Tales from the front lines

[BiBunny]

If you get an orange jump suit Ill buy a prison guard uniform.

I get what youre saying about the law and I wouldnt talk you into trouble. (Well, not that sort of trouble)

But I just want to say that it doesnt take a big investment in equiptment to get started. I have a friend who advertises herself as a "stern auntie" type. All she does is spank ass. Shes got a hairbrush and a belt and a couple paddles and she makes good dough.

That's interesting. If I lived somewhere other than a small apartment complex with nosy neighbors and an even nosier landlady, it'd be a distinct possibility. I don't think I'd feel comfortable doing hotel rooms or the homes of other people. Hmmm...maybe when I move.

I'll know where to ask, anyway.

 

[MzChrista]

That's interesting. If I lived somewhere other than a small apartment complex with nosy neighbors and an even nosier landlady, it'd be a distinct possibility. I don't think I'd feel comfortable doing hotel rooms or the homes of other people. Hmmm...maybe when I move.

I'll know where to ask, anyway.

I can see it now. Aunt Bunny's Old Fashioned House Of Discipline.

 

[BiBunny]

I can see it now. Aunt Bunny's Old Fashioned House Of Discipline.

Oh, my God, the mental images that conjures up....

 

[Homburg]

You are right on all counts.

I love playing in front of an audience. Maybe that ought to be its own thread.

I listend to an interesting interview with Midori recently that talked about playing in front of an audience, and why she does so with firends and models, not her own bottoms. Found it really thought-provoking. She also discussed the absurdly freaky scene she did recently with Kumi while dressed as a bipedal octomorph, and involving something like 150lbs of fresh fish, some of which got tossed into the audience. I've seen some clips from it and was all kinds of confused. Now that I know the story behind it, I'm amazed.

It was on Greydancer's site. www.ropecast.net I believe. Relatively recent episode.

That would probably be a good thread.

 

[Homburg]

I can see it now. Aunt Bunny's Old Fashioned House Of Discipline.

That would be an awesome name for a website. Seriously, that would sell. Bikitty already has a nice camera, and it ain't too expensive to get a DVR. Get someone to make a website for you and you'll be off and rolling.

Hell, I wish I knew someone that could do a commercial site on the cheap.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Right, I would totally watch your show. Call the networks, and get this woman on cable.

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This thread kills. Easily the most interesting thread on Lit in a long, long time.

You are right on all counts.

I love playing in front of an audience. Maybe that ought to be its own thread.

Interestingly enough, I have huge performance anxieties as soon as there are more than me and the guy in the room.

I did two calls with other girls so far. Both were parties with a bunch of guys, we're there to entertain, and eventually give some more personal attention to one guy. Part of it is fun and less work because all the entertaining doesn't rest on your shoulders only, it's also much easier to feel safe and relax, but I don't control all the action, I have to tune myself with the other girls... basically, it's not my show anymore.

 

[DeservingBitch]

That's interesting. If I lived somewhere other than a small apartment complex with nosy neighbors and an even nosier landlady, it'd be a distinct possibility. I don't think I'd feel comfortable doing hotel rooms or the homes of other people. Hmmm...maybe when I move.

I'll know where to ask, anyway.

One way around it is to rent a hotel room yourself, and do incalls from there. That's what a lot of indy girls who don't have a space to do incalls do.

 

[DeservingBitch]

Oh yeah. I always feel like Im performing when I do a scene. (Shit its even called "do a scene"). And there is such a thing as Dom Space. For me, when I am really ON and everything is working, its almost as if I have floated out of myself and I am watching from the outside.

That's it. Exactly.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Personal bounds are funny things.

I could pro-sub in a scene OK. It's acting. I don't think I could screw. I'm not above it, afraid of it or anything of the sort, I just know it's not in my personal makeup. I would just not be all right with it.

see that's my big problem...i can't act. not one bit. someone wants to do roleplay, or for me to fake a bunch of O's and moans....they're outta luck with this one. if it's not real i can't get into it, and if i'm not into it, i don't know how to pretend to be. my honesty would be a total buzzkill for the typical john.

"does that feel good?"
"no."
"you can cum if you want"
"i won't."
"tell me you love my cock"
"uh, i love your cock?"

for the same reasons, i can't see lifestylers who want to see me and engage in a "scene"...it's not a part of my "real" life, and not something i've ever really understood. if you wanna tie me up, spank me, flog me, whatever...just do it, no need to make a broadway production out of it.

 

[DeservingBitch]

my honesty would be a total buzzkill for the typical john.

"does that feel good?"
"no."
"you can cum if you want"
"i won't."
"tell me you love my cock"
"uh, i love your cock?"

hahaha. Yeah, probably a buzzkill for a lot of guys. Good thing I'm a dishonest bitch who likes to make a broadway out of my life.

On another note, this whole 'I wanna make you cum' thing is rather annoying. I've faked more orgasms in the last couple weeks than I did in 15 years of fucking for free.

