Tales from the front lines

[LilyBart]

Why, thank you!


I admit, I have double standards.

You can get your pussy juices all over me honey, I'll love it. Squirter? Bring it on baby.

But guys' cum? Meh. I'm not grossed out by it, I have swallowed plenty of it in my times, but I'm also not a big fan of it. And I'm not putting ridiculously expensive cream in my face to have cum spewed all over it. Pussy juice is fine thought. Works well with the cream. Double standards again.

Well, then love...lets just agree to disagree.
(I can't speak for the feminine juice, as all I know is my own. I just know I like boy juice. Especially if he does clean-up.) Seriously.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Well, then love...lets just agree to disagree.
(I can't speak for the feminine juice, as all I know is my own. I just know I like boy juice. Especially if he does clean-up.) Seriously.

I'm with you on the cleaning-up. If boy juice is going to land on me, I much prefer that the guy cleans it up nicely afterwards. Particularly if it's on my feet.

Another point against cum-on-face. Having the guy licking it off my face, now that's gross. Ew.

 

[LilyBart]

I'm with you on the cleaning-up. If boy juice is going to land on me, I much prefer that the guy cleans it up nicely afterwards. Particularly if it's on my feet.

Another point against cum-on-face. Having the guy licking it off my face, now that's gross. Ew.

I just am anti-cum-on face. Ewww...

Sorry, boys.

 

[DeservingBitch]

lol, poor guy. as far as limits and things, i get all of that out of the way over the phone before a meeting ever takes place. it'd be too uncomfy for me talking about that kind of stuff in person, right there in the moment, it'd almost feel like i was running the show. maybe one reason why it works well for you?

OK, I have a question for you. Please feel free to tell me to mind my own business.

In the vanilla escorting world that I know, I would say that 9 guys out of 10 want you to ride them. The cowgirl thing is a big turn on apparently. They want you to fuck them almost as much as they want to fuck you.

Now, I don't think that any particular sexual activity is inherently submissive or dominant -- but I've heard many submissive women say that they don't like to be in that position. Do you have any issue with it, or do you see it just as part of your service? Or maybe the clients you get aren't as much into it as the vanilla boys I get?

 

[Homburg]

Just because it's you and I'm nice, I would do it for free.

Well, you feed me and provide me with decent coffee. Other than that, free.

Sounds like a deal. Meal, coffee, etc. Now I just have to arrange to somehow get up to that frozen wilderness you call home.

 

[Bandit58]

OK, I have a question for you. Please feel free to tell me to mind my own business.

In the vanilla escorting world that I know, I would say that 9 guys out of 10 want you to ride them. The cowgirl thing is a big turn on apparently. They want you to fuck them almost as much as they want to fuck you.

Now, I don't think that any particular sexual activity is inherently submissive or dominant -- but I've heard many submissive women say that they don't like to be in that position. Do you have any issue with it, or do you see it just as part of your service? Or maybe the clients you get aren't as much into it as the vanilla boys I get?

I'm not a sex worker, but thought I'd chime in
Sir has a bad back and knees, so sexual positions are limited. He loves when I ride Him, because He gets visual stimulation. He can order me to play with my breasts or clit, and watch me move up and down on Him.

I don't see it as me being in a dominant position, rather it's obeying Sir and doing what He prefers

 

[CarolineOh]

This is a fascinating thread. Thanks to everyone involved.

I am a caterer. As I read some of the comments about demanding clients, I thought of some of mine!

 

[ownedsubgal]

OK, I have a question for you. Please feel free to tell me to mind my own business.

In the vanilla escorting world that I know, I would say that 9 guys out of 10 want you to ride them. The cowgirl thing is a big turn on apparently. They want you to fuck them almost as much as they want to fuck you.

Now, I don't think that any particular sexual activity is inherently submissive or dominant -- but I've heard many submissive women say that they don't like to be in that position. Do you have any issue with it, or do you see it just as part of your service? Or maybe the clients you get aren't as much into it as the vanilla boys I get?

girlie you can feel free to ask me anything you like.

that's actually a good question. i'm one of those subbies who doesn't care for the cowgirl thing...not so much because i view it as being controlling of the action (i'm still moving exactly the way that particular guy wishes for me to move), but because it makes me feel very self-conscious to be that exposed to someone. i'm fine with someone looking at me, but i don't want to SEE them looking at me.

but with the men i see, the majority of them like to use me in a variety of positions throughout the course of the session. so if i have to do cowgirl, it'll only be for like, 5 mins. also a lot of guys get really aggressive in that position, i don't get too many of the laying back and letting me go at it types, most are thrusting wildly back up at me, digging their fingers into my hips, etc. i only have one client (in his 60s) who for physical reasons can only have IC in the cowgirl position, and he pretty much doesn't/can't move at all.

