to us doing it again soon."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?postid=9838461#post9838461

Catalina :rose:
 
September 23rd - words of sigsauerprinces

"to dominate is an action. one cannot BE a "dominate". i believe the word some ppl are looking for is DOMINANT.

honestly if i meet a Dom and he told me "i've been a Dominate for a few years now" i'd walk away very quickly.

tis a little thing, i know, but it irks me everytime i see it.

"Hi, i'm new to Lit, i'm a 40 year old exeperienced Dominate...."


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?threadid=279438

Catalina :rose: just a little something I am sure many of us have noticed and/or thought over our time on Lit and elsewhere, but not said....thanks ssp for going there.BTW, nice to see you around these parts again. :D
 
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September 24th - words of tythisredheadup

" Is this too soon? I already have deep feelings for this man. Strong feelings, almost saying I am infatuated. Granted, I haven't met him face to face, but I am very drawn to him. He has that control over me that I have so desperately needed and desired for so long. It actually made me a better person. I get my tasks and errands done on time, only because he is holding me accountable. "

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=280348

Catalina :rose:
 
September 26th - words of shy slave

"In the context of BDSM I am shy, if I move to the US can I get some of AA's tax dollars as he doesn't want them to go to support anyone with 'lazy fat ass(es)'

I could then attend various BDSM groups/munches/classes in order to overcome my social anxiety syndrome.

Of course if I get over excited with it all, there is always Ritalin

Its a mad, mad world."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=250203&perpage=25&pagenumber=10

Catalina :rose:
 
September 27th - words of WillowPuss

"Depending on what 'look' I can be stopped short and made to question what I was doing, or left reeling and feeling flushed at the implied praise.
A touch - it can bring me the pain of questioning why I may have displeased Him, or the soaring feeling that I get when I have confirmed just how much he loves and values me.
A word (phrase) - well ... just one special word, spoken so quietly that it is barely heard and my soul is soaring, but ... juat a few, well chosen words, and I am begging His pardon for not being the best I can be."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=109163&perpage=25&pagenumber=2

Catalina :rose:
 
September 28th - words of Quint

"I've had experiences that I thought would really turn me on; instead, they left me shaking and disturbed. My partner often enjoys these sorts of scenes a great deal and only feels remorse afterwards, when I'm telling him how blech I feel about the whole thing. We make mistakes too. Fantasizing about an event is far different from experiencing the reality."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=279124

Catalina
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September 29th - words of shy slave

"It makes me realise that it is amazing that any of us meet anyone we are even remotely compatible with, never mind compatibility on many levels.

It seems that at the most basic level we are what we are, thankfully there are other people out there who are what they are; despite all the odds sometimes it just works out x "


https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=276475&perpage=25&pagenumber=5

Catalina :rose:
 
September 30th- words of sigsauerprinces

"if someone who is familiar with the safe use of firearms takes a gun, unloads it, makes sure theres no clip and no round in the chamber, and places the bullets in a locked box, and then proceeds to use the UNloaded gun in play-how is that any more dangerous than using a cane or a bullwhip? lets just say for some crazy reason theres a stray bullet that somehow is on the floor. is that bullet going to load itself into the gun? i dont think so.

again, i think its just the idea of gun play that freaks some people out. the reality is that its not much different from other forms of edgeplay-if done safely and responsibly, there's very little risk."

https://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?s=&threadid=78461&pagenumber=2

Catalina :rose:
 
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