I blame all those chick mags for this. All their talks about female orgasms over the years have been taken way too literally and seriously. Good thing thought that they didn't include tips on how to recognize a female orgasm. It still boggles my mind that most guys remain so clueless about it. A few 'yes oh god yes' coupled with some pelvic contraction (thank you keggle) and here you have john's manhood reaffirmed.

 

[Homburg]

if you wanna tie me up.

I'm sure there were other words there that were important, but I like these ones, and figured they needed more attention.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I'm sure there were other words there that were important, but I like these ones, and figured they needed more attention.

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[ownedsubgal]

hahaha. Yeah, probably a buzzkill for a lot of guys. Good thing I'm a dishonest bitch who likes to make a broadway out of my life.

On another note, this whole 'I wanna make you cum' thing is rather annoying. I've faked more orgasms in the last couple weeks than I did in 15 years of fucking for free.

you aren't kidding about that one. the editors of cosmo need to burn in hell for spreading that nonsense. no matter how long i talk with people beforehand, and explain over and over again that i'm a submissive, i ONLY care about their pleasure, i ONLY care about service, i do NOT orgasm or wish to do so, be as selfish as you want, etc...STILL i have a few for whom the message just doesn't compute. they wanna turn me on, get me juicy, make me cum, make me beg for it. soooooo barking up the wrong tree, and it's always so hard to break it to them. but being ever-honest, i do. rather than fake it, i just remind them and say "i don't cum, just use me as you like." and for the most part they can snap outta that mindset eventually and start focusing on them. i really think a lot of it is wrapped up in fear, they're afraid to just totally let go and allow themselves to be a primal, raw utterly selfish User. for your avg. vanilla guy, they've never been "allowed" to go there, and have suppressed that part of their nature to such an extent that one might almost think it wasn't there anymore. almost. i view being the catalyst to releasing that caveman within as my whole purpose in the biz.

 

[RJMasters]

you aren't kidding about that one. the editors of cosmo need to burn in hell for spreading that nonsense. no matter how long i talk with people beforehand, and explain over and over again that i'm a submissive, i ONLY care about their pleasure, i ONLY care about service, i do NOT orgasm or wish to do so, be as selfish as you want, etc...STILL i have a few for whom the message just doesn't compute. they wanna turn me on, get me juicy, make me cum, make me beg for it. soooooo barking up the wrong tree, and it's always so hard to break it to them. but being ever-honest, i do. rather than fake it, i just remind them and say "i don't cum, just use me as you like." and for the most part they can snap outta that mindset eventually and start focusing on them. i really think a lot of it is wrapped up in fear, they're afraid to just totally let go and allow themselves to be a primal, raw utterly selfish User. for your avg. vanilla guy, they've never been "allowed" to go there, and have suppressed that part of their nature to such an extent that one might almost think it wasn't there anymore. almost. i view being the catalyst to releasing that caveman within as my whole purpose in the biz.

That almost sounded poetic. I gotta admit there is nothing funner than to throw a woman over your shoulder and while hauling her off to the bedroom, smacking her bottom saying mine...mine.... mine... lol.

 

[DeservingBitch]

That almost sounded poetic. I gotta admit there is nothing funner than to throw a woman over your shoulder and while hauling her off to the bedroom, smacking her bottom saying mine...mine.... mine... lol.

Fun is one of those relative concepts.

 

[RJMasters]

I often talked with my boss about some of his activities regarding escort services. He often will get a woman who will come live with him at his house for a week. Pays her like 1500.00 a week to be there. He takes her also to really nice resturants and such and they just have a week long fuck fest. I have met a few of them at the office, even helped do some photo shoots of them. Sort of a perk for them as they get to use them at the agency.

For him, he can pretty much get sex any time he wants it, he's handsome and has somewhat of a dominant personality, but he doesn't want long lasting relationships. He's had his fill of women who have played him for his money. Now he figures its cheaper to just pay for a week of fun. She gets what she wants, he gets what he wants and life is so much less complicated that way. It is interesting hearing his side of thing in light of what I hear in this thread.

Most of the women he has had, seem to enjoy the total clear use/use situation. They get to stay in his large house with pool and jacuzzi, go to events like plays and stuff, and screw like rabbits for a week.

It almost seems like every guy's dream to live the playboy life he does, yet over the time we have gotten to know each other, he has often said he is envious of me and my life and often speaks about feeling alone in his.

 

[RJMasters]

Fun is one of those relative concepts.

Yep, yep it is.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I often talked with my boss about some of his activities regarding escort services. He often will get a woman who will come live with him at his house for a week. Pays her like 1500.00 a week to be there. He takes her also to really nice resturants and such and they just have a week long fuck fest. I have met a few of them at the office, even helped do some photo shoots of them. Sort of a perk for them as they get to use them at the agency.

