Taboo. Open discussion, no attitude.

[Netzach]

I am in a very similar boat. Have fallen in love with a man - and not someone who is also bi but a real honest to goodness dyed in the wool straight guy, and a "guy-guy" at that! (He does come from a family and cultural background in which homosexuality is not only OK but actually valued.)

In my case, I suspect that it has been more confusing for me than for most of my friends. I have been out as bi-queer for a long time - always harder to come out to new LGBT folks than straight... I have yet to take him into the Castro, even though there are some restaurants I know he'd love there. I'm afraid I'd start shouting out to folks, "I'm queer! I really am! I'm not just part of a "straight couple slumming. I slept exclusively with women for the past 18 years before him. Really, I'm Queeeeeeeeer!!! " I rarely take him to Valencia Street (the more lesbian part of town) for the same reason.

Went out recently with a friend who is dating again after a break-up - she is currently just having a good time and also has a "guy-guy" among her regulars - she won't take him to the Castro or Inner Mission, either, LOL...

So silly...
Neon

Yeah well, bi fem on bi male lurve (and only really astute queers can scope him for some reason) made me re-evaluate those "straight couples slumming" much more charitably.

 

[skittles_lm]

And what sort of uses would those be?

Oh you know! Mowing the lawn, fixing the car...


Huh. That's about it.

 

[neonflux]

Yeah well, bi fem on bi male lurve (and only really astute queers can scope him for some reason) made me re-evaluate those "straight couples slumming" much more charitably.

Yes, definitely think it has me, also (despite my occasional gender-bending, I read very femme most of the time). Although even in "tolerant" San Francisco, that isn't the case with most folks yet, unfortunately.

You know, your comment made me think this thing through a little more - I came out in 1973, in Texas - to carve out a place in community was pretty crucial back then. Now the queer community is, for want of a better word, my home. When I am away from it for too long, I start to get homesick. I fell in love with a man once before - in the bi-phobic 80s and felt like I was in exile while with him. I hate feeling like an interloper in my own world.

~ Neon

 

[graceanne]

oh lord I have such a thing for my feet getting touched, licked, sucked on, scratched... *writhe*

My feet are a BIG hard limit. It's the only part of my body that's ticklish, and I hate being tickled. I've warned K that if he screws with my feet I will kick him.

 

[Gil_T2]

My feet are a BIG hard limit. It's the only part of my body that's ticklish, and I hate being tickled. I've warned K that if he screws with my feet I will kick him.

I have a big problem with my feet, even putting socks can be a problem some days, extreemly touchy & hate them being touched.

 

[minx1]

My feet are a BIG hard limit. It's the only part of my body that's ticklish, and I hate being tickled. I've warned K that if he screws with my feet I will kick him.

I love my feet being tickled and stroked.

*giggles* My body is just one big erogenous zone

 

[Betticus]

Okay people.... Taboos!!!

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Oh you know! Mowing the lawn, fixing the car...


Huh. That's about it.

Glad to know you have such high opinions of the male sex, there, skittles.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Okay people.... Taboos!!!

Like incest?

 

[skittles_lm]

Glad to know you have such high opinions of the male sex, there, skittles.

Honestly, I just like getting a rise out of you. Is it working yet?


Incest. I think it's hot. Not too many in my own family that I would fuck, but there is one... and I did fuck him.

It was way better in fantasy. *sigh* Really, incest is a rather recent taboo. Romans interbred royalty all the time, and I am sure they weren't the only ones. Keep the royal blood pure (ha ha) and all that.

Discuss

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Honestly, I just like getting a rise out of you. Is it working yet?

Depends. What are you trying to raise?

Incest. I think it's hot. Not too many in my own family that I would fuck, but there is one... and I did fuck him.

It was way better in fantasy. *sigh* Really, incest is a rather recent taboo. Romans interbred royalty all the time, and I am sure they weren't the only ones. Keep the royal blood pure (ha ha) and all that.

I think that the taboos against incest were created by religious institution but came about not so much as a morality issue but species survival issue.. kind of like "Thou shall not kill".

Most "forbidden sex" is very erotic in our minds (like a 16 yr old boy being seduced by his English teacher who is 40yrs old) but the reality of it is that the taboos are in place because of some sort societal norm that is being violated. It takes a very "put together" person to be able to handle problems created with something like incest.. and that is just from the internal pressures not to mention the external pressures that society places on us to conform to it.

 

[graceanne]

Incest became taboo because of inbreeding. All those royals who were intermarrying were also dying off from hemophilia. Not to mention that a good majority of them were crazy as all get out.

yes, these days we have birth control, but reliable birth control is a more recent development, and even then it's not for sure.

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Incest became taboo because of inbreeding. All those royals who were intermarrying were also dying off from hemophilia. Not to mention that a good majority of them were crazy as all get out.

yes, these days we have birth control, but reliable birth control is a more recent development, and even then it's not for sure.