 

[DeservingBitch]

girlie you can feel free to ask me anything you like.

that's actually a good question. i'm one of those subbies who doesn't care for the cowgirl thing...not so much because i view it as being controlling of the action (i'm still moving exactly the way that particular guy wishes for me to move), but because it makes me feel very self-conscious to be that exposed to someone. i'm fine with someone looking at me, but i don't want to SEE them looking at me.

but with the men i see, the majority of them like to use me in a variety of positions throughout the course of the session. so if i have to do cowgirl, it'll only be for like, 5 mins. also a lot of guys get really aggressive in that position, i don't get too many of the laying back and letting me go at it types, most are thrusting wildly back up at me, digging their fingers into my hips, etc. i only have one client (in his 60s) who for physical reasons can only have IC in the cowgirl position, and he pretty much doesn't/can't move at all.

That's interesting.

The guys I've had so far who are the most enthusiastic about the cowgirl thing also tend to be the laying back and letting me go at it types.

I think I'm cursed with do-me-bottoms.

 

[DeservingBitch]

This is a fascinating thread. Thanks to everyone involved.

I am a caterer. As I read some of the comments about demanding clients, I thought of some of mine!

Oh yes. I've worked as a waitress for many years, the last couple years in expensive fine cuisine restaurants. Johns tend to be more respectful and decent than your average patron in those restaurants. Women in particular were real bitches.

 

[YourCaptor]

when it comes to me and men, the safest best 99.99% of the time is to just do it. if you wanna touch, touch. hard, soft, face, pussy, doesn't matter...i just want a person to be as comfortable as possible and for everything to flow naturally. asking my permission feels really weird...i mean, i'm a slave, submissive, slut and whore. not your prom date.

That’s exactly why I wish you where here.

 

[YourCaptor]

The cowgirl thing is a big turn on apparently.

cowgirl + belly dancer = something so hot it makes me drool just thinking about it

 

[SweetGigi]

cowgirl + belly dancer = something so hot it makes me drool just thinking about it

did someone say belly dancing?

 

[DeservingBitch]

cowgirl + belly dancer = something so hot it makes me drool just thinking about it

Yeah, I can see that. Which makes me a disappointing cowgirl: I don't have the belly nor the boobs to make the bouncing factor interesting.

 

[YourCaptor]

did someone say belly dancing?

Yes, definitely did.

Belly dancing is so ridiculously hot that combining it with sex is likely to result in a vegetative state.

Judging by your profile picture you dance, you certainly have the muscle for it.

I think you may find losing my attention to rather difficult from now on.

 

[SweetGigi]

Yes, definitely did.

Belly dancing is so ridiculously hot that combining it with sex is likely to result in a vegetative state.

Judging by your profile picture you dance, you certainly have the muscle for it.

I think you may find losing my attention to rather difficult from now on.

and you are my Captor, you say? *wiggles*

Yes, i do belly dance. I have been doing so for several months now. It is AMAZING for your body and has given me a new balance I never had before. (and that is saying something about this former acrobat) I'll have to take some photos or Video of me dancing some time and post it up. It's really too bad I don't have anyone to dance for any more. Oh well, though, right? Thanks for the compliment. How nice of you to say.

 

[YourCaptor]

and you are my Captor, you say? *wiggles*

Yes, i do belly dance. I have been doing so for several months now. It is AMAZING for your body and has given me a new balance I never had before. (and that is saying something about this former acrobat) I'll have to take some photos or Video of me dancing some time and post it up. It's really too bad I don't have anyone to dance for any more. Oh well, though, right? Thanks for the compliment. How nice of you to say.

You know you really shouldn’t have said that because now you have to post pics and videos. Don’t leave a bloodhound your sent.

No doubt it does wonders for balance, never having a steady center of mass. I assume it work’s wonders on your core as well.

In the self defense course at the uni, whenever we get a dancer or x dancer, we just show them the parts to a kick and within half a minute they can kick with some serious lethality, all the balance required is already their

Youtubes sexy belly dancer

 

[SweetGigi]

You know you really shouldn’t have said that because now you have to post pics and videos. Don’t leave a bloodhound your sent.