For him, he can pretty much get sex any time he wants it, he's handsome and has somewhat of a dominant personality, but he doesn't want long lasting relationships. He's had his fill of women who have played him for his money. Now he figures its cheaper to just pay for a week of fun. She gets what she wants, he gets what he wants and life is so much less complicated that way. It is interesting hearing his side of thing in light of what I hear in this thread.

Most of the women he has had, seem to enjoy the total clear use/use situation. They get to stay in his large house with pool and jacuzzi, go to events like plays and stuff, and screw like rabbits for a week.

It almost seems like every guy's dream to live the playboy life he does, yet over the time we have gotten to know each other, he has often said he is envious of me and my life and often speaks about feeling alone in his.

1500$ for a week??? Wow. That's what I would charge for an overnight, ie 12 hours. And I know that the standards around here for that kind of arrangement is about 1000/day.

But even for the right amount of money, it is unlikely that I would agree to spend a week with a client. First, I have a life that I can't just put on hold for a week. Secondly, a week can be VERY long depending who you're spending it with. I won't even do an overnight unless I know the guy already and like him enough to spend 12 hours straight with him.

I did a 5 hours 'date' with a guy: dinner, lounge, than hotel room. I was exhausted when I came back home. Fucking is NOT the hardest part of this job. It's easy to fake an orgasm and make a guy come. It's exhausting to fake interest and sympathy when there is none. In this case, the guy was nice enough and not an idiot. He was just extremely boring and unidimensional. I cannot imagine spending an entire week with a guy like that. No money is worth boring me to death. Especially if I have to smile through it.

 

[DeservingBitch]

I'm also phone talent. I have a "literate generalist lite-Dominant friendly sexpert" character for when I'm really broke and can salvage the energy to care deeply about other people's kinks in a kind caring way, and a main line which is largely dishing verbal abuse and whatever I feel like doing.

I somehow missed that the first time I read your post. So, are you working the main line on a regular basis still? I would so want to call you and listen to your verbal abuse!

I am actually impressed by phone work like you and Bunny do. I don't have that talent. Maybe 'cause I've never done phone sex, nor have I ever called a sex-line. So, I have no idea how this works.

 

[Netzach]

I somehow missed that the first time I read your post. So, are you working the main line on a regular basis still? I would so want to call you and listen to your verbal abuse!

I am actually impressed by phone work like you and Bunny do. I don't have that talent. Maybe 'cause I've never done phone sex, nor have I ever called a sex-line. So, I have no idea how this works.

Semi regular. It's funny, I've never really called anyone else myself, so I have to take their word for it on what the usual customer experience is like!

 

[DeservingBitch]

Semi regular. It's funny, I've never really called anyone else myself, so I have to take their word for it on what the usual customer experience is like!

Question for you and Bunny: how do you size the guy on the phone? how do you get a feel of what he's like and what he's into?

I know how to get there in person without having to go into interrogation mode. But how do you do it on the phone?

 

[BiBunny]

I actually hate phone sex with people I know. I always have. For some reason, though, there's something incredibly entertaining about doing it with complete strangers. Maybe it's because I really don't give a shit if they think I sound funny or something.

 

[BiBunny]

Question for you and Bunny: how do you size the guy on the phone? how do you get a feel of what he's like and what he's into?

I know how to get there in person without having to go into interrogation mode. But how do you do it on the phone?

Well, I work for a dispatch service, so the dispatcher calls my phone, tells me the guy's name, and how long he can talk. If she has any notes on him, or if he's told her what he's looking for, she tells me. I also keep my own notes, so if I've talked to the guy before, I look at them. Then, she transfers him to me.

For a guy I've never talked to and for whom the dispatcher doesn't really have any information, I just make regular old small talk to begin with. At some point, dude's going to say something like, "I'm horny," or "I'm playing with my cock," or whatever. That's where I say something like, "Well, what's on your mind tonight, honey?" They're usually pretty forthcoming about what they want, actually, but there's always the occasional one you have to pry information out of. If that happens, I finally just say, "Well, I like everything. What do you like?" Direct questioning has only failed me a time or two, LOL.

 

[Wyldfire]

Well, I work for a dispatch service, so the dispatcher calls my phone, tells me the guy's name, and how long he can talk. If she has any notes on him, or if he's told her what he's looking for, she tells me. I also keep my own notes, so if I've talked to the guy before, I look at them. Then, she transfers him to me.

For a guy I've never talked to and for whom the dispatcher doesn't really have any information, I just make regular old small talk to begin with. At some point, dude's going to say something like, "I'm horny," or "I'm playing with my cock," or whatever. That's where I say something like, "Well, what's on your mind tonight, honey?" They're usually pretty forthcoming about what they want, actually, but there's always the occasional one you have to pry information out of. If that happens, I finally just say, "Well, I like everything. What do you like?" Direct questioning has only failed me a time or two, LOL.

Oh that's funny! The other lady in our relationship and I paid for a phone sex session for our man and he went right to the "Pry it out of him" mode. Now we could bring him (And we have) someone to play with but if he can't see them he locks up.

 

[Homburg]

LOL!


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