Yup, you are correct. I remember someone saying that World War I was a family squabble.

 

[vividimaginings]

Honestly, I just like getting a rise out of you. Is it working yet?


Incest. I think it's hot. Not too many in my own family that I would fuck, but there is one... and I did fuck him.

It was way better in fantasy. *sigh* Really, incest is a rather recent taboo. Romans interbred royalty all the time, and I am sure they weren't the only ones. Keep the royal blood pure (ha ha) and all that.

Discuss

It is hot, I am not sure why but I do find the idea of incest incredibly hot, there is no-one in my family I am interested in but I love to read the incest stories on this site and imagine I am a part of it. For some reason having sex with a family member is incredibly sexy for a lot of people, why is that?

 

[Puman]

It is hot, I am not sure why but I do find the idea of incest incredibly hot, there is no-one in my family I am interested in but I love to read the incest stories on this site and imagine I am a part of it. For some reason having sex with a family member is incredibly sexy for a lot of people, why is that?

Perhaps it's becuase you don't need to go through the 'getting to know you' phase... you know what you're getting and who you're getting it with... making you feel safe in a way...

 

[graceanne]

Yup, you are correct. I remember someone saying that World War I was a family squabble.

*snort* I've never heard that, but I wouldn't be surprised. lol At one point all the royalty was related in some way or the other. *ew*

 

[Chris_Xavier]

It is hot, I am not sure why but I do find the idea of incest incredibly hot, there is no-one in my family I am interested in but I love to read the incest stories on this site and imagine I am a part of it. For some reason having sex with a family member is incredibly sexy for a lot of people, why is that?

I read incest stories every now and then and the thing that makes it "hot" (thrilling) is the forbidden quality of it. When I was a sophomore in high school and a friend and I would go to the closest convenience store and look and buy porn mags. The thrill (besides fueling the hormones that were being injected into my body) was the fact that I could get in trouble for it. The thought of incest with a cousin (and I have a few hot ones) is enough to fuel a masturbatory session or two.

 

[LadyAria]

I am in a very similar boat. Have fallen in love with a man - and not someone who is also bi but a real honest to goodness dyed in the wool straight guy, and a "guy-guy" at that! (He does come from a family and cultural background in which homosexuality is not only OK but actually valued.)

In my case, I suspect that it has been more confusing for me than for most of my friends. I have been out as bi-queer for a long time - always harder to come out to new LGBT folks than straight... I have yet to take him into the Castro, even though there are some restaurants I know he'd love there. I'm afraid I'd start shouting out to folks, "I'm queer! I really am! I'm not just part of a "straight couple slumming. I slept exclusively with women for the past 18 years before him. Really, I'm Queeeeeeeeer!!! " I rarely take him to Valencia Street (the more lesbian part of town) for the same reason.

Went out recently with a friend who is dating again after a break-up - she is currently just having a good time and also has a "guy-guy" among her regulars - she won't take him to the Castro or Inner Mission, either, LOL...

So silly...
Neon

I ran into the same prejudices.
I actually lost some friends to it.
I was told it was a real loss to the lesbian community (wtf? did I die?)
Eventually, when they saw I still ran with the bois and marched for the cause they quieted their whispers.

I have to admit. I still don't take him to the clubs.

That's my hunting grounds

 

[LadyAria]

Okay people.... Taboos!!!

Murder fantasies?

 

[Puman]

Murder fantasies?

Oh hell yes! (They just have nothing to do with my sex life)

 

[LadyAria]

Oh hell yes! (They just have nothing to do with my sex life)

See I knew there were others.

The sexual power trip from the fantasy is intoxicating. I'm a very naughty girl Slasher flicks guarantee hot sex in my house.

 

[skittles_lm]

See I knew there were others.

The sexual power trip from the fantasy is intoxicating. I'm a very naughty girl Slasher flicks guarantee hot sex in my house.

I've fantasized about making a snuff film or just randomly kidnapping and killing (after I fuck the shit out of her of course) some random little girl.


And by little girl, I mean like 18 or 19. Even I have personal standards. lol

 

[Chris_Xavier]

I've fantasized about making a snuff film or just randomly kidnapping and killing (after I fuck the shit out of her of course) some random little girl.


And by little girl, I mean like 18 or 19. Even I have personal standards. lol

Remind me to frisk your ass if we ever get intimate, skittles.

 

[skittles_lm]

Remind me to frisk your ass if we ever get intimate, skittles.

Noted, for the record.

Seriously, the idea of death and sex turns me on. *shrug* I got more kinks than a kiddie curly straw

 

[Chris_Xavier]

Noted, for the record.

Seriously, the idea of death and sex turns me on. *shrug* I got more kinks than a kiddie curly straw

Not that I actually expect anything to happen.

And I'll just state for the record that while I have killed men in combat, it was scary and gave me no particular thrill. Thinking about killing just leaves me cold.

I know I'm being a thread killer with that thought but it bothers me with some of the flippant comments I read.