No doubt it does wonders for balance, never having a steady center of mass. I assume it work’s wonders on your core as well.

In the self defense course at the uni, whenever we get a dancer or x dancer, we just show them the parts to a kick and within half a minute they can kick with some serious lethality, all the balance required is already their

Youtubes sexy belly dancer

Thanks for the link. I will see about having one of my pals record me this weekend during practice and posting it on YT. WARNING: I have only been at it for several months. I am in NO way a pro, or near this girl's abilities, but I'd like to think I can shake m'thang and roll a camel or two. Please, any other belly dancers, don't judge my style or technique. I'm still learning.

 

[YourCaptor]

Thanks for the link. I will see about having one of my pals record me this weekend during practice and posting it on YT. WARNING: I have only been at it for several months. I am in NO way a pro, or near this girl's abilities, but I'd like to think I can shake m'thang and roll a camel or two. Please, any other belly dancers, don't judge my style or technique. I'm still learning.

Nobody is going to take you to task for dancing, if a warning label was to apply it would read something like

Warning: smoldering hot content may cause permanent addiction

 

[SweetGigi]

Nobody is going to take you to task for dancing, if a warning label was to apply it would read something like

Warning: smoldering hot content may cause permanent addiction

Awe, thank you!!

 

[MzChrista]

I listend to an interesting interview with Midori recently that talked about playing in front of an audience, and why she does so with firends and models, not her own bottoms. Found it really thought-provoking. She also discussed the absurdly freaky scene she did recently with Kumi while dressed as a bipedal octomorph, and involving something like 150lbs of fresh fish, some of which got tossed into the audience. I've seen some clips from it and was all kinds of confused. Now that I know the story behind it, I'm amazed.

It was on Greydancer's site. www.ropecast.net I believe. Relatively recent episode.

That would probably be a good thread.

I've seen Midori a couple of times at different events. Some of my friends dont like her stuff. One friend said to me Midori is into S and M: Stand and Model. hahaha
But I have to give it up for skill, you know what I mean? Yeah, I dont do the elaborate stuff she does, but I can dig it. Everything doesnt have to be a lesson. Some things can be art.

 

[MzChrista]

I swear, once I gain a bit more experience, I'm going to go this route. I do very well with the callers who want little girls. *Sigh* I've already been told I sound too damned cute to do "strict, demanding Mistress" with any believability.

Ah, well, from what I can tell, there are plenty of pigtail pervs out there.

Listen, I am little. And I can make that work for me in topping a guy. The contrast of a small women lording it over a big guy can be a turn on for them. Its all about emphasizing the power exchange. Like, Yeah, if we fought you could squash me but Im in charge and you aint! So mouth shut and ass up, boy!

If your voice is girlish, make that work for you. Turn the tables on them.

 

[MzChrista]

Dude.

Do not listen TOO much to dispatch or people in the mainstream of the biz.

1. Little girl's not kosher on the platform I use, they're paranoid like that. It is everywhere else, just a thought there.

2. So you can't do strict and demanding leather clad posh bitch. Neither can I. If you're after guys who want a cartoon, that's a liability, but there are other cartoons.

I bet you could be young, spoiled 19 year old money Goddess who doesn't have to lift a finger all day, buy me THAT Daddy. A lot of pigtail pervs get off on spoiling paying for and being pushed around by someone so socially inferior as a young woman without money.

Young voice + bad attitude = very hot. Very lucrative. A lot of guys get off like insanely at Dominant women who are much much younger and the emasculation provided by that setup.

There ya go.

 

[MzChrista]

Oh - I'm just remembering now:

Billy is the only guy so far who pinned me down as queer -- like a lot of guys do, he asked if I have a partner, but instead of asking if I have a BF, he asked if I have a GF.

How the fuck did he know? He's so socially awkward, the kind of person who doesn't get non-verbal clues, I don't understand how he could pick up on this.

Maybe he just figures all sex workers are queer. Probably saw it in a movie.

 

[MzChrista]

Why, thank you!


I admit, I have double standards.

You can get your pussy juices all over me honey, I'll love it. Squirter? Bring it on baby.

But guys' cum? Meh. I'm not grossed out by it, I have swallowed plenty of it in my times, but I'm also not a big fan of it. And I'm not putting ridiculously expensive cream in my face to have cum spewed all over it. Pussy juice is fine thought. Works well with the cream. Double standards again.

Well you can guess Im not a fan of the stuff. hahaha

But Ive got some tricks to use. Like making him try to shoot it in a glass and then lick it up when he misses.